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Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by Lucrativress(f): 6:14pm On Jan 22, 2023
G00DHardDick:


I'm not a fan of relationships dating nor marriage. U Nigeria girls were created to be banged, so it's advisable to bang a Nigerian girl, dump her and move on.

However, apart from your over used damaged kpekpus, what else can you offer a man in a relationship apart from your over used damaged pussy

Mehnnn a lot
A lot
More than you can ever give wink
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by GoodCane: 6:14pm On Jan 22, 2023
Lucrativress:

Mehnnn a lot
A lot
More than you can ever give wink

We're curious to know them.

Kindly list them for us
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by JustANairlander(m): 6:16pm On Jan 22, 2023
Check yourself properly, your dressing, charisma, vibes etc
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by Lucrativress(f): 6:18pm On Jan 22, 2023
G00DHardDick:


We're curious to know them.

Kindly list them for us
Check the word polymath
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by GoodCane: 6:19pm On Jan 22, 2023
Lucrativress:

Check the word polymath

Madam, list the things you have to offer a man in a relationship apart from your over used damaged kpekpus. Otherwise shut up if you can't list them.
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by Lucrativress(f): 6:22pm On Jan 22, 2023
G00DHardDick:


Madam, list the things you have to offer a man in a relationship apart from your over used damaged kpekpus. Otherwise shut up if you can't list them.
Everything a good book can offer you
If you've never read a good book, I'm so sorry, you'd never understand πŸ™‚
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by DaddyRochie1642: 6:24pm On Jan 22, 2023
Zonefree:

Guy, most oloshos dress moderately when they're off duty. Don't be deceived by what you're seeing.



You just made me laugh
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by Lucrativress(f): 6:28pm On Jan 22, 2023
JustANairlander:
Check yourself properly, your dressing, charisma, vibes etc
Better leave him
Most of them go with their sights, not what they need.
You'll be surprised how much he's looking for a "good woman", his sight criteria might just be interpreted as something else 😏

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Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by DaddyRochie1642: 6:29pm On Jan 22, 2023
faceLAGOS:


Guy, face your wahala squarely.

Why are you guys always having woman problems here & there.

Is this some ego boost or something?

β€œ I am 29 years old. I have a job, my own house and a car, bla bla bla.

I don’t know why your story just turn my stomach.




Oga stop lying, you and I know that his story did not turn your stomach grin
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by Isabi4lov: 6:46pm On Jan 22, 2023
After chopping them they're now bad girls to you undecided undecided

You said they're physically attracted to you , if they don't take care of their looks, I'm pretty sure that you won't look their faces twice .
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by emmaodet: 7:09pm On Jan 22, 2023
ednut1:
The so called church gal may even be a retired olosho

Na wa ooooo

Nija don really cast oo
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by GoodCane: 8:19pm On Jan 22, 2023
Lucrativress:

Everything a good book can offer you
If you've never read a good book, I'm so sorry, you'd never understand πŸ™‚

Mu*mu. I'm sure you don't know how dumb and daft you are right now.

Simple question you're using reverse psychology deceiving yourself.

Madam, Tell us what you can offer a man in a relationship apart from your over used damaged pussy. State and list them here!!!
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by chukwuma89w: 9:17pm On Jan 22, 2023
You attract whom you areYou attract whom you are...
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by LikeAking: 9:21pm On Jan 22, 2023
Jkoro29:
Hi nairalanders. This is the first time that I will be creating an account on Nairaland. I have been a guest for many years and I love this forum. I am not the type of person to share my issues with people, but this issue is very pressing and I don't seem to have found any answers from researching online. Please I would appreciate if one of the moderators sends this thread to the front page so I can get more responses.

I am 29 years old. I have a job, my own house and a car, and I am ready to settle down. I want to get married this year, unfailingly. The problem is that I only attract bad girls into my life. My definition of bad girls are those girls that club almost every night, girls that care so much about material things and about how they look, girls that wear skimpy outfits and show off their bodies at every chance. Girls that live on tiktok and instagram. These are the type of girls I attract.

