Kobojunkie:
Getting some people to leave is indeed a problem but that is no reason to conclude that it is wrong to help all of the times.

maasoap:
I know some people who accommodated some family into their homes temporarily when those families were in real difficulty situations. But today, many of them regret their good gestures because those families refused to leave after many years, they became real burdens and they couldn't force them out.
Before one accommodates a struggling families, one needs to address or discuss the terms. If possible, find other way to help like giving them money to secure their own accommodation.

SETHARTHUR:
You will need accommodation help someday and everyone will tell you this.

MALIGNANTGuest:

You are not entirely correct.
A Local Food Vendor protected my wife at Waterlines junction in Port Harcourt at night. My wife had to pass the night in their thatch house.
Few years later my wife relocated to the US on permanent basis with high quality visa.
She fixed herself up and we visited Nigeria in 2018. Could you believe she remembered that woman and we flew into Port Harcourt and headed to Waterlines and we were informed she had left that place because she couldn't meet up with the rent. We traced her to OIL MILL with someone offering help.

When we met her, she never recognised her. But my wife did. RIGHT there 80% of her life problems were solved. Kids went back to school, she got a befitting shop filled with goods.
In fact, she became the talk of OIL mill area.

Today, we video chat her like a parent.
Unrestricted access to us.
Be careful in Life!

Orgasmgiver123:

Lmao
I still be Reverend that time

Sweetvie:
Lol... Coz it illegal
You're only allow to type in English

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

I dey feel you

He be like say your eye don see shege
Dooh!

Another one I also advise my siblings is that no matter what nor allow your friends know the internal problem in your family...if you want to hold a discussion on anything that has to do with the family and your friend is around please just postpone that discussion...

SETHARTHUR:
You will need accommodation help someday and everyone will tell you this.

Foodqueen:
The best visitor one could ever have is the one that knows when to leave.

Nicepoker:
Assist whenever you can. Someday it might be your turn. No matter the tears of a Nigerian girl I won't allow her sleep in my balcony. She can manage the dog's kennel after all they are all bitches.

panini:



Tell us the story behind it bro.

Personally, you can stay for the night, after that, you have to go.

Danisaint112:


Ah! you kon leave Jesus follow nyansh & breast?

Orgasmgiver123:

Breast is life
Especially watermelon sized breasts

Gandrova:
You are wrong with this ascertion. I remembered vividly 29 of May 2010, I was called for an interview in Ajaokuta kogi state and I reside in Kaduna. Which I boarded a car to Abuja and to be sincere I had no idea where the company that called me was located. I just knew I will get to my destination with Faith. We got to Lokoja around 10pm because I Left Kaduna late around after 4pm. A good Samaritan engaged me in discussion and I told him about my journey. He said it was late already that I should try and lodge in an hotel. I told him I can't afford any. He gladly took me to his house. Even though, his younger brother had second thoughts but he told him that it is good to be of help to others. I slept and proceeded the following morning. May Almighty God always locate that dude with His favor and mercy always. I will never stop praying for him.

SETHARTHUR:
You will need accommodation help someday and everyone will tell you this.

spartachico:
lol what of those typing other indigenous languages

Sweetvie:
Bcoz they can backstab you later... Soyez prudent avec qui vous permettez à votre maison

MissOpe:


Done

Pells1:
me permettrez-vous plus de votre maison à l'étranger? Sweetvie

Sweetvie:
Lol... You know how nland mod can be most times

panini:



Tell us the story behind it bro.

Personally, you can stay for the night, after that, you have to go.

Pells1:
me permettrez-vous plus de votre maison à l'étranger? Sweetvie

Nonywendy:
what if he/she refuse to go

panini:


I don't understand. Is the person holding a gun?
If I'm leaving to work, we are leaving together to part ways.

Socratiz:
It is not proper to present your experience as a format for everyone to adopt. You may have had a harrowing experience with siblings who stayed with you after your marriage but that may not be the experience of others.

It would have been more helpful if the writer gives reasons why couples are not advised to accommodate siblings after marriage than to make a blanket pronouncement not to accommodate anyone.

This is one dimensional thinking whereas life comes in different dimensions.
Life plays different balls with each person.


Don't think all your problems are solved because you're married, and that you can throw others away.

Be helpful when you can. The table can turn at any time.