| . by Mammie330: 7:41pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
I got married few months ago after dating my husband for some years.
Our relationship was really beautiful and I was the envy of most ladies. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: . by brosom(m): 7:52pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Not every flirt be cheat, there are innocent ones.  Don't make mountain were there isn't. 12 Likes |
| Re: . by TUANKU(m): 7:54pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
You didn't notice all these while dating? The man is a cookie monster and can't keep his hand off the cookie jar.
You guys need to sit and talk. It's a disrespectful thing to do your partner. 4 Likes |
| Re: . by Hollybratt(m): 7:56pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
He can never change again, just divorce!
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IRMC 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: . by OnlineArchitect: 7:57pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Sit him down and have a heart to heart conversation with him.. Let him understand that you're pained by his actions and it affects you emotionally...
Hope you guys are always together, if no that could be the reason he's acting that way.. But above all don't forget to keep him in ur prayers.... I pray for peace in ur home and that of many others facing troubles and having similar experiences in their homes... 8 Likes |
| Re: . by Zonefree(m): 8:01pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Kids have taken over this marriage of a thing  2 Likes |
| Re: . by advanceDNA: 8:02pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Another Community husband....
Partners with very high body counts and lack of sexual discipline always have their exes and numerous fvck potentials in thier dm and whatsapp, waiting for call or text for action...
..u marry them..u marry high BP 10 Likes |
| Re: . by yomi007k(m): 8:19pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
brosom:
Not every flirt be cheat, there are innocent ones.
Don't make mountain were there isn't. But would you as a man take such type of actions from a woman, I mean your wife flirting with other men ? Yes or No? 5 Likes |
| Re: . by GOFRONT(m): 8:24pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Madam, Dont forget, Men are Polygamous in Nature!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: . by brosom(m): 8:30pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
yomi007k:
But would you as a man take such type of actions from a woman, I mean your wife flirting with other men ?
Yes or No? It all depends on the type spouse we marry. As for ne, I trust my lady. 1 Like |
| Re: . by yomi007k(m): 8:32pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
brosom:
It all depends on the type spouse we marry.
As for ne, I trust my lady.  I always knew you won't be able to answer either Yes or No....because you can't take it. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: . by Sonnobax15(m): 8:33pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
 Wetin person no do for relationship,he don dey do am now for relation-boat,na wa oh Well,I believe at a certain stage in our lives, change is something that'd likely be a constant thing..... But how often? Like seriously,I was once like your hubby.... Three months ago when my banny visited me,she got access to my messenger...Guess what,she found out similar things your hubby is doing..I pleaded with her,and she forgave..After that,I stopped doing all that......You see, relationship and marriage is all about understanding......Try sit your hubby down and reason with am, before one of those under age Tiktok bannies go snatch am away from your with those their thin thin waists 3 Likes |
| Re: . by Sheistoopretty(f): 8:34pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
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| Re: . by brosom(m): 8:54pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
yomi007k:
I always knew you won't be able to answer either Yes or No....because you can't take it. Just as I knew you won't be able to understand that when I said I trust my woman, it means yes.  1 Like |
| Re: . by Divoc19(f): 8:57pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Don't stress much by thinking about what he does out there. The hard truth here is that you are alone in this marriage. Enjoy him when he is around and think less of him when he is gone. Only report him mildly for the record not for anybody to beat him up. Babe this is your reality, you can't change a grown man. Welcome to adulthood where problem nor dey finish 7 Likes |
| Re: . by yomi007k(m): 9:17pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
brosom:
Just as I knew you won't be able to understand that when I said I trust my woman, it means yes.
Easier said than done. 2 Likes |
| Re: . by olaeffect(m): 9:33pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
I wonder how some men foolishly allow a woman to suspect them. Some men are just too disrespectful to their wives. The kind of respect and honour I give my wife, even if she catches me in bed with another lady she will be looking round the room to see if it is a prank or I am being held at gunpoint 20 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: . by brosom(m): 9:36pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
yomi007k:
Easier said than done. yeah but not always. |
| Re: . by juniorstar(m): 9:43pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Mammie330:
I need help.
I got married few months ago after dating my husband for some years.
Our relationship was really beautiful and I was the envy of most ladies.
At some point we had a long distance relationship but Communication was smooth.
The first time he came to visit , I discovered he had been chatting with one girl, having flirty conversations and all. He said he was just catching cruise and apologized for that. I forgave him.
Another time I discovered he doesn't know how to set boundaries with ladies.
I complained about all that and he promised to change.
This is someone that comes to visit me at any given opportunity.
Then recently I found out he had been chatting with one girl on Tiktok.
The girl already started calling him baby and I saw where he told the girl he likes her already.
As usual he said it’s not serious, that he hasn’t seen the girl and he didn’t mean that.
The girl chatted him up and he flowed because he was bored.
Truth Is I’m hurt and ashamed.
Where’s the self respect?
