The best thing you can do for yourself is to take time away from people as much as you can, it’s the best way to reach the best version of yourself.

Most times you spend most of your time in front of people, talking about things that don’t in any way add value to your life. You have to time to strategize, to plan and set your priorities.

In this context I’m talking about everyone in your life, from family to friends to neighbors to strangers, everyone is affecting your mentality in ways you won’t even know. They are putting pressure on you subconsciously, they are putting their fears on you by telling you your dreams are unrealistic and you are subconsciously affected by their thinking patterns and you are not even trying to be the best version of you.

Sadly these people don’t give a damm about you, if any of them see five million now they won’t have your time again because they will act like they have passed your level and start avoiding you so basically you have wasted your entire life with people who don’t even like you or care about you bus have somehow reduced your dreams and goals.

Be very careful, you’re such a unique being with so much to archive in life. Have you entered a private jet ? Have you spent 2 million on drinks just because you can?

Be around people who will make you get money if you want to be around a squad but the funny part is people who have money will most likely avoid you except you’re as rich as them, which is my point exactly.

Live and dream, stay on your own and plan your fucking life!!!!!!!!!

No man is an island

Something that you lack or need, another person standing just next to you might have the solution, answer, almost FOC at no cost

Op talk to me, what happened to you??

Braintaf23:
The best thing you can do for yourself is to take time away from people as much as you can, it’s the best way to reach the best version of yourself.

Most times you spend most of your time in front of people, talking about things that don’t in any way add value to your life. You have to time to strategize, to plan and set your priorities.

In this context I’m talking about everyone in your life, from family to friends to neighbors to strangers, everyone is affecting your mentality in ways you won’t even know. They are putting pressure on you subconsciously, they are putting their fears on you by telling you your dreams are unrealistic and you are subconsciously affected by their thinking patterns and you are not even trying to be the best version of you.

Sadly these people don’t give a damm about you, if any of them see five million now they won’t have your time again because they will act like they have passed your level and start avoiding you so basically you have wasted your entire life with people who don’t even like you or care about you bus have somehow reduced your dreams and goals.

Be very careful, you’re such a unique being with so much to archive in life. Have you entered a private jet ? Have you spent 2 million on drinks just because you can?

Be around people who will make you get money if you want to be around a squad but the funny part is people who have money will most likely avoid you except you’re as rich as them, which is my point exactly.

Live and dream, stay on your own and plan your fucking life!!!!!!!!!

What you said is the 100% reality
Enough of the fake social interactions
It has led us no where

When I said something like this in other thread, how third party normally cause problem in marriage, one foolish guy is arguing with me blindly.

Though, I just left him in his foolishness oo.


.. Yoruba adage, if ear no hear bad news, mind no go bitter

Blupen:
Op talk to me, what happened to you??

I refused to be FAKE

EastAlchemist:

What you said is the 100% reality
Enough of the fake social interactions
It has led us no where

Can we connect outside here bro, I love your mindset

This year. I've Told God something:

"I ain't gonna regret every dime I spend on myself no matter what I use it for".

Braintaf23:

I refused to be FAKE

I understand you

OP is a real G I have said it severally 95% of people in your life are useless only God and a select few

Like your mum or siblings may truly love you

I get plenty friendships woto woto

But when I was arrested out of over 5k contacts I get na only maale follow another state come bail me

nightfox01:
OP is a real G I have said it severally 95% of people in your life are useless only God and a select few

Like your mum or siblings may truly love you

I get plenty friendships woto woto

But when I was arrested out of over 5k contacts I get na only maale follow another state come bail me

That’s it my brother keep going you are going to win and nothing can stop you

Braintaf23:


Can we connect outside here bro, I love your mindset

I left social media last year to focus on myself
Best decision I made
I’m understanding my self and life in so many ways I never thought I could
Too many things to distract you from you
I’ve got my email, Nairaland and twitter which is strictly for research purposes
Okay I will follow you rn if that is okay my friend

We just need a healthy balance. I’m learning this lesson now after social distancing for 4/5 years. Yes, I did more for myself and my dreams than I had ever done before. But, I need to create boundaries and interact with people differently and I’m learning that…