otipoju:
She is sleeping with him already and they want you to know. Eventually they will give you poison so that they can be one happy family with their son.

He is the same guy she was with when she was in school. They are continuing from where they stopped.

Go and do DNA on the boy and let the woman go to her lover so uou can have peace of mind.

The lady my girlfriend cheated with back in school is the same guy she married years after even after she had slept with other guys as well.

The day I told her that I already known years before that I was never going to marry her and just eating my share until the relationship expires, she wanted to run mad.

No let them play you street.

Lee99:
I for like talk but the brother above me has said it all. Stop ignoring the excess red flags, kid is probably not yours. It's well. Start with the Fear Woman tablets, 3 in the morning 3 in the afternoon and 3 at night.

Adun27:
Our relationship is 8yrs now, we dated for 6 years before she officially leaving with me
I am not legally married to her right now because of personal reasons. She had cheated on me in 2019( that's the only one I know ), I didn't take it too serious we are both in the University but different schools, that shit happens in school. The main issue is this.. " lately a male colleague has been calling her, I told her 3 weeks ago that I don't like it and whatever he wants to tell her can wait for the next working day, she flare up that night and left the sitting room , normally we go to bed together any time I get done working, she went to bed that night with that anger, I never raised a fight with her. She roses early the next day and bath, bath our only son too, she left for work very early, she had never gone to work that time before, she got to work and in some hours I receive some messages on Whatsapp , he's apologizing that he calling my wife, I never replied him ( She claimed that the guy noticed her face and came to ask thats why she told him, meanwhile I never even fought her, their office are next to each other as she claimed)
Now after my woman and the guy knows that, some days ago the guy called my woman just to ask why she didn't come to work, he asked how her husband is doing too and that was the conversation I could here because she put it on loud speaker. After that I checked my woman's phone when she didn't know, I found out that the Guy is still calling her , I also saw that my woman still calling him too though not everyday, I asked her why she had ridiculed me so much , after going to report me to the guy about this calling, you are calling him and he is still calling you, don't you and the guy knows that it's dangerous for your relationship? , She flared up again I have had sex with my woman only 7 times in 3 months, she keeps saying she doesn't want to get pregnant soon and I should go buy condom , we haven't been using condom since we started 8 years ago( she got pregnant recently and we had to abort it because our son is only 11 months)
She does how's chores perfectly and also support me financially only when I don't have, I'm the Man of my house."
What's happening here ?
Please only married people

otipoju:
She is sleeping with him already and they want you to know. Eventually they will give you poison so that they can be one happy family with their son.

He is the same guy she was with when she was in school. They are continuing from where they stopped.

Go and do DNA on the boy and let the woman go to her lover so uou can have peace of mind.

The lady my girlfriend cheated with back in school is the same guy she married years after even after she had slept with other guys as well.

The day I told her that I already known years before that I was never going to marry her and just eating my share until the relationship expires, she wanted to run mad.

No let them play you street.

shortgun:
I don't think she's sleeping with him yet, She doing that to get you all jealous and worked up.
Ignore her and find a random girl to call.
Always laugh out very loud whenever you are on call with this random girl.
Do this, seat back and watch the universe fight ur battles.

If you want to get the best out of a Nigerian woman, let other women compete with her for your attention.

oz4real83:
You are a thief, just listen to yourself!!!. You said she was your wife and has been living with you for 8 years, yet you are not legally married to her , how does that make her your wife? She is tired of waiting for you to marry her, maybe you are looking for an expensive wedding when all she wants is just to be legally married no matter how simple the ceremony will be. Do you know emotional toll it took on her to abort a baby for you, against her wish, all because you claimed your baby was too young and you still refused to use condoms even after that? She is gradually losing her love for you and it's your fault. Chopping free food for over 8 years and still not matured enough to do the right thing.

Octopusssy:
See this woman chopping somebody's daughter instead of doing the needful. Shior. I don't blame you, I blame her

shortgun:

Are they not chopping each other?
Is he not someone's son too?

shortgun:

Oga go and seat down somewhere abeg.
You think marriage is only when people gather and eat rice then dance to music?

