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Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Resonance2019: 1:01am On Dec 29, 2022 |
MadamExcellency:Sperm donor.People like you are d reason why marriage today, is in a mess. your own view Abt marriage is gii me I gii you we move. God save matrimony |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by culf: 1:04am On Dec 29, 2022 |
MadamExcellency: Haba madam! I guess you didn't read the post?,even at that is it right? lets leave sentiment aside, same way i wouldn't support a father marrying off a child without the mother's presence whether they are together or not. what is wrong is wrong. 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by TOPCRUISE(m): 1:11am On Dec 29, 2022 |
No marriage. Though the Husband has ravished and savoured whatever is left of her virginity during Honeymoon. |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by toprealman: 1:12am On Dec 29, 2022 |
Regina Daniel's mum did same...... |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Kobojunkie: 1:26am On Dec 29, 2022 |
Resonance2019:Wrong! That honor instead goes to your ancestors who thought marriage/spousal abandonment and women as property made sense. 3 Likes |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Desusi: 3:02am On Dec 29, 2022 |
MadamExcellency:Double standard! Fake legitmate con sent.From the standing point, you will know that this clerics do not have consent when they married out kidnapped Christians or Moslems whose parents consents are never considered. Time will tell.! |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Murphyenemuwe: 3:09am On Dec 29, 2022 |
You should leave sentiment aside. If the father was a good man to that girl she would have insisted her dad must be on sit. We want a better world but we still hold on to selfish and devilish values. What u put up there in short is, he has the right to stand as a father even while being absent all through the girl's life. Responsibility comes before honour don't change the order if not, the whole world will be in disorder culf: 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Glead(m): 3:29am On Dec 29, 2022 |
It is not new . |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Alpharey: 3:31am On Dec 29, 2022 |
MadamExcellency: We never hear that the dad was missing. Besides, it is not fair to the ears and mind to marry off someone's daughter without his consent while he is alive. 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by mfm04622: 3:50am On Dec 29, 2022 |
ijustdey: This is a lie! In Islam, an adult woman can marry whoever she pleases. What is needed are witnesses to make the marriage valid. So the write up didn't mention the age of the girl/woman. You can't ignore your responsibilities to your child and expect to be carried along when she is getting married! 2 Likes |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by mfm04622: 3:50am On Dec 29, 2022 |
Alpharey: Was he alive to his responsibilities to the child? |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by simplepee(f): 4:05am On Dec 29, 2022 |
Even if the father was a deadbeat they should have acknowledged him. Only for that purpose. After wedding and traditional rites, everybody hold im side. It’s not that hard, people just hate peace and hold on to hatred too much in this country. 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by VIKTO83(m): 4:06am On Dec 29, 2022 |
And the idiotic of a guy and his family that married the girl did not see anything wrong with that? 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by harmony75: 4:16am On Dec 29, 2022 |
So baba you can go to court did you care for this daughter's welfare? If you were caring even your daughter would have made sure you're present on her big day! 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Ybholy(m): 4:25am On Dec 29, 2022 |
MadamExcellency: Muslims. Answer this |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Kobojunkie: 4:26am On Dec 29, 2022 |
culf:If the woman in question does not care whether the father/mother is present or not, why is the parent that is present for the ceremony to blame for it? Why do you approach this as if the girl was somehow sold off into slavery without the other parent's consent? Wait a minute....what in the world are we yapping about consent for here... is the woman not grown enough to decide whether she wants the consent of her parents or not as far as her marriage and life? 2 Likes |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Kobojunkie: 4:28am On Dec 29, 2022 |
simplepee:What does his knowing do for the girl's marriage? Will it make it a successful marriage? Will it cause her own husband not to be a deadbeat as well? Will it ... I mean why? 2. You mean there is no peace to be hard if one parent is not informed? How come? What about those who were abandoned by their family members totally? Are you saying those folks never have or find peace ever? 2 Likes |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Kobojunkie: 4:29am On Dec 29, 2022 |
Wealthfocus:A grown woman decided to get married without her father present and you resort to blaming her mother? 2 Likes |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by culf: 4:29am On Dec 29, 2022 |
Murphyenemuwe: Hw did you know he was absent all through her life, the post only said they were divorced awhile ago? I wouldn't want to sound like i'm supporting the man but what is wrong is wrong. Did you also read that he was involved, the first time he refused that they should pray about it first before she was married on the second attempt without his involvement. Divorce is never a good thing, these are issues that comes with divorce, bitterness, unforgivingness, hatred even when children are involved. i know what we went through when something like this but slightly different when a relative was getting married. let me not say more. 2 Likes |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by OLULAW: 4:29am On Dec 29, 2022 |
Only the woman, not the man, who knows 100% who a child’s father is. Maybe the man isn’t the biological father. So that issue must first be addressed. |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Kobojunkie: 4:30am On Dec 29, 2022 |
mfm04622:Interesting! |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Fuckyoumod: 4:33am On Dec 29, 2022 |
MadamExcellency:shut up.... Don't ask stupid questions. |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Kobojunkie: 4:33am On Dec 29, 2022 |
culf:1. It is wrong for a grown woman to decide whether or not to have her father present for her own marriage? 2. Divorce could have saved Osinachi's life but because she probably chose to believe as you do, she is underground food for worms today while her murderer continues to thrive. It is time to change the narrative abeg. Divorce is an opportunity for people to turn what may be bad into something good — it is not evil. No opportunity is evil, only some people can use it for evil. 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by simplepee(f): 4:34am On Dec 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Hanty, you don’t know the full story so rest. 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by culf: 4:41am On Dec 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: this is Africa and we are talking abt traditional marriage here, ladies do not marry themselves off, they don't collect their own bride price, the parents do, its different from choice of who to marry. In my place its even a shame and a disgraceful act to attempt marry without your father or his representative. The husband family will not even agree unless they are not aware. 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by culf: 4:51am On Dec 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: If a lady wants to be married without her father's presence then she doesn't need to do traditional marriage, its not by force and that means severing all ties with the father's people. sorry please but are you African? divorce when necessary is good but we should try to leave excessive hatred, bitterness and anger aside when children are involved. 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Kobojunkie: 4:53am On Dec 29, 2022 |
culf:For the umpteenth time today, stop using the "this is Africa" excuse as if to suggest Africans are devoid of the ability to reason rationally for themselves abeg! 1. Ladies are and have been marrying themselves off without sperm-donor presence right there in Nigeria for a long time now. Many of those kids whose fathers abandoned them in childhood grew up and got married without the sperm donor being present at their ceremony. I have attended a few of those marriages myself and did not think anything weird of them since I am reasonable enough to understand why the woman or man has a right to decide who can grace his/her wedding, and why. 2. yeah, yeah, yeah! If we go search well now, we go find plenty people from your place wey dem papa abandon tey and they maybe had an uncle or other relative from mother side stand in for wedding day. Abegi! 1 Like |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Okhuadams(m): 4:55am On Dec 29, 2022 |
ijustdey:Reginald Daniel falls in this category |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Okhuadams(m): 4:56am On Dec 29, 2022 |
PDJT:Thinking of Reginald Daniel's |
Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by Kobojunkie: 4:56am On Dec 29, 2022 |
culf:1. Yet, there are many wey don do am well well without so much as a hiccup. 2. Sure, sure! Divorce is not evil at all. Instead, it is an opportunity! 1 Like |
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