Hello fam. I've been battling this mental ailment for ages
now and I did not take it serious until now that reality is
getting dawn on me.

The mental ailment I'm actually battling with right now is
the fact that my Brain dont quickly process what to say
quickly and on time and that if I'm with people (Either a
Guy or a Girl) I just don't know what to say like I'm just so
poor at communicating and this have over the years
affected my relationship with lotta people and brought bout disrespect to my personality. Like Imagine talking to me and I can't just vibe like a normal person.(not that I dont have life experiences but I suck at just explaining things in an interesting way) I remember during uni days and I happen to do presentations, Lecturers would be like "What are you saying" and in trying to explain myself or get to explain the more, they just get frustrated and rain insult on me and just pass me outta pity not that I deserve it tho but I'm just always enjoying that type of mercy. I hardly remember things and forget things alot.

If I also want to talk, I just can't talk fluently its always
like words do hang in my head and mouth and just say
nonsense atimes unintentionally. At the moment, I try as much as possible to avoid people cus of who I am and this is really affecting my life and personality. People don't respect me, I've got bad relationships with people even with my siblings and I can tell you categorically the only folks I've got in my life right now is my mum and Dad. I'll be 25 this year and I'm emotionally and psychologically unhealthy and sick, I've lost appetite and don't get to eat often that I'm growing so thin people are telling me. I've never had a girlfriend and right now there's the girl living close that just packed in, she's the only person that have shown me care all my life aside my mum and sisters and I'm crushing on her cuz she seem rare to me but I've been avoiding her cuz ion want her too loose interest in me and do like I dont exist like everyone does cus of my personality and I can't just can't stop feeling emotional pains

At the moment, what's stopping me from doing the worse to
myself is cuz of my mom and Religion. that anyone who
commit suicide goes to hell. I seriously hate the life I'm
living now. Did I also tell you guys I can't read to
understand and don't remember things. before I grab
things people have to explain and explain bfr I get things.
Most times people just get tired of me and I can't blame
them seriously cuz if I were them I'd get tired of me. I'm
seriously sick guys, I'm emotionally and psychologically sick
guys and I can't quit crying myself to sleep most night. I'm
just tired really. I hate the fact that I gotta suffer this.

Pls don't mind the way I type that's just my type in words.
Is there any mental or brain doctor here? is this a medical
condition that can be cured? plz I need y'all to help me live
this life or escape it.

mynd44
lalasticlala farano
Rocktation

Sorry about your condition, you need therapy

You need to eat alot of cucumber and pineapples. They are both fruits used to correct speech / communication problems. They also aid critical thinking capabilities

Gift96:
You need to eat alot of cucumber and pineapples. They are both fruits used to correct speech problems

I do take them, esp pineapples tho not so often but I've not experienced improvements

Ablemed:


I do take them, esp pineapples tho not so often but I've not experienced improvements

That's because you've not eaten enough

Gift96:


That's because you've not eaten enough

pls apart from these fruits you mentioned, can you recommend pills or drugs I can get? and the fruits, how much do you suggest I eat weakly

Go to LUTH and see a Neurologist.

I pray you get better soon.

Oga nothing is wrong with you. If you typed the above by yourself then your OK. 1) as for women liking you, that is an art ,but i will give you Simple method to get instant girlfriend. Dress neat, smell nice ( expensive perfume), have small cash for outing with your new girl you don't have yet. Once you are done with the above look for a hair dressing saloon go there on weekends to wash your feet and do your nails. If you frequent such places you will catch one over time.

2) as for your slow learning ability. People are created that way
In fact Albert Einstein's primary school teacher said he will never amount to anything because he was slow to understand anything. Besides you may have a hidden talent you need to discover.
Finally slow to speak is good because you sin less and tell fewer lies. That will assist your chances of making heaven. Keeping quiet makes people think your knowledgeable and mature then slow to speak crowns it all. Your unique.
3) Try to achieve Something with your life no matter your perceived disability.

Ablemed:
Hello fam. I've been battling this mental ailment for ages
now and I did not take it serious until now that reality is
getting dawn on me.

The mental ailment I'm actually battling with right now is
the fact that my Brain dont quickly process what to say
quickly and on time and that if I'm with people (Either a
Guy or a Girl) I just don't know what to say like I'
m just so
poor at communicating and this have over the years
affected my relationship with lotta people and brought bout disrespect to my personality. Like Imagine talking to me and I can't just vibe like a normal person.(not that I dont have life experiences but I suck at just explaining things in an interesting way) I remember during uni days and I happen to do presentations, Lecturers would be like "What are you saying" and in trying to explain myself or get to explain the more, they just get frustrated and rain insult on me and just pass me outta pity not that I deserve it tho but I'm just always enjoying that type of mercy. I hardly remember things and forget things alot.

If I also want to talk, I just can't talk fluently its always
like words do hang in my head and mouth and just say
nonsense atimes unintentionally. At the moment, I try as much as possible to avoid people cus of who I am and this is really affecting my life and personality. People don't respect me, I've got bad relationships with people even with my siblings and I can tell you categorically the only folks I've got in my life right now is my mum and Dad. I'll be 25 this year and I'm emotionally and psychologically unhealthy and sick, I've lost appetite and don't get to eat often that I'm growing so thin people are telling me. I've never had a girlfriend and right now there's the girl living close that just packed in, she's the only person that have shown me care all my life aside my mum and sisters and I'm crushing on her cuz she seem rare to me but I've been avoiding her cuz ion want her too loose interest in me and do like I dont exist like everyone does cus of my personality and I can't just can't stop feeling emotional pains

At the moment, what's stopping me from doing the worse to
myself is cuz of my mom and Religion. that anyone who
commit suicide goes to hell. I seriously hate the life I'm
living now. Did I also tell you guys I can't read to
understand and don't remember things. before I grab
things people have to explain and explain bfr I get things.
Most times people just get tired of me and I can't blame
them seriously cuz if I were them I'd get tired of me. I'm
seriously sick guys, I'm emotionally and psychologically sick
guys and I can't quit crying myself to sleep most night. I'm
just tired really. I hate the fact that I gotta suffer this.

