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Im Confused by BabyOku2022(f): 9:28am On Jan 17, 2023
Hello...
Can someone tell me why all these,whats goin on?
My long distance bf told me last week dat He finish work at 9am cos He works only morning hours.
So I used to talk 2 him only afta his work and b4 He gets home 2 rest a bit.
But when I called him around 10am assuming He closed from work n based on what He told me he was so angry with me cos of my call n said he is still at work.
Then I asked him 2 tell me his work schedule so I know when we can talk.but he got vex n he said 'Wat kinda qst be dis,dont call me until u hear from me'.
4 real i dnt understand dis guy,ive neva been Wit some1 like him.sometimes i feel im even wrong 2ask him any personal qst jst 2 know n understand him.but he says dat he neva ask me qsts abt me...whats goin on?
Re: Im Confused by Lance03: 9:33am On Jan 17, 2023
Break up if u can't handle his stress
Everybody get watin them they reason

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Re: Im Confused by Zonefree(m): 9:41am On Jan 17, 2023
BabyOku2022:
Hello...
Can someone tell me why all these,whats goin on?
My long distance bf told me last week dat He finish work at 9am cos He works only morning hours.
So I used to talk 2 him only afta his work and b4 He gets home 2 rest a bit.
But when I called him around 10am assuming He closed from work n based on what He told me he was so angry with me cos of my call n said he is still at work.
Then I asked him 2 tell me his work schedule so I know when we can talk.but he got vex n he said 'Wat kinda qst be dis,dont call me until u hear from me'.
4 real i dnt understand dis guy,ive neva been Wit some1 like him.sometimes i feel im even wrong 2ask him any personal qst jst 2 know n understand him.but he says dat he neva ask me qsts abt me...whats goin on?
@bolded shows you're still under 19. With the way you type, I'm sure that your beloved boyfriend is going through alot in your hands. My prayers are with him.

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Re: Im Confused by Revoluxe: 9:46am On Jan 17, 2023
Send me his number
Re: Im Confused by OlamizyBaeby: 9:48am On Jan 17, 2023
Go get a life. He knows your game. More convo, billing will come in
Re: Im Confused by Kajaard: 9:48am On Jan 17, 2023
Writing like someone still living in the 2go era.

Even kids in kindergarten don't write this type of gibberish. Nonsense.

Re: Im Confused by toujurs: 9:51am On Jan 17, 2023
You are beginning to develop mental problem
Re: Im Confused by dabonny(m): 9:54am On Jan 17, 2023
Men don't like obsession. You are moving too fast. Perhaps he sees you like someone who's so curious to take charge of the wheel in the relationship.

Slow down your pace, let him take charge. Some ladies usually see this as an ego when a man is taking charge in a relationship forgetting that we always love our ego to be massage.
Re: Im Confused by advanceDNA: 9:59am On Jan 17, 2023
BabyOku2022:
Hello...
Can someone tell me why all these,whats goin on?
My long distance bf told me last week dat He finish work at 9am cos He works only morning hours.
So I used to talk 2 him only afta his work and b4 He gets home 2 rest a bit.
But when I called him around 10am assuming He closed from work n based on what He told me he was so angry with me cos of my call n said he is still at work.
Then I asked him 2 tell me his work schedule so I know when we can talk.but he got vex n he said 'Wat kinda qst be dis,dont call me until u hear from me'.
4 real i dnt understand dis guy,ive neva been Wit some1 like him.sometimes i feel im even wrong 2ask him any personal qst jst 2 know n understand him.but he says dat he neva ask me qsts abt me...whats goin on?



.when a person is behaving likè this two things are involved....

he's not the everytime talking kinda person and ur attention giving is a bit choking...

OR...he's just unserious, breadcrumbing or cookie-jarring you.....may even have someone he's more serious with and only stringing u along as plan B,C, or D

..switch to whatsapp chat to reach out....if he likes he should wake up 25 o'clock ..he will see the chat.....the time he responds from when u sent your chat will tell you if he's serious or not.......
if i send u chat...and e pass 24hrs before u respond.....i leave u to be dating yourself without breaking up... if u have sense u will get the memo

