Hi, Nairalanders. I just met a lady who is a virgin and over 40. She is older than i am and she is financial independent. She is nice, caring and generous. She has a place of her own. I want to knack her and possibly get her pregnant, so that we can have kids together. She do giving me things for free. The issue now is that, she is this Churchy type and trying everything possible to avoid sex, even when i visited. And age is not by her side. Guys, What do i do abt this? I no wan pour sain, sain for my garri by initiating sex. Note: I have no bad intention against her. I'm not financially bouyant enough to do our human laws of marriage. She is even financially bouyant than i am.

Lol Bleep boy.

You have no bad intention against her.
You just want to knack her and get her pregnant
Motive!!

Then marry her 😏

If you don't want to marry please leave her alone.

I have no bad intention against her

But want to make her a baby mama/ becoming a leech to her.

TheZeezle:
Lol Bleep boy.

Guy, she likes me but na the knacking nai be my issue. Na Churchy she be. After i chatted her up abt our previous meeting and told how i enjoyed the time we spent together, she intend to invite me come over to her place 2moro.

Burdenbearer:
Hi, Nairalanders. I just met a lady who is a virgin and over 40. She is older than i am and she is financial independent. She is nice, caring and generous. She has a place of her own. I want to knack her and possibly get her pregnant, so that we can have kids together. She do giving me things for free. The issue now is that, she is this Churchy type and trying everything possible to avoid sex, even when i visited. And age is not by her side. Guys, What do i do abt this? I no wan pour sain, sain for my garri by initiating sex. Note: I have no bad intention against her. I'm not financially bouyant enough to do our human laws of marriage. She is even financially bouyant than i am.

Why not just marry her?

Take her to the registry if you don't have money for expensive wedding.

That is the honorable thing to do. If she were your sister, will you want a man to get her pregnant outside wedlock?

What do u wanna hear? Ok sleep over, u go surely Bleep her.

Burdenbearer:
Guy, she likes me but na the knacking nai be my issue. Na Churchy she be. After i chatted her up abt our previous meeting and told how i enjoyed the time we spent together, she intend to invite me come over to her place 2moro.

burp18:
You have no bad intention against her. You just want to knack her and get her pregnant Motive!!

She get money pass me so, na she dey marry me.

TheZeezle:
What do u wanna hear? Ok sleep over, u go surely Bleep her.

Would she agree? Remember that i said, she is a Churchy lady. And i dey fear make i no go say something wey go spoil my show. To say na normal girl, that wan for not be problem for me.

Burdenbearer:
She get money pass me so, na she dey marry me.

so if she's in for it and she agrees to sponsor the wedding, you go do?

burp18:
so if she's in for it and she agrees to sponsor the wedding, you go do?

I go do.

Burdenbearer:
Would she agree? Remember that i said, she is a Churchy lady. And i dey fear make i no go say something wey go spoil my show. To say na normal girl, that wan for not be problem for me.

I think you should be bold about it and tell her if you really like,, but if you just want hit and run I'd advise you thread carefully.

Earthstorms:


Why not just marry her?

Take her to the registry if you don't have money for expensive wedding.

That is the honorable thing to do. If she were your sister, will you want a man to get her pregnant outside wedlock?

hmmm, u have a point but......

Burdenbearer:
I go do.

Lol, she won't have any regards for you. She may be nice at first but the attitudes will start coming in later.

burp18:
I think you should be bold about it and tell her if you really like,, but if you just want hit and run I'd advise you thread carefully.

No, i have no intention to hit and run. I perceive that she wants marriage but she is clueless on what to do, knowing my financial status. 2. She is shy but she likes me.

Burdenbearer:
Hi, Nairalanders. I just met a lady who is a virgin and over 40. She is older than i am and she is financial independent. She is nice, caring and generous. She has a place of her own. I want to knack her and possibly get her pregnant, so that we can have kids together. She do giving me things for free. The issue now is that, she is this Churchy type and trying everything possible to avoid sex, even when i visited. And age is not by her side. Guys, What do i do abt this? I no wan pour sain, sain for my garri by initiating sex. Note: I have no bad intention against her. I'm not financially bouyant enough to do our human laws of marriage. She is even financially bouyant than i am.

burp18:
Lol, she won't have any regards for you. She may be nice at first but the attitudes will start coming in later.

