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Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 11:31am On Feb 06, 2018
Case closed.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by Xinzu: 11:39am On Feb 06, 2018
Can't you block him on FB?

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 11:43am On Feb 06, 2018
Xinzu:
Can't you block him on FB?


Not until i get what I've ordered from him..He & his friends are the one running the school merchandise...

I swear im so tired of his game..

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by Xinzu: 11:46am On Feb 06, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



Not until i get what I've ordered from him..He & his friends are the one running the school merchandise...

I swear im so tired of his game..



Then just play it cool, be patient, like a Cheetah. grin

I'm sure you know what to do.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 11:53am On Feb 06, 2018
Xinzu:




Then just play it cool, be patient, like a Cheetah. grin

I'm sure you know what to do.


At first, i was OK...but as the day goes by i swear it gets in to my nerves...

I honestly ran out of ideas what to do...i been hiding for 2wks now. I juz cant deal anymore..

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by iykekelvins(m): 11:54am On Feb 06, 2018
You were trying to avoid him, but you still ordered from him?

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by ultimate77(m): 11:55am On Feb 06, 2018
Just be calm until your orders are fully delivered to your location. You can now decide what to do with him.

And on a second thought, I'm sure whatever merchandise your alumni is running, you can do without. Your peace of mind is at stake here. You might decide to ignore the chats but they really get u pissed when u see the. If the alumni thing isn't very paramount as going to heaven, I suggest you kick yourself out,
Block his ass and be on your own. I pray this helps. My 1cent
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by Xinzu: 11:57am On Feb 06, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



At first, i was OK...but as the day goes by i swear it gets in to my nerves...

I honestly ran out of ideas what to do...i been hiding for 2wks now. I juz cant deal anymore..



He'll wear out once he see's you're not reciprocating his gestures. Two weeks is too damn short to have a stalker-scare.


Is there any tendency he'll make away with your money if you confront him?
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by IamLEGEND1: 12:02pm On Feb 06, 2018
Send_nudes.
This has nothing to do with the content of your thread as I didn't read any of it...... but just send_nudes.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 12:04pm On Feb 06, 2018
iykekelvins:
You were trying to avoid him, but you still ordered from him?


He didn't open up his feelings to me not until we started talking again about the merchandise they we're selling...

If i only knew this is a trap , maybe i shud avoided the holocaust sha .
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 12:08pm On Feb 06, 2018
ultimate77:
Just be calm until your orders are fully delivered to your location. You can now decide what to do with him.

And on a second thought, I'm sure whatever merchandise your alumni is running, you can do without. Your peace of mind is at stake here. You might decide to ignore the chats but they really get u pissed when u see the. If the alumni thing isn't very paramount as going to heaven, I suggest you kick yourself out,
Block his ass and be on your own. I pray this helps. My 1cent


I juz want to have some souvenirs as i only go back home once a year. I have no other intentions but to have a little souvenirs..

But i don't know when they gonna send out all the orders..im running out of patient over this matter.. Sometimes i juz sit down and cry.. I never experienced this kind of stalking cry
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by thetrailseeker: 12:21pm On Feb 06, 2018
You could block him and get your stuff through the other fella.

Or you could send him a strongly worded retort with a threat to out him on the group chat if he doesn't desist.


In other news, I'm single, never married, no kids.
How's Singapore ? �

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 12:32pm On Feb 06, 2018
thetrailseeker:
You could block him and get your stuff through the other fella.

Or you could send him a strongly worded retort with a threat to out him on the group chat if he doesn't desist.


In other news, I'm single, never married, no kids.
How's Singapore ? �


Honestly , i dont know his friends who work with him with the school merchandise... cry

I paid so much for those stuffs i ordered plus i paid the courier charges too..

Singapore is OK sha...
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by thetrailseeker: 12:34pm On Feb 06, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



Honestly , i dont know his friends who work with him with the school merchandise... cry

I paid so much for those stuffs i ordered plus i paid the courier charges too..

Singapore is OK sha...

2nd paragraph. Send a cease, desist and threat.

Okay ?. So you trying to get married or what ?. A brother ain't playing.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by ultimate77(m): 12:57pm On Feb 06, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



I juz want to have some souvenirs as i only go back home once a year. I have no other intentions but to have a little souvenirs..

But i don't know when they gonna send out all the orders..im running out of patient over this matter.. Sometimes i juz sit down and cry.. I never experienced this kind of stalking cry

I can relate... But have u inquired as to what is delaying the order... Maybe you can just stylishly play along till your orders gets to you. And please don't seat and cry.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 1:11pm On Feb 06, 2018
ultimate77:


I can relate... But have u inquired as to what is delaying the order... Maybe you can just stylishly play along till your orders gets to you. And please don't seat and cry.


In the group chat it says they received so many orders thats why it takes time to send out ..those who ordered first, they already sent it...

I don't wanna ask, coz once he see me online he will start making drama again..im getting sick reading his messages..
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by Nobody: 1:23pm On Feb 06, 2018
Do you have feelings for this guy?

