Goldmynemaniac:

It's by awakening to your identity. (Don't take this literally)

You lost me my man.
This sounds like some quasi-motivational talk.

HudsonYard:
How do I fucking stop thinking about girls,
I can't help it, try to distract myself but the thought still dey there.

This has actually poison my productivity.
I don't want to think about these gender till I'm 30/ achieve some goals.(I'm in my mid 20s)

Help with advice abeg, this thing dey affect me really. I just want to forget them like they don't exist and focus on my work.

I don't want to desire them.

always be in the moment.

Oscarhakx:
always be in the moment.

Care to expound?

HudsonYard:

Thanks a lot Geo
I just sent you a PM.

I replied you

HudsonYard:

You lost me my man.
This sounds like some quasi-motivational talk.

You wish!
It sounds so simple that it's simplicity is a problem.

Here we go again.

If I find myself thinking about a girl , I try to bang her , that way I don see her finish , then I stop thinking about her

HudsonYard:
How do I fucking stop thinking about girls,
I can't help it, try to distract myself but the thought still dey there.

This has actually poison my productivity.
I don't want to think about these gender till I'm 30/ achieve some goals.(I'm in my mid 20s)

Help with advice abeg, this thing dey affect me really. I just want to forget them like they don't exist and focus on my work.

I don't want to desire them.

You need to engage in activities that can distract you like learning a skill, hit the gym, football etc.

Also, reduce the time you spent on all those apps like tiktok, twitter and Facebook reels... Most of their contents are sex sex