Pls don't mind the way I type that's just my type in words.
Is there any mental or brain doctor here? is this a medical
condition that can be cured? plz I need y'all to help me live
this life or escape it.

And when did you start experiencing this?

Ablemed:


pls apart from these fruits you mentioned, can you recommend pills or drugs I can get? and the fruits, how much do you suggest I eat weakly

Why not go and see a doctor instead of what you are doing now?

BeardedmeatR:
Why not go and see a doctor instead of what you are doing now?

Jennyclay:
Go to LUTH and see a Neurologist.

I pray you get better soon.

There's no neurologists in this part of the North where I'm at, they often refer people to Kano

Ablemed:




There's no neurologists in this part of the North where I'm at, they often refer people to Kano

Try and get to Kano any how bro. There must be a diagnosis before treatment. Self medication is bad.

Na wa....

Many people roaming the streets of this country have one mental illness or the other....But many of dem don't know yet...

I think it's dementia

Have you had any head injury in the past? @Ablemed

if you masturbate,please stop it.

Gift96:
You need to eat alot of cucumber and pineapples. They are both fruits used to correct speech / communication problems. They also aid critical thinking capabilities

what if the op don forget wetin you talk now 😑🤭

IamDietiesGod:
And when did you start experiencing this?

him go don forget shaa

I used to be very bad at pleasantries. Like I literally take a break to process it before giving an answer. Worse is when they use Hausa or my native language (I'm mhiship from Plateau state). Most times I ended up saying incoherent words since no one ever waits 5 seconds for you to answer their greetings. It's not that bad now tho.
Sorry about what you're going through @ op

See why breastmilk is underrated.

Sorry about your experience. Just take is easy, you will find other areas that you shine in and then it will stop to matter. For example, most serious tech guys are known to be geniuses who are quite socially awkward. So who knows? There is something out there for you that will make you forget this fact about yourself.

You don’t have any problem young man. You are not just ready to come out of your your shell

Try talking to someone about it. Someone you trust. Never let this bring down your self esteem.
This is one of the reasons I feel I need a girlfriend. Thank You

BenedictAbajue:
Try talking to someone about it. Someone you trust.
Never let this bring down your self esteem.

This is one of the reasons I feel I need a girlfriend.
Thank You

It's crushing my confidence alot and that's one of the thing making me depressed. I'm always scared to talk in gathering, gathering is even big, even in small groups. it's really bad for me

Jazzman01:
Have you had any head injury in the past? @Ablemed

I can't really say but I remember one time while growing, I was sitting on with some area kids playing then my hand slipped and I fell hitting my head backwards and of course blood gushed out. wasn't really a typa big fall that could have fractured my skull tho. this happened while I was 7/8yrs old thereabout

Jennyclay:
Go to LUTH and see a Neurologist.

I pray you get better soon.

Never thought anything good can come out of Nazereth! Nice one.

Op, it doesn't have to be LUTH but any tertiary or psychiatric/Mental hospital close to you. Do not despair too much, your situation can be highly improved!

Tomorrow at 7am, join the NSPPD morning prayers on YouTube. Just type "nsppd live now" and join. Let's see if you don't get a testimony in a week.

the more you communicate with people, the better u become
start gyming bro, i mean intensive body building, it will kickstart your confidence

Ablemed:


I can't really say but I remember one time while growing, I was sitting on with some area kids playing then my hand slipped and I fell hitting my head backwards and of course blood gushed out. wasn't really a typa big fall that could have fractured my skull tho. this happened while I was 7/8yrs old thereabout

Sorry about that. Op, i am not a medical expert but your issue is confidence related.

If you can convince yourself that you are perfectly alright, i strongly believe that your condition will go.

Read the following books or try and listen to audiobooks on them:
- Limitless by Jim Kwik (he had a fall when he was a child, but today, he makes a living teaching about memory training) - get it from libgen free; for audiobook: search for limitless audiobook on youtube
- The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy : search on libgen.is , for audiobook : search power of subconscious mind audiobook on youtube ..
- Read about Michael Watson's story. He recovered from near death and severe brain damage after his fight with Chris Eubank - his story will teach you that anything is possible. - check youtube for this
- Download all courses by Jim Kwik from here free : https://pimpmymind.net/?s=jim+kwik

I hope this helps you brother. If you need any other guidance, you can DM me and I'll try and respond as soon as I can.

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I AM A CHOSEN
I AM A CHOSEN
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Brain problem, Who are you?
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Ablemed:


It's crushing my confidence alot and that's one of the thing making me depressed. I'm always scared to talk in gathering, gathering is even big, even in small groups. it's really bad for me

Bros see. I have misaligned upper teeth. That should reduce my confidence right? As I dey now, I never enter uni but the girls I don ask out na uncountable.
I for say more but I no know the day my mama go join nairaland.

But you just get the point.
As long as you have and keep matured friends, no one will mock you.

Normally Me I be ghost reader o, na because I see suicide na why I post.

If you kill yourself, na hell.

Why not make money, enter club, enjoy woman, die normally and still go to hell :-P :-D

The emboldened na gift from me o make you smile small....no take am serious o

Now on a more serious note, I know many stammerers. Why should you be the first to complain.
Carry your cross and follow me-JESUS
No let the cross kill you o

One word: stop masturbating and take zinc supplements.

Thank me later.