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Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Ade3131: 7:30am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Goodlady: So what will be your fate if you're unable to settle down fast as you'd wished? Would it be nice if your siblings turn their back at you because there's a daughter of Jezebel somewhere that doesn't like family members (in this case you) visiting? This female gender se, na God go help una! |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Reinamaria(f): 7:35am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Queengolden: You seem like the girlfriend. 🧐 |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Goodlady(f): 7:36am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Ade3131:Which kind of fate, I d rather fix that my husband to my taste than moving to relative houses to n from 1 Like |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Psoul(m): 7:37am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Slime7: She is not all that wrong cos some people don't like strangers around them. Just their nature. In the other hand, you are not wrong supporting your sis. Family is everything. Never turn ur back against your family. Finally, if that your girlfriend makes much noise about this, tell her that she is supposed to be in her father's house till you marry her, then she can authoritatively come live with you. This is one of the ways to "Man Up" as she suggested. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Skmoda360(m): 7:53am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Reinamaria:He is a confused being....he just want to open his Yansh to the public. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Gbadespet(m): 7:54am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Na so Ex wey wan come back dey yarn dust say she needs money of which I promised to give,later my elder sister called as well...do I decided to sort my sister first and later told the ex that I will find means of sorting her with time...she follow me fight for like a month saying why I go sort my sister before her. Mr just reply her say families comes first,since then I know gree call her again. Ladies and entitlement na 5 and 6 |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by MansoryMX(m): 8:26am On Jan 22, 2023 |
WHITELIGHTER: Honestly you are right. He needs to study his girlfriend very well so as not to make the mistake of marrying a woman who is disrespectful and dramatic, na them plenty pass for this life now. Ungrateful, disrespectful and dramatic hungry hoes. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by plantainbender(m): 9:08am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Guyyyyy!!!! Wtched for 30 minutes and I wanted to puke like DJ whatthafuck you doing... iLoveYouToo: 1 Like |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Nobody: 9:15am On Jan 22, 2023 |
If you want real advise here it is, RUN! Any woman in your life that cannot see your elder sister as her own is not worth it. If she being this selfish now as a girlfriend towards your flesh and blood, it will get worse after marriage. Stop investing in this relationship. Your sister is going through a tough time yet all your girlfriend can see is that her 'space' is being invaded even though it is your apartment not hers. Bro, stay clear of selfish self obsessed women. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by promiseland245(m): 9:31am On Jan 22, 2023 |
For you to be concerned about this her attitude means it has really gotten to you. This is a red flag and from her exhibitions there is a possibility she would restrict family members to visit you and you visiting them, all these may be coming from a place of insecurity on her part. At a time like this she is suppose to be a bonding figure between you and your siblings and she is suppose to think of how to blend into your family instead is is already creating boundaries. Well, it is said that he who the cap fits let him wear it, all men wears shoe but only the bearers knows where pinches. Obviously, your sister feels comfortable with you from your narrative and as old Adage goes, Blood is thicker than water. Reflect on this, would you want to enter a marriage with someone that would isolate you from your family or would you want to be in marriage with someone that would even strengthen the Bond you have with your family and hers as well. Your sincere answer to this question should be a beaming light in your path of conclusions. Slime7: |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by IntroTech: 9:38am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Women are very manipulative. Just bear that in mind in all your dealings with women. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by BigDick70inch(m): 9:42am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Thermodynamics(m): 9:47am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Goodlady: In an ideal case, a man's priority should be his wife and a woman's priority should be her husband, but that is not the case in today's world. In reality, Men put there wife as priority but women do not put their husband as priority. Women are slefish creatures, they think of only what they can benefit from their husband, it's all about me me me for them, a woman would expect her husband to help her do house chores out of love but will never help the man pay the bills out of love, it's all one sided love for your gender, if you love me do this for me if you love me do that for me. Why would I put a woman as my priority when I know that she is just there for personal interest, it's always men giving and women receiving, as soon as the giving stops she will run away, my family and kids are my priority, not my wife cus I know I'm not her priority. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Goodlady(f): 10:19am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Thermodynamics:We also v condemned men. They are the most in Nigeria. Especially those that are deadbeat dads. Anyways, we v lots of good women in Nigeria so I dunno where you are meeting those you know. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Goodlady(f): 10:19am On Jan 22, 2023 |