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Re: Im Confused by BabyOku2022(f): 10:03am On Jan 17, 2023
@DABONNY:
Ok how come obsession?is it bad 2 know his work timetable?look,we r far away ok?i guess if we lived in same area such issues wuldnt be a problem cos when i used 2visit him i didnt ask such though i see notin wrong in knowin when he comes home 2give him food 2 eat asap he reach house.one more point,how will I kno when can we talk when I dnt know when he is free.am not tryin 2 control him.pls dnt misunderstand me.but we are far apart so I miss him n would love 2 tlk 2 him.4me i dnt have wahala Wit sharing Wit him when I close 4rom work Or if I wanna be alone Or Im busy i wont be angry wit him.
Re: Im Confused by BabyOku2022(f): 10:11am On Jan 17, 2023
@ADVANCE-DNA

Why attention givin choking?is long distance rship not abt communication and tlkin more?cos I used 2believe its the only ting we have 4now since we cant meet any time soon...
I only point out dat He behave weird cos I neva experienced such from anybody whom I dated.
N I dnt tink he isnt a talking type cos i know he like bein on fb Or whatsapp alot.jst dat it hurts when he threaten 2 Block me Or leave me if I ask him any question.
So how Im I supposed 2 know him better?
Re: Im Confused by Nobody: 11:50am On Jan 17, 2023
You and your boyfriend dey craze
Re: Im Confused by BabyOku2022(f): 12:26pm On Jan 17, 2023
Merch abeg ooo...I didnt come here 2 give Or take insults...
Re: Im Confused by NEUDUDE: 12:39pm On Jan 17, 2023
Ehn hes rich na. Abeg carry your wailing go that side make we hear word grin

They want rich guy but they dont want the trauma that comes with them lol
Re: Im Confused by dontrulee: 12:44pm On Jan 17, 2023
BabyOku2022:
@ADVANCE-DNA

Why attention givin choking?is long distance rship not abt communication and tlkin more?cos I used 2believe its the only ting we have 4now since we cant meet any time soon...
I only point out dat He behave weird cos I neva experienced such from anybody whom I dated.
N I dnt tink he isnt a talking type cos i know he like bein on fb Or whatsapp alot.jst dat it hurts when he threaten 2 Block me Or leave me if I ask him any question.
So how Im I supposed 2 know him better?

I like the way you type, reminds me of my younger self. Please leave relationship for now and focus on developing yourself. Your long distance boyfriend is just using you to catch cruise.

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Re: Im Confused by BabyOku2022(f): 2:04pm On Jan 17, 2023
@NEUDUDE

Wat makes u tink he is wealthy?E no be true...He isnt n even if he is then Wat wealth Or poverty has 2 do Wit his attitude?
Re: Im Confused by BabyOku2022(f): 2:08pm On Jan 17, 2023
@DONTRULE

is not jst abt sex cos He is even the one Who dont wanna knack 2 much n always sayin he wanna take me 2 Naija n marry me n have pikin as he tink of settling down now n wanna start a family...
Re: Im Confused by NEUDUDE: 2:53pm On Jan 17, 2023
BabyOku2022:
@NEUDUDE

Wat makes u tink he is wealthy?E no be true...He isnt n even if he is then Wat wealth Or poverty has 2 do Wit his attitude?

Is he wealthy or not? Pick one grin

Wealth has a lot to do with attitude. I remember when i wasnt wealthy all i wanted was a second hand, tokunbo girl with a good attitude. Now that i am wealthy, most times its tear rubber virgins i like, her attitude doesnt really matter becos money go reset her brain. I hope you get the jerk now. Me not wealthy and wealthy me are not the same person lol grin
Re: Im Confused by BabyOku2022(f): 4:15pm On Jan 17, 2023
No he isnt wealthy...Wat is tokunbo girl?and tear rubber virgin?
Re: Im Confused by Sixfeetbelle: 6:50pm On Jan 17, 2023
BabyOku2022:
Hello...
Can someone tell me why all these,whats goin on?
My long distance bf told me last week dat He finish work at 9am cos He works only morning hours.
So I used to talk 2 him only afta his work and b4 He gets home 2 rest a bit.
But when I called him around 10am assuming He closed from work n based on what He told me he was so angry with me cos of my call n said he is still at work.
Then I asked him 2 tell me his work schedule so I know when we can talk.but he got vex n he said 'Wat kinda qst be dis,dont call me until u hear from me'.
4 real i dnt understand dis guy,ive neva been Wit some1 like him.sometimes i feel im even wrong 2ask him any personal qst jst 2 know n understand him.but he says dat he neva ask me qsts abt me...whats goin on?

He's married. That's it.

Married guys mostly have a suspicious schedule they need you to follow. Cause they wouldn't want you to call them when they are with their wife.

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