What is Power in a relationship ?

The definition of Power is not financial success, status or influence over others, but the degree to which we have control over our own lives.

In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.

This is a foundation of any relationship, not just intersexual ones, but family, business, etc. relationships as well. It is a dynamic that is always in effect. For my own well being and that of my family’s, I need my employer more than he needs me, ergo I get up for work in the morning and work for him. And while I am also a vital part for the uninterrupted continuance of his company and endeavors, he simply needs me less than I need him. Now I could win the lottery tomorrow or he may decide to cut my pay or limit my benefits, or I may complete my Masters Degree and decide that I can do better than to keep myself yoked to his cart indefinitely, thereby, through some condition either initiated by myself or not, I am put into a position of needing him less than he needs me. At this point he is forced into a position of deciding how much I am worth to his ambitions and either part ways with me or negotiate a furtherance of our relationship.
The same plays true for intersexual relationships. Whether you want to base your relationship on ‘power’ or not isn’t the issue; it’s already in play from your first point of attraction. You are acceptable to her for meeting any number of criteria and she meets your own as well. If this weren’t the case you simply would not initiate a mutual relationship.

In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who
needs the other the least. This is a foundation of any relationship, not just intersexual ones, but family, business, etc.

-The rational male

I m here watching

Goodlady:
I m here watching

Redpill isn't for only men it is useful for women as well.

PureFace1:


Redpill isn't for only men it is useful for women as well.

I no dey form hard when am soft. Am here to watch and see how those boys ll contradict themselves and nature. I learn from their folly

The problem with our modern interpretation of power is to think of it in extreme, absolute terms.

Control in a healthy relationship passes back and forth as desire and need dictate for each partner. In an unhealthy relationship you have an unbalanced manipulation of this control by a partner. Although control is never in complete balance, it becomes manipulation when one partner, in essence blackmails, the other with what would otherwise be a reinforcer for the manipulated under a healthy circumstance.

This happens for a plethora different reasons, but the condition comes about by two ways – the submissive participant becomes conditioned to allow the manipulation to occur and/or the dominate initiates the manipulation. In either case the rule still holds true – the one who needs the other the least has the most control. Nowhere is this more evident than in interpersonal relationships.

- The rational male

Na 50 cent get power tho.

Rollo Tomassi is just a noise maker, he doesn't practice what he preach.

PureFace1:
What is Power in a relationship ?

The definition of Power is not financial success, status or influence over others, but the degree to which we have control over our own lives.

In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.

This is a foundation of any relationship, not just intersexual ones, but family, business, etc. relationships as well. It is a dynamic that is always in effect. For my own well being and that of my family’s, I need my employer more than he needs me, ergo I get up for work in the morning and work for him. And while I am also a vital part for the uninterrupted continuance of his company and endeavors, he simply needs me less than I need him. Now I could win the lottery tomorrow or he may decide to cut my pay or limit my benefits, or I may complete my Masters Degree and decide that I can do better than to keep myself yoked to his cart indefinitely, thereby, through some condition either initiated by myself or not, I am put into a position of needing him less than he needs me. At this point he is forced into a position of deciding how much I am worth to his ambitions and either part ways with me or negotiate a furtherance of our relationship.
The same plays true for intersexual relationships. Whether you want to base your relationship on ‘power’ or not isn’t the issue; it’s already in play from your first point of attraction. You are acceptable to her for meeting any number of criteria and she meets your own as well. If this weren’t the case you simply would not initiate a mutual relationship.

In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who
needs the other the least. This is a foundation of any relationship, not just intersexual ones, but family, business, etc.

-The rational male

LegitGuy22:
Rollo Tomassi is just a noise maker, he doesn't practice what he preach.

He is a Noise maker because he is not a women hater

Who told you Redpill is all about Hating women ?

Redpill is all about how to deal with manipulation in Relationships both men and women and how to have a more fulfilling relationship and better mental health.

So many deluded Guys on Nairaland think Redpill is all about anti marriage, hatred and disdain for women.

Ladies… get your education and your money and own some madingos. Simples!

Power is the ability to influence your will on others without their consent and most times with force, so add am with relationship and see the meaning