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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Softmirror: 10:26am On Nov 13, 2022
Blakjewelry:

Welcome to a world were the first the black man thinks is sex, the brain is like a computer it is programmable plus it adapt to certain style of use, the more we focus on sex the more we want it that is why we as black are not productive. You hardly see group of guys talking without women as the major topics. I think we have a very big problem.

THAT'S WHY PORNOGRAPHY HAS IT'S ROOTS IN AFRICA . EUROPEANS AND AMERICANS CAN NEVER FORGIVE AFRICANS FOR ESTABLISHING PORNOGRAPHY INDUSTRIES IN WHITE MAN'S COUNTRIES. EVEN PROSTITUTION IS A BLACK MAN'S CULTURE EXPORTED TO WHITES. WHITES HARDLY KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT SEX UNTIL THE TRAVELED DOWN TO AFRICA CENTURIES AGO.

undecided

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by stacyadams: 10:28am On Nov 13, 2022
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool This topic make SENTENCES well well..


As for me... I no de spend 2much on ASHAWOO..


5h or 1k, I don NACK ASHAWOO come back house jeje..


Enter lekki, u go see 15 girls living in a single room..


Tell me, waiting be der job, der job na ASHAWOO..


yesterday I JAZZ in PEKAS hotel for ikeja opebi..


NaSo girls de rush me like say I be burna boy..


Guys! na December we de enter so ooo..


Make u no say bag of rice don cost pass one plot of land oo


spend wisely..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!
. W T F man boggie grin

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by narite: 10:39am On Nov 13, 2022
Blakjewelry:

Welcome to a world were the first the black man thinks is sex, the brain is like a computer it is programmable plus it adapt to certain style of use, the more we focus on sex the more we want it that is why we as black are not productive. You hardly see group of guys talking without women as the major topics. I think we have a very big problem.
Donald Trump said it better...

“All an Africa man thinks about is embezzlement and sex” Donald Trump

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:40am On Nov 13, 2022
LoL for politicians it's understandable. The money is taken freely. Some politicians even have access to cbn printing machines and can print as much naira as they want and spend as they want so spending 700k on sex is like spending 10 naira. The problem is when a man who earns 100k a month spends 30k on sex. That ones destiny is gone grin grin cheesy

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Softmirror: 10:40am On Nov 13, 2022
3lovelyflowers I AGREE WITH YOUR POINT. ONLY A FOOLISH MAN SPENDS SO MUCH ON PUCCY IN THIS DAY AND AGE. VAG!NA HAS LITTLE OR NO VALUE BECAUSE ITS SO READILY AVAILABLE ANYWHERE YOU GO AND FOR FREE, OR AS LITTLE AS A BOTTLE OF MALTINA, OR INDOMI.

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by narite: 10:43am On Nov 13, 2022
holocron:
You are saying the men should spend the money on the less privileged. The men paying the girls for sex, are they not helping the less privileged? Or are the girls not among the less privileged? What you should be worrying about is if the girls are using the monies for something useful.

If you like no take your share, after all is said and done, na six feet under the ground for all.
When you die..do you think your life; the works of your creator ends here?
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by techWriter1: 11:17am On Nov 13, 2022
Only God will avert some men Na some men make some woman the way they are today
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Carmanbiz: 11:26am On Nov 13, 2022
Chenult:


Well said. How do I connect with you pls?

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Carmanbiz: 11:30am On Nov 13, 2022
Softmirror:


THAT'S WHY PORNOGRAPHY HAS IT'S ROOTS IN AFRICA . EUROPEANS AND AMERICANS CAN NEVER FORGIVE AFRICANS FOR ESTABLISHING PORNOGRAPHY INDUSTRIES IN WHITE MAN'S COUNTRIES. EVEN PROSITUTION IS A BLACK MAN'S CULTURE EXPORTED TO WHITES. WHITES HARDLY KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT SEX UNTIL THE TRAVELED DOWN TO AFRICA CENTURIES AGO.

I disagree with you on this.

undecided

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Nobody: 11:32am On Nov 13, 2022
Carmanbiz:


Can you hint me your intention for contacting me first please?