Someone you don’t know from anywhere.
He eventually blocked the girl but I don’t even trust him anymore.
When we were together, he wasn’t anything like that and I’m wondering what went wrong.
He keeps talking about how much he loves me and how he wouldn’t have been married to anyone else if he didn’t get married to me but at this point I’m not even moved again.
I’ve asked him countless times why he is flirting with ladies online.
He said nothing.
He said he hasn’t touched any lady apart from me.
I’m actually tired of asking, I want to know what I can do to get the pain away.
He has travelled back now and I’ll be alone for a while before we start living together as husband and wife.
Should I stop talking to him?
Should I report him to my mum?
Should I play along and just develop a coping mechanism?
What coping mechanism can i develop?
Should I keep complaining?
I didn’t allow him touch me before he travelled back and he was pained.
I really just want my man, I don’t like how he’s not making me trust him anymore.
I don’t go after other peoples’ men why should mine be like this?
Can he possibly change?
Probably you denied him the cookie while dating and you opened the door for him to have a taste of other wonderfully made God's creation now he is addicted always wanting more from different women and you are here complaining..if you see a committed man never you make him 2nd guess if not na u sabi oo. |
| Re: . by PerfectStranger(m): 9:44pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Oga is just tired of you. It’s not easy for a man to eat just egusi soup for the rest of his life.
Marriage is not any one’s mate… 1 Like |
| Re: . by techWriter1: 11:12pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Not every jill would cheat, there are innocent ones |
| Re: . by Knows12(m): 11:33pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
brosom:
It all depends on the type spouse we marry.
As for ne, I trust my lady. see u |
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| Re: . by deewhydoski(m): 3:43am On Nov 22, 2022 |
@mammiee330, pls don't tell you mum about it don't let your mum start finding fault in him. That's one of the things we were taught in marriage counseling that we should not quick to run to our parent anytime we find fault in our partner. Look for his spiritual father and report to him, I think he will call him to order 1 Like |
| Re: . by November24(f): 6:59am On Nov 22, 2022 |
Mammie330:
I need help.
I got married few months ago after dating my husband for some years.
Our relationship was really beautiful and I was the envy of most ladies.
At some point we had a long distance relationship but Communication was smooth.
The first time he came to visit , I discovered he had been chatting with one girl, having flirty conversations and all. He said he was just catching cruise and apologized for that. I forgave him.
Another time I discovered he doesn't know how to set boundaries with ladies.
I complained about all that and he promised to change.
This is someone that comes to visit me at any given opportunity.
Then recently I found out he had been chatting with one girl on Tiktok.
The girl already started calling him baby and I saw where he told the girl he likes her already.
As usual he said it’s not serious, that he hasn’t seen the girl and he didn’t mean that.
The girl chatted him up and he flowed because he was bored.
Truth Is I’m hurt and ashamed.
Where’s the self respect?
Someone you don’t know from anywhere.
He eventually blocked the girl but I don’t even trust him anymore.
When we were together, he wasn’t anything like that and I’m wondering what went wrong.
He keeps talking about how much he loves me and how he wouldn’t have been married to anyone else if he didn’t get married to me but at this point I’m not even moved again.
I’ve asked him countless times why he is flirting with ladies online.
He said nothing.
He said he hasn’t touched any lady apart from me.
I’m actually tired of asking, I want to know what I can do to get the pain away.
He has travelled back now and I’ll be alone for a while before we start living together as husband and wife.
Should I stop talking to him?
Should I report him to my mum?
Should I play along and just develop a coping mechanism?
What coping mechanism can i develop?
Should I keep complaining?
I didn’t allow him touch me before he travelled back and he was pained.
I really just want my man, I don’t like how he’s not making me trust him anymore.
I don’t go after other peoples’ men why should mine be like this?
Can he possibly change?
Same you flirt with a guy by June abi... Ndiara, or u forgotto delete it from ur post 2 Likes |
| Re: . by Slmgirldippussy: 7:07am On Nov 22, 2022 |
Mammie330:
I need help.
I got married few months ago after dating my husband for some years.
Our relationship was really beautiful and I was the envy of most ladies.
At some point we had a long distance relationship but Communication was smooth.
The first time he came to visit , I discovered he had been chatting with one girl, having flirty conversations and all. He said he was just catching cruise and apologized for that. I forgave him.
Another time I discovered he doesn't know how to set boundaries with ladies.
I complained about all that and he promised to change.
This is someone that comes to visit me at any given opportunity.
Then recently I found out he had been chatting with one girl on Tiktok.
The girl already started calling him baby and I saw where he told the girl he likes her already.
As usual he said it’s not serious, that he hasn’t seen the girl and he didn’t mean that.
The girl chatted him up and he flowed because he was bored.
Truth Is I’m hurt and ashamed.
Where’s the self respect?
Someone you don’t know from anywhere.