Whenever two adults come to agreement to live together as man and wife they are husband and wife.

Adun27:
Our relationship is 8yrs now, we dated for 6 years before she officially leaving with me
I am not legally married to her right now because of personal reasons. She had cheated on me in 2019( that's the only one I know ), I didn't take it too serious we are both in the University but different schools, that shit happens in school. The main issue is this.. " lately a male colleague has been calling her, I told her 3 weeks ago that I don't like it and whatever he wants to tell her can wait for the next working day, she flare up that night and left the sitting room , normally we go to bed together any time I get done working, she went to bed that night with that anger, I never raised a fight with her. She roses early the next day and bath, bath our only son too, she left for work very early, she had never gone to work that time before, she got to work and in some hours I receive some messages on Whatsapp , he's apologizing that he calling my wife, I never replied him ( She claimed that the guy noticed her face and came to ask thats why she told him, meanwhile I never even fought her, their office are next to each other as she claimed)
Now after my woman and the guy knows that, some days ago the guy called my woman just to ask why she didn't come to work, he asked how her husband is doing too and that was the conversation I could here because she put it on loud speaker. After that I checked my woman's phone when she didn't know, I found out that the Guy is still calling her , I also saw that my woman still calling him too though not everyday, I asked her why she had ridiculed me so much , after going to report me to the guy about this calling, you are calling him and he is still calling you, don't you and the guy knows that it's dangerous for your relationship? , She flared up again I have had sex with my woman only 7 times in 3 months, she keeps saying she doesn't want to get pregnant soon and I should go buy condom , we haven't been using condom since we started 8 years ago( she got pregnant recently and we had to abort it because our son is only 11 months)
She does how's chores perfectly and also support me financially only when I don't have, I'm the Man of my house."
What's happening here ?
Please only married people

Octopusssy:

Who pays the bride price? The man or the woman?

Cohabitation and having kids outside wedlock has negative spiritual implications.

oz4real83:
your statement shows that you are an illiterate. Marriage is a contract that is legally binding, two partners can decide to live together and have babies for years, that doesn't make them husband and wife, they are only partners before the law just like this OP and the partner in question. To separate, a married couple must also go before the law to separate them unlike partnership where you don't need such.

shortgun:

Before the law two people can get "married" to fulfill the requirements of a law for interests like green card and monetary compensations without living for one day as husband and wife.....this is not marriage.

You are the illiterate one here if you base your arguments only on the law without objectivity

koladata:
usually when relationship or marriage is over 10years, 99 percent of women will cheat, its a sad truth.

We can only hope to God that our wives should be among the 1 percent. That's why the whites are way ahead of us , they divorce before the 10years and everybody moves on with their new se.x partner because in the real sense sleeping with the same person for 10 years might be boring for a woman. And as for the men , we've already left our fore father's culture to follow gambari for yansh.

Adun27:
Our relationship is 8yrs now, we dated for 6 years before she officially leaving with me
I am not legally married to her right now because of personal reasons. She had cheated on me in 2019( that's the only one I know ), I didn't take it too serious we are both in the University but different schools, that shit happens in school. The main issue is this.. " lately a next working day, she flare up that night and left the sitting room , normally we go to g, she went to bed that night with that anger, I never raised a fight with her. She roses early the next day and bath, bath our only son too, she left for work very early, she had never gone to work that time before, she got to work and in some hours I receive some messages on Whatsapp , he's apologizing that he calling my wife, I never replied him ( She claimed that the guy noticed her face and came to ask thats why she told him, meanwhile I never even fought her, their office are next to each other as she claimed)
Now after my woman and the guy knows that, some days ago the guy called my woman just to ask why she didn't come to work, he asked how her husband is doing too and that was the conversation I could here because she put it on loud speaker. After that I checked my woman's phone when she didn't know, I found out that the Guy is still calling her , I also saw that my woman still calling him too though not everyday, I asked her why she had ridiculed me so much , after going to report me to the guy about this calling, you are calling him and he is still calling you, don't you and the guy knows that it's dangerous for your relationship? , She flared up again I have had sex with my woman only 7 times in 3 months, she keeps saying she doesn't want to get pregnant soon and I should go buy condom , we haven't been using condom since we started 8 years ago( she got pregnant recently and we had to abort it because our son is only 11 months)
She does how's chores perfectly and also support me financially only when I don't have, I'm the Man of my house."
What's happening here ?
Please only married people

