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Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by MrsChima1(f): 4:59am On Sep 09, 2011 |
I can see you fist fighting a woman. |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by Nobody: 5:54am On Sep 09, 2011 |
Lax75: What if we could avoid the frustration, that leads to a quarrel to begin with? Holding in things that bother us leads to frustration, even on a subconcious level. Recognizing that there is something bothering you and addressing it before it grows bigger and leads to a quarrel would be best I think. |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by MrsChima1(f): 6:28am On Sep 09, 2011 |
Fighting in the relationship is a sign of communication problems and when a couple isn't communicating you will have issues in the relationship. Not saying communication solve everything but it sure does reduce unnecessary bullshit. |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by Nobody: 6:30am On Sep 09, 2011 |
^^^^^ |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by mekaboy(m): 1:15pm On Sep 09, 2011 |
[b] SOME PEOPLE CALL QUARREL FIGHT BUT I DONT MEAN PHYSICAL, EVEN THOUGH SOME QUARRELS LEAD TO THAT. WELL TO ME WHEN PEOPLE QUARREL IT MEANS THEY ARE OPEN, OUTSPOKEN, IT ALSO MEANS THEY ARE HUMAN AND HAVE DIFFERENCES. IF 2 PEOPLE ARE TRULY INLOVE , THEY MUST QUARREL SOMETIMES UNLESS ONE PERSON DOES NOT REALLY CARE ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON OR WHAT THEY DO. QUARRELS EITHER SHOW THAT THEY 2 PEOPLE ARE NOT COMPATIBLE AND THEN THEY BREAK UP IF THEY CANT RESOLVE THEIR DIFFERENCES, OR THEY RESOLVE IT AND BUILD A STRONGER RELATIONSHIP. WHEN YOU QUARREL, DURING THE 3RD STAGE AND FIND SOLUTION TO THINGS IT WILL BE EASIER FOR YOU TO HAVE A SMOOTH MARRIAGE , BECAUSE WHAT YOU CANT CHANGE DURING COURTSHIP IT WILL BE VERY DIFFICULT TO CHANGE IT IN MARRIAGE. SO QUARRELS MOST TIMES BRING OUT THOSE THINGS THAT YOU NEED TO CHANGE BEFORE MARRIAGE. **QUARREL CASES ** GUY:- WHY DO YOU COOK RICE 10 TIMES BEFORE YOU SERVE, IT MAKES THE RICE SO SOFT AND TAKES THE TASTE AWAY. GIRL: WELL THATS THE WAY MY MUM THOUGHT ME AND THAT THE WAY WE DO IT IN OUR FAMILY SINCE I WAS BORN. GUY: WELL I AM NOT IN YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR NOT COOKING FOR YOUR MOM . GIRL: WELL I COOKED FOR MYSELF YOU CAN DECIDE TO EAT IT OR LEAVE IT. GUY: I WONT IT THEN GIRL: FINE DONT EAT. ** THEY HAVE QUARRELED OVER IT*** NEXT SOLUTIONS 1, SHE COULD COOK 2 DIFFERENT TYPES OF RICE, ONE FOR HER AND THE OTHER FOR THE GUY. 2, THE GUY COULD DECIDE TO BE COOKING HIS OWN RICE. 3, THE GUY COULD DECIDE TO BE EATING RICE OUTSIDE FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. 4, IF ISSUE IS NOT RESOLVED WITH ANY OF THE ABOVE, THERE IS NO MUTUAL GROUND. THEY ARE NOT WILLING TO RESOLVE, NOT COMPATIBLE, THEN BREAK UP IS THE NEXT. BECAUSE AS LONG AS THEY HAVE REFUSED TO RESOLVE THEY WILL QUARREL AGAIN OVER THE SAME THING AND WHEN PEOPLE QUARREL MORE THAN TWICE OVER THE SAME ISSUE , THEN IT MEANS THEY ARE NOT COMPATIBLE. IF THEY GET MARRIED WITHOUT THIS STAGE, THEN YOU CAN IMAGINE THE NEXT LEVEL OF THIS QUARREL. HUSBAND: I DONT LIKE THE WAY YOU COOK RICE WIFE: THIS IS MY FAMILY WAY EAT IT OR LEAVE IT. HUSBAND: WELL THIS IS NOT YOUR FAMILY NOW THIS IS MY HOUSE WIFE: THEN COOK YOUR OWN RICE THE WAY YOU WANT IT HUSBAND: I WILL NOT USE MY MONEY TO PAY BILLS, BUY GAS AND FOOD STUFF AND YOU WASTE IT. WIFE : WELL TO YOU ITS WASTE TO ME ITS NICE HUSBAND: I WILL NOT COOK MY OWN RICE, I WILL NOT EAT OUTSIDE AND WE WILL NOT COOK RICE TWICE AND WASTE GAS, IF YOU MUST KEEP COOKING YOUR FAMILY WAY THEN YOU GO AND COOK IT IN YOUR FAMILY HOUSE NOT HERE. *** THIS WOULD HAVE BEEN RESOLVED IF THEY QUARRELED OVER IT AT THE 3RD STAGE OF THE RELATIONSHIP** [/b] |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by Nobody: 1:43pm On Sep 09, 2011 |
