Idonweak:
Good evening house

I'm in a confused state right now.
There's a girl I'm talking to on WhatsApp who i really like. We've only been talking for 2 weeks. She's beautiful and hardworking and have most of the things i want from a girl.

We met each at the nccf family house but we were not close at all, although, i like her. Just 2 weeks ago, a mutual friend of ours told me that me that someone wants to borrow my laptop and it turns out it was this girl. I was very happy to lend it to her and i get to have her number. The following day, Monday precisely, she came for it and i was glad i saw her. She told me she wants to use it for ui/ux training and would need it for 2 weeks(mon - wed). I told her no problem and since then we have been chatting. However, since the time we started chatting i have been having this urge to tell her i like her etc but I don't want to make it seem as if i was taking advantage of the help i rendered. Meanwhile, i told that my friend that introduced her to me that i really like her but she advised me to be patient that if she is done using my laptop i can tell her.

However, yesterday i was just viewing status when i stumbled on her pictures and i complimented her.

Me: fine girl😊
Her: lie lie!( I felt this was an opportunity to shoot my shot)
So i replied: lying ke, swears and I'm even crushing

Then she went mute and didn't reply me to this moment. I felt maybe she was shocked so i didn't really think much about it. It was when i told that our mutual friend what transpired, that one said i had rush things too soon. She said i should have at least given her 3-4 weeks before telling her about my feelings. I was confused because i have always thought if you like someone, you let them know immediately but this my friend argued against that.

So, i want to know how long should you wait for after meeting a girl before you tell her you like her?

Spider20:

Helping a Female stranger, Am vividly sure if it happens to be a Male dude in need
You won't try assisting.......
Bloody Simp

StrongAlphMale:
This is a new year yet you have decided not to have sense?

Keep simping, we have no advice for simps here

Reminderz:
never tell a girl you like her before she does... just get close to her and act as if you guys are dating already... command respect as if she's your girl

Idonweak:



Problem with people like you is that you think everyone is like you. Let me tell you, i gave her my laptop and my camera that's worth 400,000 is with a friend who is a male for over a week. If I want to help i don't care about your what your gender is and i don't do it because I need something in return. I hope you get this into your thick empty skull.

gregyboy:


Lol, she will put you in your lane

Rainbow10:

Shut up you idiot,
Continue deceiving yourself.
You Definitely gonna learn the hard way
Mumu Man

Idonweak:

So having feelings automatically translate to being a simp. Chai all these nairaland kids won't stop amusing me

Maybe i should be gay like you then

Idonweak:
Good evening house

I'm in a confused state right now.
There's a girl I'm talking to on WhatsApp who i really like. We've only been talking for 2 weeks. She's beautiful and hardworking and have most of the things i want from a girl.

We met each at the nccf family house but we were not close at all, although, i like her. Just 2 weeks ago, a mutual friend of ours told me that me that someone wants to borrow my laptop and it turns out it was this girl. I was very happy to lend it to her and i get to have her number. The following day, Monday precisely, she came for it and i was glad i saw her. She told me she wants to use it for ui/ux training and would need it for 2 weeks(mon - wed). I told her no problem and since then we have been chatting. However, since the time we started chatting i have been having this urge to tell her i like her etc but I don't want to make it seem as if i was taking advantage of the help i rendered. Meanwhile, i told that my friend that introduced her to me that i really like her but she advised me to be patient that if she is done using my laptop i can tell her.

However, yesterday i was just viewing status when i stumbled on her pictures and i complimented her.

Me: fine girl😊
Her: lie lie!( I felt this was an opportunity to shoot my shot)
So i replied: lying ke, swears and I'm even crushing

Then she went mute and didn't reply me to this moment. I felt maybe she was shocked so i didn't really think much about it. It was when i told that our mutual friend what transpired, that one said i had rush things too soon. She said i should have at least given her 3-4 weeks before telling her about my feelings. I was confused because i have always thought if you like someone, you let them know immediately but this my friend argued against that.

So, i want to know how long should you wait for after meeting a girl before you tell her you like her?

tunize:
There is no particular time in general to tell a girl about your feelings. But meeting a girl within the space of 2weeks and thinking you’re in love with her sounds funny, you could actually tell her you like her and wish to be her friend and get to know her much better.
Along the line you will get to understand her and also find out if she likes you her responses and attention go show you don’t need to force it.

Idonweak:


I'm not in love. I just like her.

Idonweak:
Good evening house

I'm in a confused state right now.
There's a girl I'm talking to on WhatsApp who i really like. We've only been talking for 2 weeks. She's beautiful and hardworking and have most of the things i want from a girl.

We met each at the nccf family house but we were not close at all, although, i like her. Just 2 weeks ago, a mutual friend of ours told me that me that someone wants to borrow my laptop and it turns out it was this girl. I was very happy to lend it to her and i get to have her number. The following day, Monday precisely, she came for it and i was glad i saw her. She told me she wants to use it for ui/ux training and would need it for 2 weeks(mon - wed). I told her no problem and since then we have been chatting. However, since the time we started chatting i have been having this urge to tell her i like her etc but I don't want to make it seem as if i was taking advantage of the help i rendered. Meanwhile, i told that my friend that introduced her to me that i really like her but she advised me to be patient that if she is done using my laptop i can tell her.

However, yesterday i was just viewing status when i stumbled on her pictures and i complimented her.

Me: fine girl😊
Her: lie lie!( I felt this was an opportunity to shoot my shot)
So i replied: lying ke, swears and I'm even crushing

Then she went mute and didn't reply me to this moment. I felt maybe she was shocked so i didn't really think much about it. It was when i told that our mutual friend what transpired, that one said i had rush things too soon. She said i should have at least given her 3-4 weeks before telling her about my feelings. I was confused because i have always thought if you like someone, you let them know immediately but this my friend argued against that.

So, i want to know how long should you wait for after meeting a girl before you tell her you like her?

SanctifiedSista:
are u still there?

Idonweak:

Where?

SanctifiedSista:
alright ..u are there tell her how u feel

StrongAlphMale:


Oga haven't you read our Post here? You don't tell a girl you like her, Bros you go straight to the point to bang her pussy, then dump her and move on.

Become a Redpiller to understand how these things works, otherwise you can keep simping.

Note: However I didn't even read your post because I don't bother myself as regards anything concerning simps.

Shadysen:
na jazz you go carry go bang her pussy straight?