Adun27:
Our relationship is 8yrs now, we dated for 6 years before she officially leaving with me
I am not legally married to her right now because of personal reasons. She had cheated on me in 2019( that's the only one I know ), I didn't take it too serious we are both in the University but different schools, that shit happens in school. The main issue is this.. " lately a male colleague has been calling her, I told her 3 weeks ago that I don't like it and whatever he wants to tell her can wait for the next working day, she flare up that night and left the sitting room , normally we go to bed together any time I get done working, she went to bed that night with that anger, I never raised a fight with her. She roses early the next day and bath, bath our only son too, she left for work very early, she had never gone to work that time before, she got to work and in some hours I receive some messages on Whatsapp , he's apologizing that he calling my wife, I never replied him ( She claimed that the guy noticed her face and came to ask thats why she told him, meanwhile I never even fought her, their office are next to each other as she claimed)
Now after my woman and the guy knows that, some days ago the guy called my woman just to ask why she didn't come to work, he asked how her husband is doing too and that was the conversation I could here because she put it on loud speaker. After that I checked my woman's phone when she didn't know, I found out that the Guy is still calling her , I also saw that my woman still calling him too though not everyday, I asked her why she had ridiculed me so much , after going to report me to the guy about this calling, you are calling him and he is still calling you, don't you and the guy knows that it's dangerous for your relationship? , She flared up again I have had sex with my woman only 7 times in 3 months, she keeps saying she doesn't want to get pregnant soon and I should go buy condom , we haven't been using condom since we started 8 years ago( she got pregnant recently and we had to abort it because our son is only 11 months)
She does how's chores perfectly and also support me financially only when I don't have, I'm the Man of my house."
What's happening here ?
Please only married people

zexy2030:

U r dumb, u Lack intelligence

Adun27:
Our relationship is 8yrs now, we dated for 6 years before she officially leaving with me
I am not legally married to her right now because of personal reasons. She had cheated on me in 2019( that's the only one I know ), I didn't take it too serious we are both in the University but different schools, that shit happens in school. The main issue is this.. " lately a male colleague has been calling her, I told her 3 weeks ago that I don't like it and whatever he wants to tell her can wait for the next working day, she flare up that night and left the sitting room , normally we go to bed together any time I get done working, she went to bed that night with that anger, I never raised a fight with her. She roses early the next day and bath, bath our only son too, she left for work very early, she had never gone to work that time before, she got to work and in some hours I receive some messages on Whatsapp , he's apologizing that he calling my wife, I never replied him ( She claimed that the guy noticed her face and came to ask thats why she told him, meanwhile I never even fought her, their office are next to each other as she claimed)
Now after my woman and the guy knows that, some days ago the guy called my woman just to ask why she didn't come to work, he asked how her husband is doing too and that was the conversation I could here because she put it on loud speaker. After that I checked my woman's phone when she didn't know, I found out that the Guy is still calling her , I also saw that my woman still calling him too though not everyday, I asked her why she had ridiculed me so much , after going to report me to the guy about this calling, you are calling him and he is still calling you, don't you and the guy knows that it's dangerous for your relationship? , She flared up again I have had sex with my woman only 7 times in 3 months, she keeps saying she doesn't want to get pregnant soon and I should go buy condom , we haven't been using condom since we started 8 years ago( she got pregnant recently and we had to abort it because our son is only 11 months)
She does how's chores perfectly and also support me financially only when I don't have, I'm the Man of my house."
What's happening here ?
Please only married people

koladata:
i check your profile , you are looking for wife on nairaland , you can't find one in real life because you have a big mouth