Mrs, Chima: well said!!! mekaboy: dont misunderstand me, i am saying that when we have misunderstandings, we settle them in civil manner AND if ever we can't resolve them in a respectful manner, then i want NO PART of this r/ship. YOU ARE ALSO SAYING THAT YOU DONT BELIEVE RELATIONSHIPS HAVE STAGES, SO WHEN YOU MEET A GIRL YOU START COMPLAINING ABOUT EVERYTHING YOU DONT LIKE ABOUT HER IMMEDIATELY. i am saying that i am a very honest individual, i tell it like it is and i will ALWAYS be myself. i sure AINT afraid of women or desperate to be in a r/ship, like the people you portray. women come a dime a dozen and i have a fukcing dollar! any smart man will know that what you start with lies and pretence will usually go nowhere or build shaddy foundation that aint as strong as they "seem" to be. YOU ARE SAYING THAT A GUY HAS TO TELL THE LADY EVERYTHING AND SHE HAS NO NEED TO DISCOVER ANYTHING. come on, of course you will always discover things BUT the catch is to tell her your mind as soon as it happens. and, if you are not into it then you MUST let your girl know STRAIGHT UP that you aint into it (or that you dont like it). what you must NOT do is pretend that all is well when it surely aint! SO IF A GUY TELLS HIS GIRLFRIEND HE HAS HOT TEMPER , THEN SHE WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING TO UPSET HIM FOREVER IF THEY GET MARRIED, SO EVEN IF HE DOES SOMETHING WRONG, SHE WONT EXPRESS HER FEELINGS BECAUSE SHE IS AFRAID SHE WILL PROVOKE HIM? in r/ship, you first discover people and THEN you decide along the way if you want to stay with them or not. if a person has hot temper then that person NEEDS to work on his/her issues before trying to be in a r/ship because they will always fail (or being in a one sided r/ship). if anyone wants to stay with a person who has a hot temper then they must understand that this r/ship is like walking on egg shell! you see, a hot temper person would care to understand their partner and would simply explode rather than sit down and have a mature chat about their insecurities/problems. HOW CAN YOU SAY PEOPLE WILL DATE AND GET MARRIED AND HAVE NOTHING TO QUARREL ABOUT? EVEN TWINS WHO ARE BORN INTO THIS WORLD AT THE SAME TIMES SAME PARENTS STILL QUARREL. ARE YOU SAYING THEY ARE THE SAME AND HAVE NO DIFFERENCES? i am talking about people who are mature enough to be in a caring and understanding union. what kids do is irrelevant here! people will have "misunderstandings" in life but its the way they solve them that makes the difference. if you need to insult your partner to make a point then i am safe to say that you guys have a communication problem (like Mrs C said) and also that you have NO RESPECT for your partner. WELL SINCE YOU SAY THAT A GUY SHOULD LET A THE GF KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM FROM THE ONSET AND SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO DISCOVER ANYTHING FOR HERSELF, ALSO THAT SHOULD COMPLAIN ABOUT EVERYTHING HE DOES NOT LIKE ABOUT HER IMMEDIATELY THEY START DATING. i simply said: you should be yourself at all times from the onset rather than pretend to be who you are not! you will always discover things about your partner BUT the difference is to let her know as soon as something is wrong.
i suggest you read back what i wrote above. what i am trying to tell you is that you should be PROUD of who you are, you shouldnt be afraid to be yourself and you certainly should NEVER pretend to be who you are not. and remember:BELIEVE IN YOURSELF because if you dont, who will?! |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by mekaboy(m): 1:19am On Sep 10, 2011 |
BEING REAL, MEANS TO OPEN YOURSELF FOR YOUR PARTNER TO MAKE DISCOVERY OF YOUR GOOD AND BAD SIDE, THROUGH THE BEST OF NICE TIMES AND THE WORST OF QUARRELS. |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by suzzy16(f): 11:24am On May 31, 2015 |
mekaboy:she will never hug him o,cos she dnt want problem on her head again |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by suzzy16(f): 11:25am On May 31, 2015 |
mekaboy:lol |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by suzzy16(f): 11:29am On May 31, 2015 |
mekaboy:lol |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by suzzy16(f): 11:55am On May 31, 2015 |
190smh:hmmm,lol |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by suzzy16(f): 11:55am On May 31, 2015 |
mekaboy:lol,oga o |
Re: YOU MUST QUARREL OVER 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU MARRY. by suzzy16(f): 12:03pm On May 31, 2015 |
mekaboy:I'm feeling u bro |
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