Good morning to you. (2 minutes read)

Is it possible to be in love and yet hide so many things from the one you claim to love?

A lot of us are hiding so many things in our marriage/relationship. We have kept so many secrets from our partners and it’s eating us up but instead of opening us to them we choose to tell others.

Someone shared the story of a man who had a family in another state in Nigeria 🇳🇬 and is married with family in another state and the wives don’t know about. Whenever he is traveling to see the other family he tells this one I’m going for work and does same with the other one.

He has never given the women any reason to doubt him but it’s eating him up and instead of come straight with this women he choose to open up to someone else.

Why will you choose to put someone you claim to love in total darkness? Why live in lies? We have lost our human sense.

Marriage is beautiful when you marry someone that understands you and you understand them.

Hmm.......Crazy things are really happening.

One of my tribal man who is a family friend happens to work with a reputable construction company and posted to a nearby state for work. He secretely invited their matured househelp over to his place, got her pregnant. Scared of the embarrassment that he would face, he then rent an Apartment for her in the town close to where he works.

That was how housmaid got an apartment of her own and that was also how househelp turn to Madam's CO wife in bearing children. The matter shock all of us by then, but nobody come holy pass.......She should be on her second or third kid by now

What if they use it against you someday?😏

Many truth is better not to be said

GOFRONT:
Hmm.......Crazy things are really happening.

One of my tribal man who is a family friend happens to work with a reputable construction company and posted to a nearby state for work. He secretely invited their matured househelp over to his place, got her pregnant. Scared of the embarrassment that he would face, he then rent an Apartment for her in the town close to where he works.

That was how housmaid got an apartment of her own and that was also how househelp turn to Madam's CO wife in bearing children. The matter shock all of us by then, but nobody come holy pass.......She should be on her second or third kid by now

imagin

Some people like high BP shaa

Reminds me of something someone said
"If they increase salary they'll add girlfriend" lol

[quote author=Wittyglam post=120240181]Good morning to you. (2 minutes read)

Is it possible to be in love and yet hide so many things from the one you claim to love?

A lot of us are hiding so many things in our marriage/relationship. We have kept so many secrets from our partners and it’s eating us up but instead of opening us to them we choose to tell others.

Someone shared the story of a man who had a family in another state in Nigeria Some secrets needs to be kept for some certain reasons because it could cause division in the home. E.g A married man or a married woman who had sex with another woman or man. Do u expect the man or woman to te his wife or husband?

You won't know the kind of peace you enjoy now because there are things you don't know

That is why there is a word called secret, there are things wey dem no dey tell the person

Sometimes it is for the better good, most people can't handle what they think they can handle

You won't understand until e reach you

If we tell people everything the word secret becomes useless and won't exist

I had a girl I was madly in love with and we dated for a while and I opened up my salary to her ...


The next month ending...I got billings from her...

Infact, it was very difficult to tell her I don't have money...

She knew everything about my finances and my worth.


It wasn't long I ended the relationship and took another girl in...This time around, she tried to know certain things but I kept them secret and the relationship lasted, she never complained about anything as I provided but she always wondered how I did it.

So OP, you can't open up to a woman, she will never understand the purpose of being sincere to her.


And the example you give...The man will lose both wives and his kids of he dares.....

Your last paragraph said something about understanding. No woman's will understand that you have another woman you visit. She will poison you or she will begin to cheat on you l.

GOFRONT:
Hmm.......Crazy things are really happening.

One of my tribal man who is a family friend happens to work with a reputable construction company and posted to a nearby state for work. He secretely invited their matured househelp over to his place, got her pregnant. Scared of the embarrassment that he would face, he then rent an Apartment for her in the town close to where he works.

That was how housmaid got an apartment of her own and that was also how househelp turn to Madam's CO wife in bearing children. The matter shock all of us by then, but nobody come holy pass.......She should be on her second or third kid by now

The bolded made me laugh sha

if a man can marry two wives and take care of them he should, but having a secret romantic affair behind your wife is what me I don’t understand, you are the man, if you feel the need to get a second wife tell your wife about it, maybe she may talk you off it or agree to it

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Hmmmm

Hmmm........ this is really crazy

The issue of marriage nowadays is now becoming a rocket science

Secrets can betray emotions. It reminds me of a Rich client of mine who travelled down from the UK when his Rich Pops who was so industrious at that time died.
When the Family lawyer set the date for reading his Dad's will, Baby mamas from every nooks and crannies with their child and children bred secretly by his Dad came forward to collect their share of the will. Some of the names of the Babymamas were included in the will and were given their share.
Even though this my client has his own house and properties he was so unhappy because he sees the ones they gave his mum, him and his siblings as leftover. He vowed never to step foot in the house they willed him. Because not only he felt cheated upon, his expectation on the will was not met and that secret his pops kept was so annoying.

hurt me with the truth then please me with lies no matter what thats life for us [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][color=#000099][/color]

Let DNA test be free, that's when you gonna know women keep secrets the most.

So because we are married, i should let you into every secret of mine if they exist? Just dey play.

Na d secret wey i create with u, u go know, i no fit tell you others, if you no wan stay, farewell.

I doubt he ever told those women he loved them and if he did he was just pretending.
That man is a fraud and fraudsters can't claim to love.

Lol

When marriage go dey sweet, we no go hear una voice.
The moment bitter leaf don enter am, na everyday Joro hide my identity

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It's Better some past secrets follow you to your grave.. how do you explain to your husband you once had an orgy...see this life is complicated but when it comes to infidelity... anybody that can keep such can kill

At the end you should ask yourself;
Did he still love me?

People Deceiving People Not New

No one who loves you lies to you.

They are only manipulating you and that's not love.

Ok

Nah to divorce sure

Ladies lie more in every damn relationship



So keep kwayet,woman!

🏃‍♂️

Romanoff:
No one who loves you lies to you.

They are only manipulating you and that's not love.

Exactly