This is a different monicker from the one I quoted. Are you the same person?

If yes, I need you to help me get a laundry work in your hotel pls. I am willing to equally share my fisrt month salary, if it's okay by you?
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by honour7: 11:47am On Nov 13, 2022
let me hurriedly do this.

I know people would say is it your money? But I think sometimes a person can be stupid without knowing he's stupid. Someone needs to tell him.

I work in a big hotel, a 5-star hotel that big and rich people come to patronize and it's sad to see how men allow sex to control them in such a sad way.

I'm privy to most important information around the hotel and I can tell you men pay girls as much as N1 million to sleep with them for just a night. I don't want to start citing instances but one because of a particular girl.

She was paid N700k for just a night by a politician. In addition, the man paid for extra 3 nights for her to stay in the hotel after which he left. The excitement made her to share the gist with us, brought out 50k and shared with us (some of the hotel staff)

There are so many other instances like that where girls collect another person's annual earning by just opening her legs for a man in one night.

This is money that could be put to good use - community project, scholarship, financial empowerment, helping the needy and so on. These men have poor neighbors surrounding them in their streets. They have young people who do not have something doing and need empowment. Poverty is not from their community and Nigeria at large. Sadly, these men prefer to lavish this money on girls that go round sleeping with different men each night.

As a woman working in such a hotel, the temptation is never easy for me seeing such money but thanks to God I never fell for it for once. I have had guests who came to me with 200k proposal if I can spend the night with them or even to allow them have sex with me just once but I declined, even with my meagre salary. I'm not bragging.


It's pure stupidity spending 50k and above on a hookup/runsgirl/prostitute/sidechick for just a night. Rather, impact the life of those around you positively.

Thank you.[/quote]

While this is true, you must understand that majority of men paying that high use it for occultism. My ex once told me of a case were luckily for the girl she used a female condom without the man noticing and was paid about 300k for the sex, when she brought out the condom after the do and the guy has left, what she saw instead of sperm were ants and crawling insects. That was the day she stopped hookup.

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by MaziBiafra042: 12:57pm On Nov 13, 2022
hmmmm,some shaa..jxt bcus of pussy? undecided

My money no de enta any woman hand bcus of tin in between.... We de wait for marriage b4 we go begin enjoy am
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Ireportlive: 2:55pm On Nov 13, 2022
Until you enter game finish, you won't know why Politicians, Business men and Yahoo boys spend heavily changing clean girls to grace their beds
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by AbujaCitiBlog: 3:28pm On Nov 13, 2022
3lovelyflowers:
It's nonsensical to spend so much on sex - men please stop it.

I always wanted to write about this but lack of time was a challenge. So in reaction to this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7429886/some-girls-now-shamelessly-into

let me hurriedly do this.

I know people would say is it your money? But I think sometimes a person can be stupid without knowing he's stupid. Someone needs to tell him.

I work in a big hotel, a 5-star hotel that big and rich people come to patronize and it's sad to see how men allow sex to control them in such a sad way.

I'm privy to most important information around the hotel and I can tell you men pay girls as much as N1 million to sleep with them for just a night. I don't want to start citing instances but one because of a particular girl.

She was paid N700k for just a night by a politician. In addition, the man paid for extra 3 nights for her to stay in the hotel after which he left. The excitement made her to share the gist with us, brought out 50k and shared with us (some of the hotel staff)

There are so many other instances like that where girls collect another person's annual earning by just opening her legs for a man in one night.

This is money that could be put to good use - community project, scholarship, financial empowerment, helping the needy and so on. These men have poor neighbors surrounding them in their streets. They have young people who do not have something doing and need empowment. Poverty is not from their community and Nigeria at large. Sadly, these men prefer to lavish this money on girls that go round sleeping with different men each night.

As a woman working in such a hotel, the temptation is never easy for me seeing such money but thanks to God I never fell for it for once. I have had guests who came to me with 200k proposal if I can spend the night with them or even to allow them have sex with me just once but I declined, even with my meagre salary. I'm not bragging.

