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Partners Phone And Privacy. by 123joesun(m): 9:22pm On Oct 30, 2022
Would you mind if your partner looked through your phone?

If so, why?

This happen during one relationship and this how I played it out.

Please follow through��

Her: I would like to see your phone. Can you hand it over?

Me: Oh, and may I ask why?

Her: Do I need a reason to look at it?

Me: If you want to violate my privacy, I say you should do so with cause.

Her: I just want to see it. Do you have problem with that?

Me: Actually, I don’t.

(Places phone on the table)

Me: Your turn.

Her: Excuse me?

Me: Place your phone on the table, so I can look through it too.

Her: Why do you want to see my phone?

Me: I just want to see it. Do you have problem with that?

Her: Do you not trust me?

Me: I never said that, but since we’re on the topic…

Her: I trust you!

Me: Your request would suggest otherwise.

Her: I am not letting you see my phone!

Me: Then I’m not letting you see mine.

(Takes the phone off the table)

Her: What are you hiding?

Me: What are you hiding?

Her: Nothing!

Me: Same here, so let’s trade phones.

Her: NO!

Me: Then I guess we’re at an impasse. I don’t mind letting you see my phone, but one thing I will not stand for is hypocrisy. If I’m not allowed to see your phone, then by default you are not allowed to see mine.

Her: What kind of bullsh*t is that?

Me: It’s called equality. Look it up.

Her: How is that equality?

Me: If you want me to jump through some hoops to prove my loyalty and that I’m trustworthy, then you cannot refuse to jump through the same hoops yourself. That not only looks as shady as fu*k, but it also makes you a hypocrite!

Her: Show me your phone or we’re through!

Me: Show me your phone.

Her: NO!

Me: There’s the door. Have a nice life…

Her: You bastard!

Me: Sticks and stones… get the fu*k outta here!

Door: SLAM!

Me: (Face palm)
Re: Partners Phone And Privacy. by 123joesun(m): 10:55pm On Oct 30, 2022
PARTNERS i.e Husband&Wife Must have had some level of understanding before committing themselves into that lifetime PARTNERSHIP

PARTNERS i.e boyfriend&girlfriend
Always respect her decision. Remember you are a boyfriend not her husband or father.

Not letting you read her messages will never be any boyfriend's right.
This is what is know as CONTROL

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