You don't have any landed property, even in the village or in da city, you don't have any investment whatsoever, and you organized wedding that gulped Millions of Naira...

You borrowed with no idea how you will pay back because you are a Man/Woman of Faith
Oshey. Father Abraham.

You did pre wedding shoot, intra wedding shoot, mid wedding shoot, main wedding shoot Part 1 and 2, even did post wedding shoot, CRonaldo, keep shooting.

You bought wedding gown and shoes that cost your 3 months salary, you haven't even paid and finish self, hey God.

You sell your old furniture at give away prizes and acquire NEW ones as per NEWly wedded couple, OLD things are past away. Hallelujah

No problem you say, people wee spray you money at the wedding reception.

Now you are Married,

You cannot pick calls anymore, Photographpher is calling, Wedding gown seller wants her balance, the People that borrowed you money, they want their money. Interest is growing. Reality has dawned on you.

You start quarreling with your spouse about nothing, anger, resentment, frustration, money issues haf shown you their true color......
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Now am I against having a lavish wedding? No. Who doesn't love good things?
Not me oh, but permit me to point certain things..

1) Know your Capacity

All fingers are not equal, do not attempt to do more than you are comfortably capable of doing in an attempt to keep up with the Kardashians.

PLAN your wedding according to your POCKET not people's pocket, rich Relatives can disappoint, committee of friends may not deliver.

Whenever you try to HAVE NOW what you CANNOT AFFORD NOW, the result can only be DEBT.

2) Don't Spend all you have during your Wedding.

Have Savings to fall back on after wedding, expenses exist after wedding even more than those encountered while organizing the wedding

3) Avoid Borrowing to organize Wedding. Wedding is not an Investment.

If it is jollof Rice with malt alone you can afford to present, present it, let people talk, will they help you to pay the debts after they eat seven course meal at your wedding?

4) Manage.

You can sew Suit/Gown or hire, be classy YET economical, all is packaging, you must not rent reception hall that costs half a million that you don't have,

if someone offers to pay for you, collect the money and use it for other things,

Cooking can be done by volunteers who are capable, MANAGE NOW so you can be COMFORTABLE TOMORROW.
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After WEDDING comes MARRIAGE.


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