What prompted me to create this account and post this is the experience I had today in church. There is the beautiful, quiet, modest looking usher that I have feelings for. I I have listened to her speak in our youth sunday school and she sound intelligent. She is also god-fearing and devoted in church. I admire these qualities in a wife. Today I walked up to her to introduce myself but the way she responded killed me on the inside. She didn't even smile. Just kept a straight face and didn't even care to respond to some of my questions. I felt defeated. I don't believe in forcing a friendship. I believe that when I approach a girl and she behaves like that, it is a sign that she doesn't like me at all and I would only be wasting time trying to get her to like me.

Meanwhile in the same church, there is one slay queen that has been giving me green light and always smiles when we lock eyes. I don't even know why girls like this come to church. There is another girl that twerks all the time on her whatsapp that is angry that I have been ignoring her. There are countless others i have slept with in the past that have all fit this profile. But not once have I had a relationship with a good girl. It is almost like a curse was placed on me. When ever i meet good girls, they always seem to not like me. Maybe I am bad at reading people, but the way they behave is the direct opposite of the way the bad girls behave when I meet them. The bad ones are always smiling, always attentive and always eager to know more about me.

I don't want to get married to a girl that doesn't have the fear of god, or a girl that smokes shisha and parties all night every weekday. I want to get married to a girl that has the qualities of the usher girl.

I am a good looking, responsible young man. I do not dress, look or act like a yahoo boy, in case you are wondering. I am well educated, I speak well and interact with people in a mature way.


Manage the bad ones nah.

Marriage is for child bearing.
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by Lucrativress(f): 9:26am On Jan 23, 2023
G00DHardDick:


Mu*mu. I'm sure you don't know how dumb and daft you are right now.

Simple question you're using reverse psychology deceiving yourself.

Madam, Tell us what you can offer a man in a relationship apart from your over used damaged pussy. State and list them here!!!
The issue is, if I persist in trading words with you, I'll have to question my intelligence.
So have a lovely week ahead SirπŸ‘‹πŸ˜š
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by Slynation(m): 10:12am On Jan 23, 2023
Jkoro29:
Hi nairalanders. This is the first time that I will be creating an account on Nairaland. I have been a guest for many years and I love this forum. I am not the type of person to share my issues with people, but this issue is very pressing and I don't seem to have found any answers from researching online. Please I would appreciate if one of the moderators sends this thread to the front page so I can get more responses.

I am 29 years old. I have a job, my own house and a car, and I am ready to settle down. I want to get married this year, unfailingly. The problem is that I only attract bad girls into my life. My definition of bad girls are those girls that club almost every night, girls that care so much about material things and about how they look, girls that wear skimpy outfits and show off their bodies at every chance. Girls that live on tiktok and instagram. These are the type of girls I attract.

What prompted me to create this account and post this is the experience I had today in church. There is the beautiful, quiet, modest looking usher that I have feelings for. I I have listened to her speak in our youth sunday school and she sound intelligent. She is also god-fearing and devoted in church. I admire these qualities in a wife. Today I walked up to her to introduce myself but the way she responded killed me on the inside. She didn't even smile. Just kept a straight face and didn't even care to respond to some of my questions. I felt defeated. I don't believe in forcing a friendship. I believe that when I approach a girl and she behaves like that, it is a sign that she doesn't like me at all and I would only be wasting time trying to get her to like me.

Meanwhile in the same church, there is one slay queen that has been giving me green light and always smiles when we lock eyes. I don't even know why girls like this come to church. There is another girl that twerks all the time on her whatsapp that is angry that I have been ignoring her. There are countless others i have slept with in the past that have all fit this profile. But not once have I had a relationship with a good girl. It is almost like a curse was placed on me. When ever i meet good girls, they always seem to not like me. Maybe I am bad at reading people, but the way they behave is the direct opposite of the way the bad girls behave when I meet them. The bad ones are always smiling, always attentive and always eager to know more about me.