Which is why, i won't buy the idea.

Burdenbearer:
Hi, Nairalanders. I just met a lady who is a virgin and over 40. She is older than i am and she is financial independent. She is nice, caring and generous. She has a place of her own. I want to knack her and possibly get her pregnant, so that we can have kids together. She do giving me things for free. The issue now is that, she is this Churchy type and trying everything possible to avoid sex, even when i visited. And age is not by her side. Guys, What do i do abt this? I no wan pour sain, sain for my garri by initiating sex. Note: I have no bad intention against her. I'm not financially bouyant enough to do our human laws of marriage. She is even financially bouyant than i am.

who told u Siofra is a virrrrgin?....are u ok sir? (no oofeinse)

You're not financially buoyant and you want to knack and impregnate someone..... Oga to slap you dey hungry me

See the way y'all are treating this guy's malicious intentions with kid gloves, laughing and making light of it. If it was a girl that created a thread asking how she could sleep with someone (even if it's someone her age), y'all would have been calling her all sorts of names. Just before you start telling me the biological and psychological differences between men and women, just remember not to come here tomorrow to lament that there's no one to marry. You can't expect only one gender to maintain the sanity in society while you wild around. No matter how much you train your girl child, they'll still mingle with the boy child you refused to hold accountable. And when they do, they can't bear the burden of morality all by themselves.

Burdenbearer:
No, i have no intention to hit and run. I perceive that she wants marriage but she is clueless on what to do, knowing my financial status. 2. She is shy but she likes me.

you could try the slow approach of gradually making her your friend and you'd get closer with time. Or you can tell her straight up without holding anything back.

Burdenbearer:
Which is why, i won't buy the idea.

some older ladies can be reasonable and understanding. But you wouldn't really know until you communicate with her

burp18:
you could try the slow approach of gradually making her your friend and you'd get closer with time. Or you can tell her straight up without holding anything back.

How do i do it? We are already friends.

burp18:
some older ladies can be reasonable and understanding. But you wouldn't really know until you communicate with her

U are right but what do i do now?

etrange:
See the way y'all are treating this guy's malicious intentions with kid gloves, laughing and making light of it. If it was a girl that created a thread asking how she could sleep with someone (even if it's someone her age), y'all would have been calling her all sorts of names. Just before you start telling me the biological and psychological differences between men and women, just remember not to come here tomorrow to lament that there's no one to marry. You can't expect only one gender to maintain the sanity in society while you wild around. No matter how much you train your girl child, they'll still mingle with the boy child you refused to hold accountable. And when they do, they can't bear the burden of morality all by themselves.

Men and women are wired differently. Most men can't get involved with someone they're not emotionally attached to but it's not thesame for women

etrange:
See the way y'all are treating this guy's malicious intentions with kid gloves, laughing and making light of it. If it was a girl that created a thread asking how she could sleep with someone (even if it's someone her age), y'all would have been calling her all sorts of names. Just before you start telling me the biological and psychological differences between men and women, just remember not to come here tomorrow to lament that there's no one to marry. You can't expect only one gender to maintain the sanity in society while you wild around. No matter how much you train your girl child, they'll still mingle with the boy child you refused to hold accountable. And when they do, they can't bear the burden of morality all by themselves.

Thanks! Moral instruction teacher.

Burdenbearer:
U are right but what do i do now?

call to check up on her more often. Ask her how she's doing, how her day went,, be more involved in her life but don't over do it. With time you'd get closer together and it'd be easier to communicate how you feel to her.

burp18:
call to check up on her more often. Ask her how she's doing, how her day went,, be more involved in her life but don't over do it. With time you'd get closer together and it'd be easier to communicate how you feel to her.

That i have been doing. Should i bring up marital discussions? I perceive She is shy to bring up such discussion but she wants something more than just being friends. It could be that, she wants me to make the move or do the proposal. And possibly, she isn't sure of my feelings for her.

Was she the one tha opened her mouth and told you she was a virgin?

burp18:
call to check up on her more often. Ask her how she's doing, how her day went,, be more involved in her life but don't over do it. With time you'd get closer together and it'd be easier to communicate how you feel to her.

hmmm, u have a point sha.....But i prefer doing somethings tru text. Anyway, it is noted.