My elder bro has been in the US for over 11 years now he just got his green card.
I'm doing okay over here I don't ask him for anything financially ,but the matter is that he only come home unexpectedly. Tho he is talking to other of my elder brothers. Another thing is we never had any misunderstanding. When he comes he will spend do everything but once he leaves all the communication is gone . What could be the challenge. Basically he doing very great over there

Entitled Nigga.

He doesn't want ur disturbs... Just let him be.

Jeon:
Entitled Nigga.

I never felt entitled over anyone's wealth. Even the family properties I never considered its as mine. I started hustling legitimately for myself. I only care and always trying to check out on him I don't need a dime from him my dear

Hello brother how are you doing over there , send your account number let me send you something .
Do this and if he doesn’t respond let me know

Is he dating a Nigerian girl over there?

Nicepoker:
Is he dating a Nigerian girl over there?

Very good question

Thereisstillhop:

I never felt entitled over anyone's wealth. Even the family properties I never considered its as mine. I started hustling legitimately for myself. I only care and always trying to check out on him I don't need a dime from him my dear

He don't want your care /checkin ,for some reasons only him can tell.
Let him be... He know what he's avoiding.

You are a burden to him

Jeon:


He don't want your care /checkin ,for some reasons only him can tell.
Let him be... He know what he's avoiding.

that's one thing I actually want to hear from him. I'm never a burden to him right from when he lived together in Nigeria.. I don't like to say what have done to people but there was a time I became a serving grace to him.

Nicepoker:
Is he dating a Nigerian girl over there?

Yes his family just relocated to him both his kid grew up with us here

Thereisstillhop:
that's one thing I actually want to hear from him. I'm never a burden to him right from when he lived together in Nigeria.. I don't like to say what have done to people but there was a time I became a serving grace to him.

The attitudes he's giving to you is it same as the ones he is giving towards his friends in Nigeria? or he even cut off from them

Jeon:


The attitudes he's giving to you is it same as the ones he is giving towards his friends in Nigeria? or he even cut off from them

Only when he comes to Nigeria is when they reunite o
I saw one of his friend just that I didn't really gave him time to tell me about themselves. But I noticed that's how he acts towards them

Thereisstillhop:
My elder bro has been in the US for over 11 years now he just got his green card.
I'm doing okay over here I don't ask him for anything financially ,but the matter is that he only come home unexpectedly. Tho he is talking to other of my elder brothers. Another thing is we never had any misunderstanding. When he comes he will spend do everything but once he leaves all the communication is gone . What could be the challenge. Basically he doing very great over there

Give us his number let's talk to him on your behalf and find out why

The nature of his job might be the problem. Maybe he's always a very busy person

May be you dey hala am too much.

SyrusdeHansome:
The nature of his job might be the problem. Maybe he's always a very busy person

Which kind of stupid busy?...abeg...which human works 24/7 round the clock?

Let's stop giving people the chance for silly excuses.

Thereisstillhop:
My elder bro has been in the US for over 11 years now he just got his green card.
I'm doing okay over here I don't ask him for anything financially ,but the matter is that he only come home unexpectedly. Tho he is talking to other of my elder brothers. Another thing is we never had any misunderstanding. When he comes he will spend do everything but once he leaves all the communication is gone . What could be the challenge. Basically he doing very great over there

what chat are you sending to him..
Maybe a non important one, man's busy or have priorities

Thereisstillhop:
My elder bro has been in the US for over 11 years now he just got his green card.
I'm doing okay over here I don't ask him for anything financially ,but the matter is that he only come home unexpectedly. Tho he is talking to other of my elder brothers. Another thing is we never had any misunderstanding. When he comes he will spend do everything but once he leaves all the communication is gone . What could be the challenge. Basically he doing very great over there

Maybe he entrusted some money to you in the past and you betrayed him

Check yourself

He will surely have his reasons or he is just like that. Some people are just like that. But in this age everybody check his or her phone time to time, so excuses of him been busy is out of it.

Thereisstillhop:
My elder bro has been in the US for over 11 years now he just got his green card.
I'm doing okay over here I don't ask him for anything financially ,but the matter is that he only come home unexpectedly. Tho he is talking to other of my elder brothers. Another thing is we never had any misunderstanding. When he comes he will spend do everything but once he leaves all the communication is gone . What could be the challenge. Basically he doing very great over there

lif somebody don’t wanna be in communication with you, space him…..let him be, if he gets back to Nigeria nd want you guys to blend again, you can accept, but for now, learn to mind you business.

Let him be. He has your number; he’ll reach out when he wants to.

Thereisstillhop:

I never felt entitled over anyone's wealth. Even the family properties I never considered its as mine. I started hustling legitimately for myself. I only care and always trying to check out on him I don't need a dime from him my dear

very busy life bro. Especially if he has family here.

Na so my uncle for Germany take block me

You even get time. Once I noticed that signs you don't wanna do anything with me I avoid you that's life for me

some people are like that,there are some friends and family members,if we see physically,we laugh play but when online,we hardly chat ,free him

You're not his (online) priority.

Simple.

I'll urge you to advise him to stay away from Nigeria girls over there.

Thereisstillhop:

Only when he comes to Nigeria is when they reunite o
I saw one of his friend just that I didn't really gave him time to tell me about themselves. But I noticed that's how he acts towards them

You better stop responding to that girl quoting you, she is abnormal in reasoning.

However, understand that your brother is a Man and men are logical beings not emotional beings. You don't really expect him to keep chatting with you throughout the whole day? Or engage in a discussion with you? Dude, he's a man and even me as a guy won't try such, chatting with someone for a whole day.

I'm sure he calls Once out of a blue moon. Na so some men lives be. Everyone is different

Jeromejnr:


Which kind of stupid busy?...abeg...which human works 24/7 round the clock?

Let's stop giving people the chance for silly excuses.

oh really? This sense of entitlement is why I loathe nigerians. In obodo oyibo you literally do everything. You are maid, housewife, breadwinner, student, work till kpai. The day you die abroad, everybody just moves on. Is better people call me stingy, names, not caring while I am enjoying the small life wey God give me.

Nigga may be taking care of old white women and they no dey allow him touch his phone. Did you say 11years to get green card? He is very dull.

jesmond3945:
oh really? This sense of entitlement is why I loathe nigerians. In obodo oyibo you literally do everything. You are maid, housewife, breadwinner, student, work till kpai. The day you die abroad, everybody just moves on. Is better people call me stingy, names, not caring while I am enjoying the small life wey God give me.

Oga, many of these people who give these excuses haven't worked like some of us have..but yet somewhere at the end of the day we still have time to check our phones and reply messages or make a call.

Work kind of silly excuse will make a human being who can break down from overwork not be able to reply messages for 2 weeks? Abeg no be only una sabi hustle. No human works 24/7 without break in the world continously. No human.

Nonexisting1:
Nigga may be taking care of old white women and they no dey allow him touch his phone. Did you say 11years to get green card? He is very dull.

actually he got it before now. I meant he moved to the US for 11 years