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Why Are Boys So Complicated by 9jafetish(f): 9:37pm On Aug 23, 2011
Every single guy that has ever came up to me has ONLY wanted to use me.
They would lie that they wanted a relationship with me ,just to get some or have a girl to play around.
all of them have been childish,and retarded.


so tell me where can i find guys who are serious and not childish ,am i curse or something.

i don't even wear clothes that indicate i am EASY, heck i don't even show skin and i am very quiet.


if i am curse please tell me what the cure is.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by MMM2(m): 9:41pm On Aug 23, 2011
becos i have long pen*s angry
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by MMM2(m): 9:43pm On Aug 23, 2011
op
if i nyash u ur problem is finished in dis life winkwink
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by MMM2(m): 9:46pm On Aug 23, 2011
op
can i date u for 1nite stand angryangry
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by claremont(m): 9:48pm On Aug 23, 2011
@OP: The law of attraction states that birds of a feather flock together, there must be something in you that attracts the kind of guys you meet to you. The key to your issue lies in identifying what that thing is, it is definitely not a curse.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by coogar: 9:49pm On Aug 23, 2011
9jafetish:

Every single guy that has ever came up to me has ONLY wanted to use me.
They would lie that they wanted a relationship with me ,just to get some or have a girl to play around.
all of them have been childish,and slow.


so tell me where can i find guys who are serious and not childish ,am i curse or something.
i don't even wear clothes that indicate i am EASY, heck i don't even show skin and i am very quiet.
if i am curse please tell me what the cure is?

you are the cause of your own problems.
stop dating boys. . . . .seek for men.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by BodyKiss(m): 9:56pm On Aug 23, 2011
OP, with all those empty spaces below your post, I was expecting to see your pic.

Come see me, let me do some palm ready on you. I can tell you about your relationship after that. I swear i won't yansh you. cool
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by claremont(m): 9:57pm On Aug 23, 2011
coogar:

you are the cause of your own problems.
stop dating boys. . . . .seek for men.
^^^
@OP: Coogar has spoken! Ignore his advice at your own peril!
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by kokoye(m): 9:59pm On Aug 23, 2011
Mountain of Fire . . .or Synagogue . . .or naked bath @ Bar beach.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by 9jafetish(f): 11:05pm On Aug 23, 2011
claremont:

@OP: The law of attraction states that birds of a feather flock together, there must be something in you that attracts the kind of guys you meet to you. The key to your issue lies in identifying what that thing is, it is definitely not a curse.
so tell me what makes a guy want to start a relationship with a girl?
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by amblors(m): 11:51pm On Aug 23, 2011
9jafetish:

Every single guy that has ever came up to me has ONLY wanted to use me.
They would lie that they wanted a relationship with me ,just to get some or have a girl to play around.
all of them have been childish,and slow.


so tell me where can i find guys who are serious and not childish ,am i curse or something.

i don't even wear clothes that indicate i am EASY, heck i don't even show skin and i am very quiet.


if i am curse please tell me what the cure is.

If you know what to expect from every single guy, then HOW complicated are we?
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by cantell(m): 12:05am On Aug 24, 2011
9jafetish:

Every single guy that has ever came up to me has ONLY wanted to use me.
They would lie that they wanted a relationship with me ,just to get some or have a girl to play around.
all of them have been childish,and slow.


so tell me where can i find guys who are serious and not childish ,am i curse or something.

i don't even wear clothes that indicate i am EASY, heck i don't even show skin and i am very quiet.


if i am curse please tell me what the cure is.

Murphy's law states that - before you meet your handsome prince, you must kiss a lot of frogs.
It means you must go thru what you're passing thru now.
Some women meet their first guy and he turns out to be the "one" while some have to go thru murphy's law. Even beautiful girls get their own share of heartbreak!
No matter how beautiful a woman is, there's a man who is tired of her.
Your case is not different. You just have to keep searching and never give up.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by pleep(m): 12:07am On Aug 24, 2011
can u guys not give idiotic replies to every topic? its not funny.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by ruthy28(f): 12:13am On Aug 24, 2011
girl u re definetly not cursed is just the way of life in fact i see it as a rite of passage if u can go throught this stage of ur life then hell girl u can go through anything
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by pleep(m): 12:15am On Aug 24, 2011
Your not dating the zealot pastor, the ugly kid, or the geeky guy for a reason.  As undesirables those people r they most likely will not just want to use you.

So stop feeling sorry for yourself, there are worse things out there.

btw why dont u put a picture up  wink
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by Nobody: 12:23am On Aug 24, 2011
^^ true bro there are worst things in life out there.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by pleep(m): 1:12am On Aug 24, 2011
^thx.
Location: "blastin bon jovi" haha, thats ironic I did that today in my car.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by Mynd44: 4:00am On Aug 24, 2011
coogar:

you are the cause of your own problems.
stop dating boys. . . . .seek for men.

OR
kokoye:

Mountain of Fire . . .or Synagogue . . .or Unclad bath @ Bar beach.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by 9jafetish(f): 5:20am On Aug 24, 2011
pleep:

Your not dating the zealot pastor, the ugly kid, or the geeky guy for a reason.  As undesirables those people r they most likely will not just want to use you.

So stop feeling sorry for yourself, there are worse things out there.

btw why dont u put a picture up  wink
not that i think i am ugly, i just don't want some people to know i come on here.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by tpia5: 5:23am On Aug 24, 2011
haha.

nairaland will be respectable some day, maybe.

not holding my breath though.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by Princek12(m): 6:52am On Aug 24, 2011
9jafetish:

not that i think i am ugly, i just don't want some people to know i come on here.

Post a picture of yourself (showing your body) so that I can give you a tailored advice. If you are concerned about disclosing your identity, blur out your face in the picture. I can still advice you with a picture with a blurred face.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by Nobody: 7:09am On Aug 24, 2011
What a topic of discussion! Op, u are just unnecessary pushing yourself too hard. Cool down n relax your brain. No need to display ur pix. My question is, how old are u?
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by claremont(m): 8:51am On Aug 24, 2011
9jafetish:

so tell me what makes a guy want to start a relationship with a girl?

In no particular order;

1. S-ex

2. Interesting personality

3. Is she a future wife material?
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by Nobody: 8:53am On Aug 24, 2011
Op i disagree with u in clears terms. Women are more complicated than men. From experience
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by kpolli(m): 11:54am On Aug 24, 2011
Do not mean to sound rude, but u probably attract the wrong guys. . . .
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by Princek12(m): 1:21pm On Aug 24, 2011
Women are way, way more complicated than men. Men are simple, and any woman with common sense knows what men want. To understand women, you need at least a babalawo, a genie in a bottle, a crystal ball, and seven alfas and pastors fasting for 70 days and 70 nights. Even with all that, you may get it wrong. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by Goldieluks: 1:40pm On Aug 24, 2011
@OP, quit dating boys.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by marcus1234: 1:43pm On Aug 24, 2011
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by nassiwa: 1:58pm On Aug 24, 2011
It's because they are just boys, real men will never go to a girl only to take advantage of her. Be patient you will get a real man who will respect you.
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by Plarp: 3:04am On Apr 15, 2013
Really, the kinda guys that approach you is just random...
Re: Why Are Boys So Complicated by Nobody: 6:53am On Apr 15, 2013
9jafetish:
so tell me what makes a guy want to start a relationship with a girl?

Do you have a "reputation" of either being slutty or being a user of men?
Most guys when considering a girl they don't know may ask about her from someone who they know.
If you've left a "legacy", no man wants that mess. And it is also an indicator that such habits will resurface in the future.

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