I don't want to get married to a girl that doesn't have the fear of god, or a girl that smokes shisha and parties all night every weekday. I want to get married to a girl that has the qualities of the usher girl.

I am a good looking, responsible young man. I do not dress, look or act like a yahoo boy, in case you are wondering. I am well educated, I speak well and interact with people in a mature way.
You are the one putting yourself in an unnecessary pressure by involving marriage in your to do list thereby attracting negative vibes to yourself, stop chasing marriage and the right girl will come for you...

But from the way you are going about it, you might end up getting married to someone that will destroy what you have laboured for years!! I hope you don't experience this tho
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by Prettygirl200(f): 2:33pm On Jan 23, 2023
G00DHardDick:


Mu*mu. I'm sure you don't know how dumb and daft you are right now.

Simple question you're using reverse psychology deceiving yourself.

Madam, Tell us what you can offer a man in a relationship apart from your over used damaged pussy. State and list them here!!!
who in God's name is this thing, is that lady up there owing u any explanations, ur mother is the most unfortunate woman on earth to have birthed someone like u. If u are that eager to know kindly go and ask that bleeding woman that u call ur mother what she offered to your father aside her rotten pussy, whichever answr u give will be the answer to the question u are asking that lady.
Re: Please Help!! I Want To Get Married But I Only Attract Bad Girls by drnoel: 3:18pm On Jan 23, 2023
Jkoro29:
Hi nairalanders. This is the first time that I will be creating an account on Nairaland. I have been a guest for many years and I love this forum. I am not the type of person to share my issues with people, but this issue is very pressing and I don't seem to have found any answers from researching online. Please I would appreciate if one of the moderators sends this thread to the front page so I can get more responses.

I am 29 years old. I have a job, my own house and a car, and I am ready to settle down. I want to get married this year, unfailingly. The problem is that I only attract bad girls into my life. My definition of bad girls are those girls that club almost every night, girls that care so much about material things and about how they look, girls that wear skimpy outfits and show off their bodies at every chance. Girls that live on tiktok and instagram. These are the type of girls I attract.

What prompted me to create this account and post this is the experience I had today in church. There is the beautiful, quiet, modest looking usher that I have feelings for. I I have listened to her speak in our youth sunday school and she sound intelligent. She is also god-fearing and devoted in church. I admire these qualities in a wife. Today I walked up to her to introduce myself but the way she responded killed me on the inside. She didn't even smile. Just kept a straight face and didn't even care to respond to some of my questions. I felt defeated. I don't believe in forcing a friendship. I believe that when I approach a girl and she behaves like that, it is a sign that she doesn't like me at all and I would only be wasting time trying to get her to like me.

Meanwhile in the same church, there is one slay queen that has been giving me green light and always smiles when we lock eyes. I don't even know why girls like this come to church. There is another girl that twerks all the time on her whatsapp that is angry that I have been ignoring her. There are countless others i have slept with in the past that have all fit this profile. But not once have I had a relationship with a good girl. It is almost like a curse was placed on me. When ever i meet good girls, they always seem to not like me. Maybe I am bad at reading people, but the way they behave is the direct opposite of the way the bad girls behave when I meet them. The bad ones are always smiling, always attentive and always eager to know more about me.

I don't want to get married to a girl that doesn't have the fear of god, or a girl that smokes shisha and parties all night every weekday. I want to get married to a girl that has the qualities of the usher girl.

I am a good looking, responsible young man. I do not dress, look or act like a yahoo boy, in case you are wondering. I am well educated, I speak well and interact with people in a mature way.

The stuff you wrote is jus a definition of ladies in your age bracket or lower. They want to explore and that's just it. Give yourself time, marriage will come. Patience is a virtue

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