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| Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by manni(m): 11:50pm On Aug 22, 2007 |
Is there any need discussing your last relationship with your new girl or guy ? |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by nosilla(f): 11:58pm On Aug 22, 2007 |
In my honest opinion I would say not at all. nosillA xx |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by manni(m): 12:03am On Aug 23, 2007 |
Nosilla why? well to me i think its ok ,if there is a basic understanding between two people |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by Sexytruth0(f): 12:33am On Aug 23, 2007 |
Yes you should, somethings need to be talked about. |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by yimiton(f): 4:18pm On Aug 23, 2007 |
Yes, talk about it, it makes your partner understand you better. You don't have to go about insulting your ex or bad mouthing the person, just the basics, like y you broke up, things you loved and things you couldn't stand. This will help your new partner understand what you really love and what you can't stand. Enjoy! |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by iice(f): 6:34pm On Aug 23, 2007 |
Depends on the relationship and the people involved |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by manni(m): 11:17pm On Aug 23, 2007 |
hi iice ,can yu pls explain better |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by iice(f): 2:53pm On Aug 24, 2007 |
Hmmmmm Some relationships arent that deep. . .old memories sometimes don't come into play. No one asks, no tales told. Some people cannot handle somethings. If he/she is the jealous, paranoid, over-possessed type, erhhhh that can trigger somethings. . .what am saying, best be knowing the person so as to know what to reveal and when to reveal. |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by pejubaby(f): 3:36pm On Aug 24, 2007 |
i dont really buy the idea of discussing about your past relationship, i suggest been quit when u ar not ask. and speak as at when due.  |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by pejubaby(f): 3:46pm On Aug 24, 2007 |
Hmmmmm Some relationships arent that deep. . .old memories sometimes don't come into play. No one asks, no tales told. Some people cannot handle somethings. If he/she is the jealous, paranoid, over-possessed type, erhhhh that can trigger somethings. . .what am saying, best be knowing the person so as to know what to reveal and when to reveal. i dont think it should be discussed at all. |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by iice(f): 3:53pm On Aug 24, 2007 |
pejubaby, when you reply, scroll down and look on the right hand side of your screen, you will see 'insert quote' just beside the post of the person. . .to make it easier for you Nwayz, sometimes somethings are meant to be discussed. Especially if you are still around your ex/exes. . .makes your current partner understand you more and it could help with your present relationship |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by manni(m): 10:13pm On Aug 24, 2007 |
hi pejubaby and iice ,you guys are right,to be honest,its not easy - cos you might just be caught up in a relationship that might last for a life time(marriage).your partner might just be really hurt to find out that you had a hidden past that never came out till after marriage-trust me i have seen it happen |
| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by tpia6: 1:37am On Jan 30, 2011 |
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| Re: Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help? by freedomfro(f): 4:04am On Jan 30, 2011 |
manni: So very true, I know my lover is hiding something, and it will come out one day. but I'm preparing myself for it cause i do love him. |
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