He eventually blocked the girl but I don’t even trust him anymore.
When we were together, he wasn’t anything like that and I’m wondering what went wrong.
He keeps talking about how much he loves me and how he wouldn’t have been married to anyone else if he didn’t get married to me but at this point I’m not even moved again.
I’ve asked him countless times why he is flirting with ladies online.
He said nothing.
He said he hasn’t touched any lady apart from me.
I’m actually tired of asking, I want to know what I can do to get the pain away.
He has travelled back now and I’ll be alone for a while before we start living together as husband and wife.
Should I stop talking to him?
Should I report him to my mum?
Should I play along and just develop a coping mechanism?
What coping mechanism can i develop?
Should I keep complaining?
I didn’t allow him touch me before he travelled back and he was pained.
I really just want my man, I don’t like how he’s not making me trust him anymore.
I don’t go after other peoples’ men why should mine be like this?
Can he possibly change?
Ogbo-oge ...if I Spell it correctly. The term mean "pass-time" most ladies your husband is chatting with are mere pass time. When I get bored I do register on dating or hook up site with random pictures just to kill time. Sometimes my wife will even pick up the conversation. After a day or two I delete and block. I have special WhatsApp that I use to do it. This days I don't do that again cos I am very busy. Don't bother ur head please I beg you. They are mere pass time. Yes one may end up fuckii one or two of them. It's not cheating Na so gbola life be. Peace 1 Like |
| Re: . by jeromestarks: 8:21am On Nov 22, 2022 |
It's your fault!
There was a time he loved you truly but you played hard to get for too long. In that time, he had found peace in chatting with other girls online.
Now you're married (because he loved you) but his joy is in other girls.
Here's what you're going to do.
Ignore! |
| Re: . by Niwdog(m): 8:34am On Nov 22, 2022 |
It seem like you are that type of boring girls when your man sends you message instead of to flow with the rhythm you will just kill the conversation before it's start
Learn to chat romantically and flirtiouslly it's for your own good
Too much of holy holy and shyness they kill relationship 1 Like |
| Re: . by Quality20(m): 9:02am On Nov 22, 2022 |
I don't think u have anything to worry about, I think it just cruise catching. real dating and cheating happens in real life in hotel rooms not online chattings like kids 1 Like |
| Re: . by Ndidi2: 9:08am On Nov 22, 2022 |
Mammie330:
I got married few months ago after dating my husband for some years.
Our relationship was really beautiful and I was the envy of most ladies.
At some point we had a long distance relationship but Communication was smooth.
The first time he came to visit , I discovered he had been chatting with one girl, having flirty conversations and all. He said he was just catching cruise and apologized for that. I forgave him.
Another time I discovered he doesn't know how to set boundaries with ladies.
I complained about all that and he promised to change.
This is someone that comes to visit me at any given opportunity.
Then recently I found out he had been chatting with one girl on Tiktok.
The girl already started calling him baby and I saw where he told the girl he likes her already.
As usual he said it’s not serious, that he hasn’t seen the girl and he didn’t mean that.
The girl chatted him up and he flowed because he was bored.
Truth Is I’m hurt and ashamed.
Where’s the self respect?
Someone you don’t know from anywhere.
He eventually blocked the girl but I don’t even trust him anymore.
When we were together, he wasn’t anything like that and I’m wondering what went wrong.
He keeps talking about how much he loves me and how he wouldn’t have been married to anyone else if he didn’t get married to me but at this point I’m not even moved again.
I’ve asked him countless times why he is flirting with ladies online.
He said nothing.
He said he hasn’t touched any lady apart from me.
I’m actually tired of asking, I want to know what I can do to get the pain away.
He has travelled back now and I’ll be alone for a while before we start living together as husband and wife.
Should I stop talking to him?
Should I report him to my mum?
Should I play along and just develop a coping mechanism?
What coping mechanism can i develop?
Should I keep complaining?
I didn’t allow him touch me before he travelled back and he was pained.
I really just want my man, I don’t like how he’s not making me trust him anymore.
I don’t go after other peoples’ men why should mine be like this?
Can he possibly change?
Naso my loving husband started, chatting different girls,some calling him and asking where he was,each time l confronted him he sd l don't even know them. I believed him bc l thought he loved me enough not to cheat on me. I don't want to tell story here I advice you to hold him n prayer and tame him,it works If u relax and believe him that he has nothing with those girls by the time u will find out how far he has gone u will be devastated. I repeat guard him jealously through prayer. 1 Like |
| Re: . by Sweetvie: 9:39am On Nov 22, 2022 |
Hmmm Forget it. That guy is not for only you  |
| Re: . by Mammie330: 12:09pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
TUANKU:
You didn't notice all these while dating? The man is a cookie monster and can't keep his hand off the cookie jar.
You guys need to sit and talk. It's a disrespectful thing to do your partner. I mentioned that it didn't happen while we were together until we were apart. 1 Like |