All I can decode from your story is that you are afraid that you might fall in love with this guy, thus you don't want to play along or even give him an audience.

I can only advise you to continue with whatever you are doing to avoid him i.e continue to avoid his chats and every advances on fb till you get whatever you ordered through him.

If he confronts you before delivery the goods or use your attention as a bargaining chip before delivering your goods, which is highly expected

Simply tell him that you've been busy or you're too busy at that moment and you will love to have the conversation with him at another time

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 1:28pm On Feb 06, 2018
greiboy:
Do you have feelings for this guy?

All I can decode from your story is that you are afraid that you might fall in love with this guy, thus you don't want to play along or even give him an audience.

I can only advice you to continue what you are doing i.e continue to avoid his chats and every advances on fb till you get whatever you ordered through him.

If he confronts you before delivery the goods or use your attention as a bargaining chip before delivering your goods, which is highly expected.

Simply tell him that you've been busy or you're too busy at the moment and you will love to have the conversation with him at other times

He is a married man with 3 children.. I really feel sick with his messages everyday. On the top of that those nonsense selfie pictures he sent too & confessing that he will leave his wife if i will invite him here in Singapore...

I told him once to stop all this nonsense but he never stopped sha...
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by Nobody: 1:36pm On Feb 06, 2018
QueenSuccubus:


He is a married man with 3 children.. I really feel sick with his messages everyday. On the top of that those nonsense selfie pictures he sent too & confessing that he will leave his wife if i will invite him here in Singapore...

I told him once to stop all this nonsense but he never stopped sha...
I believe you are doing a great job avoiding him sofar, I think that is the only realistic approach applicable in this situation
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 1:48pm On Feb 06, 2018
greiboy:
I believe you are doing a great job avoiding him sofar, I think that is the only realistic approach applicable in this situation


Yes, it's been 2wks now im playing invisible on my fb...it's hard & it's sickening to see my messenger full of his love notes, begging and confession..

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by conductor123(m): 1:50pm On Feb 06, 2018
Mummy kashy wanna fall in love again.... While Jude is celebrating anniversary with himself. grin grin Jude my guy.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by Nobody: 2:04pm On Feb 06, 2018
conductor123:
Mummy kashy wanna fall in love again.... While Jude is celebrating anniversary with himself. grin grin Jude my guy.
lol guy u wicked grin
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by EbukaHades10(m): 5:43pm On Feb 06, 2018
Tell the baba say u no do......... that's all
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by Nobody: 6:01pm On Feb 06, 2018
That iamj no kuku get sense to advice you,make i try my best. cheesy

Cant you forget about what you oredered for or better still play along to get your stuff by telling him you have a boyfriend and you will be thinking about it.Also remember to tell the asshole to stop sending selfie and messages again cos your boyfriend always check your phone.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by ultimate77(m): 6:40pm On Feb 06, 2018
let him simply send his nude... Grid them together send them back to him and tell him this will grace social media soon if he doesn't stop. But get your order first.
My other 1 shiling
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:36am On Feb 07, 2018
HeyBee27:
That iamj no kuku get sense to advice you,make i try my best. cheesy

Cant you forget about what you oredered for or better still play along to get your stuff by telling him you have a boyfriend and you will be thinking about it.Also remember to tell the asshole to stop sending selfie and messages again cos your boyfriend always check your phone.


I didn't tell Jude about this dilemma i been thru coz i don't want him to worry about me...But the stalker is juz getting into my nerves.

Tbh, i ordered a lot of stuffs & i already paid him plus the courier charge juz in case they will send what i ordered ...

Juz this morning i wake up , he sent me another picture of him drinking coffee.. cry This is the worst nightmare i experienced.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:38am On Feb 07, 2018
ultimate77:
let him simply send his nude... Grid them together send them back to him and tell him this will grace social media soon if he doesn't stop. But get your order first.
My other 1 shiling


cry cry cry

Thanks for that input but i think juz being quiet & ignoring his messages will make him stop ----- soon.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by decode: 8:23pm On Feb 11, 2018
See your life, and you will be forming mammy water on nairaland. One will think you have powers.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by Tinyemeka(m): 10:10pm On Feb 14, 2018
QueenSuccubus:


He is a married man with 3 children.. I really feel sick with his messages everyday. On the top of that those nonsense selfie pictures he sent too & confessing that he will leave his wife if i will invite him here in Singapore...

I told him once to stop all this nonsense but he never stopped sha...

Thought you were a Succubus? I'm disappointed. undecided

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by dairykidd(m): 7:06am On Feb 18, 2018
thetrailseeker:


2nd paragraph. Send a cease, desist and threat.

Okay ?. So you trying to get married or what ?. A brother ain't playing.
grin grin
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by ebonflexy(m): 11:28am On Mar 07, 2018
iykekelvins:
You were trying to avoid him, but you still ordered from him?

Same reason women hate a guy or see a guy as a deadbeat, but yet decide to have a baby with him.
Logic no too dey get say for woman actions.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice. Im In A Deep Shii... by Nobody: 1:10pm On Mar 07, 2018
Picture Of Him Stalkin you or...

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