Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Nazgul:

Possible reasons...

1. Waywardness.

2. Egoistic.

3. Inability to submit to a man.

4. Too busy to waste her time on a man.

5. Authoritative.

6. Never admits to her fault and is always right.

7. Over exposure. Which can make prospective guys feel insecure.

8. Looks down on men. Most especially if she's a top earner.

9. Bossy

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Winterhaven:
I've broken up with a fair few women because of that number 6. Some women believe they can't make mistakes - like they can never be wrong. Once i notice you are that kind of person, I don cut you off sharpally.

Prettygirl200:
Who you epp? Cut off or no cut off no one gives a shit about you!!!

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

LadyRosa2:


Majority of Nigerian men actually don't like 'sanctimonious ' ladies, that's just the truth.

I have had better men when I was wild than when I pretend to be 'sanctimonious '.

anthonyuncle:
1. pride: most independent ladies feel they don't need to be loyal to any man. they feel that since they've made it, they don't need to be committed to a guy.

2. societal classification: due to their level of success, most independent ladies keep waiting and searching for guys that are sooooo made. these ladies see guys that genuinely love them. they reject these guys because are not up to their societal level of success. funny thing is that most of the sooooo made guys won't take these ladies serious.

3. societal presumption: there is a belief that a lady can never be so successful without being involved in promiscuity(either in her past or present). it is assumed that she climbed the ladder through the help of men.

4. misconception of feminism: (especially in our society). some of them claim to be feminists without understanding it fully.

5. work: to be sincere, in order to maintain their level of success, some successful independent ladies spend most of their time focusing on work and have little time for socializing.

6. insecurity: (this exist for both genders). most successful people are so suspicious about people around them. they feel that anyone coming close to them is trying to get something from them. this makes them to always be on the defensive whenever they are around people.

7. too busy for grooming: have you noticed that most successful ladies have poor dress sense, they don't(personally) know how to look good, their rooms and apartments are always untidy, and some are so unkempt and dirty.
this is mostly due to the fact that they focus more on work and nothing else.


I don talk plenty

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Prettygirl200:
Who you epp? Cut off or no cut off no one gives a shit about you!!!

StrongAlphMale:


Learn to Shut up in an important thread like this. Check the comments here to see the perfect answers to the question the op asked. Lots of guys here have given the answer already and not this rubbish you wrote.

Nazgul:

Possible reasons...

1. Waywardness.

2. Egoistic.

3. Inability to submit to a man.

4. Too busy to waste her time on a man.

5. Authoritative.

6. Never admits to her fault and is always right.

7. Over exposure. Which can make prospective guys feel insecure.

8. Looks down on men. Most especially if she's a top earner.

9. Bossy

Winterhaven:
Calm down before you pop a nerve over someone you give no shiit about. If you can checkmate your ego, I'm sure you'll find a guy before this year runs out.

frozen70:


Men do get scared of independent women

Though just few of them are bold enough to be close to such women

Being an independent woman makes you a strong woman

But some men may fear that she may not be submissive

I think what the men should be looking out for in a woman, should be some one who will be supportive and caring

LadyRosa2:


Majority of Nigerian men actually don't like 'sanctimonious ' ladies, that's just the truth.

I have had better men when I was wild than when I pretend to be 'sanctimonious '.

Fahvvy:


And where are those men now? ...

LadyRosa2:


Sister, abeg make money and leave what naija men thinks.While at it earn to make even more when you're married, because na women wey get money get mouth o for marriage.

Its just few naija men that doesn't fear rich girls. Yes! Its fear and many are dealing with low self worth with women like that.Contrary to what they spill here, majority of them prefer leeches to a highly intelligent well paid independent woman.

frozen70:


You are absolutely right

Women are making money nowadays and they are being recognized by their efforts and contributions in the family and are appreciated by men who value such women

LadyRosa2:


They are still alive and kicking.

Fahvvy:
That's the thing with women ...

Most of y'all don't know nada about what it means to keep a man, but yet y'all just can't shut up and allow the men to talk ...

The question was addressed to men, any wise woman would listen and not but.t in ...

But no...
Look above me and see things yourself ...

If those females who but.ted in were saying something sensible, it would be understandable, but they just be spilling crap ...

No wonder why you can't keep a man in your life long term ...

@OP...
I believe your questions have been answered, but if you need more insights, please feel free to mention me...

LadyRosa2:


Hello!
Many questions addressed to women on here get overtaken by your silly gender in their majority MOST of the time.

Little wonder, NL is over ridden with more males than females. Always bullying them to run off this forum.

But there are few, like me who are too old on here to take shittr from several scums here, I take them to the cleaners outright!

Many of you guys open stupid threads just to spite females here, and when I have the time, I say it as it is, as long as it concerns women as well.

Na women dey take una serious for here.