BigDick70inch:O balumo, Iwo ni supo arogo mu! |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Moh247: 10:35am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Your girlfriend is the type that wants full Privacy in marriage |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Thermodynamics(m): 10:47am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Goodlady: Good women ? I can bet you that out of all the millions of women in Nigeria, if I randomly select one and chyke her today, within a week she will beg me for money. That's how bad it is, so where is the good woman? |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Dybala11(m): 10:52am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Goodlady:Inasmuch as the sister may have made some bad choices that have come back to haunt now, she's still family. How will a girlfriend that's not even your blood and might break your heart tomorrow, tell you to render a help to your blood and you're here supporting that?? If you were the said sister I know you won't say this. Family over anyone, any day, anytime, twice on Sunday. A girlfriend can only start claiming territory in my house only when we're married, my mom and my family ahead of any damned girlfriend always. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Goodlady(f): 10:58am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Thermodynamics:You are dating people that's in need. Also, did your mom not ask your dad for money when she was dating him? |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Thermodynamics(m): 11:26am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Goodlady:No, my mum is 70, she was born in the generation when women had real value in Nigeria, our mothers didn't beg men for money, they didn't dress naked, they don't twerk on Instagram, they married as virgins, infact most of them do their own business, my mum did garri market business and was feeding about 14 people all by herself for years, including children and her husband's relations. But morden day women are not like that, they pride in begging for money, they are not beneficial to their husband or boyfriend yet they want want to detect what the husband should and should not do in his own house, they want to tell their husband how to spend his money Morden day women be like, Hot, don't send your family money but send my parents and siblings money because you love me. Of course they won't say this directly but that what's in their mind. Who your love help, love that only favours you all the time. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Goodlady(f): 11:28am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Thermodynamics:Lol. Women of these days are very hardworking too. But the hardship of this generation is more. Like I said, you v been meeting those in dire need or those that are now accustomed to asking. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by maikes: 11:33am On Jan 22, 2023 |
i don't think that gf of urs is different from bagablue blublu bulaba |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Thermodynamics(m): 11:38am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Goodlady:99.999999% of you are accustomed to begging even even when you have, a few are hard working but they will still beg men for money. I have this friend who is seriously asking me for a relationship, she loves me like mad but I told her I'm already with someone else, this girl has a very big and classy business, I'm sure she has money more than me but as rich as she is, she still ask me for money, I don't understand your gender, I don't know if the money you get from men has a different way of sweetness. It's madness, this is why I've been with my current girlfriend since 2019, she hardly borthers me even though she is broke. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Goodlady(f): 11:44am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Thermodynamics:Make I hear word. No sane woman ll be financially buoyant n leach on a man. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Thermodynamics(m): 11:49am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Goodlady:Story, begging is in your gender's nature, leaching is a culture to y'all, rich or poor. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Goodlady(f): 12:13pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
Thermodynamics:Descendant of leach, you are sighted. I can feed you. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by lala45: 12:34pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
Exactly. Is she even supposed stay with a man that has not married her. And she is tellingthe guy to chase his sister away. Girls of these days don'thave atom of shameandego sisisioge: 1 Like |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Didi0808(m): 12:46pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
U’ve seen all the read flags but you still need advise 😂 |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Thermodynamics(m): 1:38pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
Goodlady: Naa, you morden day women are nothing like our mothers. NOTHING. Our mothers didn't leach on men, but morden day women are all leaches, I know you know the truth, you just won't admit it. |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Goodlady(f): 1:40pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
Thermodynamics:Marry your mom. Out of those that are bad eggs, there are millions of good ones like me. You wey be descendant of leach must be a bad husband sef |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by Nehyooh(m): 1:45pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
Goodlady:You're supporting her because she's your gender. Because you said you're a "goodlady" doesn't mean the said girl is one |
Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by sageb: 1:52pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
caesymore: E choke 1 Like |
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