My point here is that, some men have allowed sex to control their minds such that they now "stupidly" spend on sex instead of channeling the money to helping their poor neighbours and the society at large. If I were to be rich (as a man or woman), I would definitely not spend money this way.

To me, I don't see much in sex that someone should be losing his senses over. Men please, you can do better. Don't prioritize sex.

It's pure stupidity spending 50k and above on a hookup/runsgirl/prostitute/sidechick for just a night. Rather, impact the life of those around you positively.

Thank you.
If you are a man and you are spending 100s of thousands for sex the then know that you are a big fool. When as a man of you package yourself very well 10 K you go Bleep tire. Only fools waste money on sex.

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by EzeNwaanyiMmili(f): 4:29pm On Nov 13, 2022
Ireportlive:
Until you enter game finish, you won't know why Politicians, Business men and Yahoo boys spend heavily changing clean girls to grace their beds
thunder fire Tinubu - Ireportlive Moh247
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Skillsnigeria: 4:31pm On Nov 13, 2022
The lord will deliver them
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Yankee101: 5:32pm On Nov 13, 2022
Amen
God bless this writeup
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by benzion72(m): 7:27pm On Nov 13, 2022
It is not about the sex but taking those girls virtues and luck. Those girls may never amount to anything in life except through serious prayers

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by holocron: 7:55pm On Nov 13, 2022
VeeVeeMyLuv:
it is wrong that's why our country is so twisted & backward, the family unit completely destroyed because of this thing.

If u wanna help the less privileged must it be through this thing? Op is not saying fucking is wrong. Ofcourse it is our natural right.

What he is that splashing such amount is wrong. It has a multiplier effect of destroying the value system. It mocks and rubbishes the girls who choose to do legit work.

These monies they are even splashing is mostly I'll gotten, looted, stolen, embezzled funds.

Check it out na, does it make sense? If someone daughter is seeking for a job or appointment letter, the person daughter will be mandated to Bleep even guys are not left out shocked shocked Bleep Bleep Bleep! Wetin?

The economy is not bouyant bcoz money is not circulating, why? Because such money or cash has been stash by these same guys in geepee tanks, sockaways, farms, bunkers!

You talk go here, talk go there, without addressing the crux of the matter. I tire. OP is complaining about the 'consensual' meetings between men and women in the hotel where she works, and the large amounts paid out to the girls. What's there to complain about? The girls worked for their money without compulsion. The men paid out willingly. You complain that the men locked down money, now they are releasing it through that avenue, you are still complaining? If you want to label it prostitution, is it not the oldest profession in the world? And it is legal in some oyibo countries. Besides, is there any man that knows a woman biblically without paying for it before or after- be it girlfriend or wife? So what are we talking about?
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by ruggedtimi(m): 9:41pm On Nov 13, 2022
And the money ends on iphone 14 and fake hair
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by MacFerdinand(m): 11:18pm On Nov 14, 2022
reality check

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by culf: 5:26am On Nov 15, 2022
3lovelyflowers:
It's.

most times its not ordinary, they take a lot from some of those girls.

I heard a story where a guy is overseas was returning and ask his friend here to arrange babe for him in abuja to keep him company. The friend sent over 5 different pics of babes, they guy rejected all of them. When she said what happened, he confided in her that they were all used, you get?
All that glitters are not gold my dear.

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Tradepunter2: 5:37am On Nov 15, 2022
Hollybratt:
Coming from a rungirl
grin

Men shut up, she's saying the truth...

Na niaja men be their fellow men problem...

They will spend on useless things because of a girl and will defend their stupidity by saying nu be my money...

I can never spend on a woman when I know my fellow niggas I call bros are hungry...

If you want to spend on a girl she must be doing a business that you can invest in...

Niggas always forget you can't be at the top forever, na you fellow man go rise you up when you down...
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Hollybratt(m): 6:22am On Nov 15, 2022
Tradepunter2:


Men shut up, she's saying the truth...

Na niaja men be their fellow men problem...

They will spend on useless things because of a girl and will defend their stupidity by saying nu be my money...

I can never spend on a woman when I know my fellow niggas I call bros are hungry...

If you want to spend on a girl she must be doing a business that you can invest in...

