sexkillz:

HI!
Thank you for specifically drawing my attention here! but i'd have preferred you made it an open topic without specifically naming me and then watch out for my comments! So said because, i'm not perfect and i make mistakes too! Neither am i special! And in addition, my advise to you may not really work out because the way i think may not be the way others do, and there could also be a more matured response, perhaps from someone who has experienced this situation, firsthand in the past!

Take it or leave it, she is CHEATING ON YOU! Unless you can provide some irrevocable proof that she is NOT CHEATING! lying is very closely related to cheating! Why would she lie in the first place? She is also SMARTER than you! You may not have realised it earlier, but you now have! If i'm to go with the line of thought that says "she's not cheating because i know", then i'll like to add that She's also BORED of YOU and the relationship! YOU TWO HAVE NO FUTURE TOGETHER!!! The Truth be told! Why because, I dont see you trusting her AGAIN even if she does TRULY REPENT! That could pose some serious problems in the future because you'll end up questioning her every move, which is not good for ANY relationship!

If i were in your shoes, i'll end the relationship! But if there's any REASON why you would want to continue with her, then you two need to have a lonnng DISCUSSION! Confront her with her lies and ask her WHY! If she evades the Questions, thats the last signal for you to TAKE A WALK! If she responds positively, then outline your future plans for you two and then tell her your fears about her lying attitude and that you dont want a situation where you'll doubt her further! This all i can say for now until i hear from you!

I can ONLY give you advice BASED on my experiences. But the final decision, rests SOLELY on you! NO ONE should CRITICIZE any DECISION you choose to make!

squino:

@SIlknSteel, i believe you know whats called private chat and secondly replies like that of Mekaboy's d cause and @ Mynd_44 im sure you'll collapse @ d sight of me.

Back to Sexkillz, errm bro, i know she ain't cheatin but with what u have said, im 1% skeptical now, but the lyin part is just part of her because most times it's about very common things not worth lyin about and then goes ahead to analyz the lie makin it very palatable and i can't cope with such. I've tried talkin to her a couple of times but there s no change only gettin worse, i would have said she's muguing me but she's very carin, lovin, callz me at least 2 times a day if i don't plus she demands nada from me and pays her bills, i only chip in once in a while.

squino:

@SIlknSteel, i believe you know whats called private chat and secondly replies like that of Mekaboy's d cause and @ Mynd_44 im sure you'll collapse @ d sight of me.

Back to Sexkillz, errm bro, i know she ain't cheatin but with what u have said, im 1% skeptical now, but [size=15pt]the lyin part is just part of her[/size] because most times it's about very common things not worth lyin about and then goes ahead to analyz the lie makin it very palatable and[size=15pt] i can't cope with such. I've tried[/size] talkin to her a couple of times but[size=15pt] there s no change only gettin worse,[/size] i would have said she's muguing me but she's very carin, lovin, callz me at least 2 times a day if i don't plus she demands nada from me and pays her bills, i only chip in once in a while.

That's it RIGHT THERE! You are speaking your mind @ the Bolded! I was once told that if something happens once, it's an ACCIDENT, if the same thing happens twice, it's a CO-INCIDENCE, but if it happens the third time, well. . . .
I must confess that the behavior is WEIRD! I'll still say she is CHEATING on YOU! And She is Definitely OUT SMARTING YOU! Or She is not really that into the relationship! I mean who does that?

It's Your Call BRO! You've tried talking to her, there's NO CHANGE and it's GETTING WORSE! Finally, you said YOU CANT COPE WITH SUCH! But you still are! How long you'll continue to put up with that is up to you my man!
Make your Decision about her WISELY! I'm a STRONG BELIEVER that ANYONE can CHANGE! It depends on the approach used in talking to her! But if you finally decide to call it OFF! Make sure it STAYS OFF! Else you'll find your self asking why you broke up with a girl that never cheated on you and showed you love! You'll also realize that you could have made her CHANGE! And then, you'll see yourself strolling back to her, like a lost puppy! That's gonna be a DISASTER!!!

BE THE MAN! CALL YOUR SHOTS AND STICK TO THEM! EVERYTHING DEPENDS ON YOU NOW!

MzDarkSkin:

lol @ sexkillz. hmm seems we have a relationship expert in the building. i am not mad at that. i might need some advice myself. lol.

LOL! I dont think so! I just reason out of the box at times! Nothing SPECIAL!

sexkillz:

HI!
Thank you for specifically drawing my attention here! but i'd have preferred you made it an open topic without specifically naming me and then watch out for my comments! So said because, i'm not perfect and i make mistakes too! Neither am i special! And in addition, my advise to you may not really work out because the way i think may not be the way others do, and there could also be a more matured response, perhaps from someone who has experienced this situation, firsthand in the past!

Take it or leave it, she is CHEATING ON YOU! Unless you can provide some irrevocable proof that she is NOT CHEATING! lying is very closely related to cheating! Why would she lie in the first place? She is also SMARTER than you! You may not have realised it earlier, but you now have! If i'm to go with the line of thought that says "she's not cheating because i know", then i'll like to add that She's also BORED of YOU and the relationship! YOU TWO HAVE NO FUTURE TOGETHER!!! The Truth be told! Why because, I dont see you trusting her AGAIN even if she does TRULY REPENT! That could pose some serious problems in the future because you'll end up questioning her every move, which is not good for ANY relationship!

If i were in your shoes, i'll end the relationship! But if there's any REASON why you would want to continue with her, then you two need to have a lonnng DISCUSSION! Confront her with her lies and ask her WHY! If she evades the Questions, thats the last signal for you to TAKE A WALK! If she responds positively, then outline your future plans for you two and then tell her your fears about her lying attitude and that you dont want a situation where you'll doubt her further! This all i can say for now until i hear from you!

I can ONLY give you advice BASED on my experiences. But the final decision, rests SOLELY on you! NO ONE should CRITICIZE any DECISION you choose to make!

BABE!:

I have a strong feeling that OP is advising himself/herself.

BABE!:

I have a strong feeling that OP is advising himself/herself.  

Then ask OAM4J to help you trace IP addresses! That would help you stop having silly feelings and also make you avoid jumping into BASELESS conclusions! Sarcasm or NOT!

sexkillz:

Then ask OAM4J to help you trace IP addresses! That would help you stop having silly feelings and also make you avoid jumping into BASELESS conclusions! Sarcasm or NOT!

sexkillz:

Dont even know why i bothered replying you in the first place!

It's coz you love me!  Who doesn't love this female? 

Cover up kwa? I don't need to cover up na. If I'm being sarcastic, I'm being sarcastic. If I'm not, I'm not. It's that simple. If you can't handle it, dive into the Red sea without an oxygen tank. 

What's so crass about me saying I think you're the OP? Abeg pack well jo!