Niggas always forget you can't be at the top forever, na you fellow man go rise you up when you down...
Osheyy motivational speaker grin
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Vernon26(m): 6:42am On Nov 15, 2022
thesicilian:
Everything you say is true, op. The fact that you are female even gives more credence to it.
I'll encourage you to maintain your integrity pls, your type is a dying breed. Seeing a girl who is not moved by "easy money" is like seeing a unicorn.
sheesh this ur post needs to be minted i swear.

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Vernon26(m): 6:46am On Nov 15, 2022
The truth is amount of laziness on both sexes these days is alarming. Nigeria's future is just going to be, runs girls and yahoo boys everywhere. Omo
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by Streetmovement(m): 6:50am On Nov 15, 2022
Wotoporiously cool speaking

Na mumu dey pay that kind money for sex
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by advanceDNA: 8:32am On Nov 15, 2022
A prostituté Pvssy is a pvssy that belongs to everybody ....whoever pays can have it...tht spit inide, they cum inside, they do watever thy want.......e no worth pass 5k.....if u pay more than 5k ...u are cheating urself....
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by grandstar(m): 6:30pm On Dec 27, 2022
3lovelyflowers

The other day, I was talking with a Christian sister about her dad's death and that he left some properties behind. When she mentioned 'properties', something clicked in my mind: her father was able to leave properties behind because he wasn't wasting money on women outside. We are Jehovah's Witnesses.

My dad would have left lots of properties behind if he didn't womanize. He eventually had 3 wives all due to his womanising. He was compelled to marry those who had children for him. And even then, he was still misbehaving.

If a man does not womanize and the couple work together in money management, a lot of wealth can be accumulated, though I am not a fan of joint accounts grin grin grin grin

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Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:12am On Jan 01, 2023
3lovelyflowers:
It's nonsensical to spend so much on sex - men please stop it.

I always wanted to write about this but lack of time was a challenge. So in reaction to this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7429886/some-girls-now-shamelessly-into

let me hurriedly do this.

I know people would say is it your money? But I think sometimes a person can be stupid without knowing he's stupid. Someone needs to tell him.

I work in a big hotel, a 5-star hotel that big and rich people come to patronize and it's sad to see how men allow sex to control them in such a sad way.

I'm privy to most important information around the hotel and I can tell you men pay girls as much as N1 million to sleep with them for just a night. I don't want to start citing instances but one because of a particular girl.

She was paid N700k for just a night by a politician. In addition, the man paid for extra 3 nights for her to stay in the hotel after which he left. The excitement made her to share the gist with us, brought out 50k and shared with us (some of the hotel staff)

There are so many other instances like that where girls collect another person's annual earning by just opening her legs for a man in one night.

This is money that could be put to good use - community project, scholarship, financial empowerment, helping the needy and so on. These men have poor neighbors surrounding them in their streets. They have young people who do not have something doing and need empowment. Poverty is not from their community and Nigeria at large. Sadly, these men prefer to lavish this money on girls that go round sleeping with different men each night.

As a woman working in such a hotel, the temptation is never easy for me seeing such money but thanks to God I never fell for it for once. I have had guests who came to me with 200k proposal if I can spend the night with them or even to allow them have sex with me just once but I declined, even with my meagre salary. I'm not bragging.

My point here is that, some men have allowed sex to control their minds such that they now "stupidly" spend on sex instead of channeling the money to helping their poor neighbours and the society at large. If I were to be rich (as a man or woman), I would definitely not spend money this way.

To me, I don't see much in sex that someone should be losing his senses over. Men please, you can do better. Don't prioritize sex.

It's pure stupidity spending 50k and above on a hookup/runsgirl/prostitute/sidechick for just a night. Rather, impact the life of those around you positively.

Thank you.

The wealth is mostly from looted, stolen, embezzled funds.

because they didn't really work for it, they spend it recklessly.
Re: It's Nonsensical To Spend So Much On Sex - Men Please Stop It by kals4luv990(m): 11:19am On Jan 01, 2023
Hollybratt:
Coming from a rungirl
grin
Thought yu would finish your Jan 1st without being stupid

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