There's this girl I knew since 2019 cos we were classmates then till we finished school.
So Precious(not her real name) and I finished school and she got admission before me cos she's attending a private university.
Precious and I were friends in secondary school and we even promised each other that we would be partners in Philanthropism in the future. Thats how close we were. There was nothing sexual between us. We were just friends, she once told me how she feels about my guys that are crushing on her.
Precious always keeps her plan on her future life hidden from me though. She only told me she was going to study nursing and she wouldnt make use of her certificate.

Now Precious has gotten admission and she never calls to hear from me. When I call her, she'll always tell me she's busy and that she would call me back. But she never calls back.
She did this like 3 times and I decided to stop calling her too.
Recently I called her because I felt it had been long since I heard from her. The call went well this time around.
After the call I called one my guy who was crushing on Precious before. When I told him about the call, he predicted how the call went and told me that was how Precious always does, That she never calls back.
I now feel like she's trying to her detach herself from her secondary school friends silently.
I've been thinking of why she would want to do that and I wasnt able to think of any reason so I decided to bring the matter here.
NOW MY QUESTION
Should I just let her go or should I talk to her and try to get her perspective?
If I talk to her, Should I remind her of our future promise?
What do you suggest I should do?

How old are you? Which kind of childish thread is this. Precious is now in tune with realities of life while you are still stuck in a fairytale

IyaebeTheGreat:
How old are you? Which kind of childish thread is this. Precious is now in tune with realities of life while you are still stuck in a fairytale

Okay.
So what should I do?

Bunch of naive teenagers.

Let her be and focus on your own life.
There are many other people y'all will meet in the course of you both journey in life. Nothing is promised

All these 10 years old child thread....


With twelve paragraphs


Berra go and map out your own life

BenedictAbajue:

Okay
So what should I do?

Focus on your life and find ways to improve yourself. You can look for trouble here on nairaland to while away time

IyaebeTheGreat:
Focus on your life and find ways to improve yourself.

Okay thanks

BenedictAbajue:

Okay thanks

You are welcome

Mercury12:
Bunch of naive teenagers.

I'd remain naive if I do not ask questions

Mercury12:

Let her be and focus on your own life.
There are many other people y'all will meet in the course of you both journey in life. Nothing is promised

Thanks

Guy,

faceFRONT & face your career squarely.

You & precious are no longer on the same level.

faceLAGOS:
Guy,
You and precious are no longer on the same level.

Seems like I just have to deal with it. I set my expectations too high.

Lol
Ok darling, go read ur textbook and leave precious alone.

Focus more on ur life, improve urself... Babes are going to come 🤧
Leave precious 🙄

Sweetvie:
Lol
Ok darling, go read ur textbook and leave precious alone.

Focus more on ur life, improve urself... Babes are going to come

I never thought of her as babe.
I think time would solve this issue.

BenedictAbajue:

Should I just let her go or should I talk to her and try to get her perspective?
If I talk to her, Should I remind her of our future promise?
What do you suggest I should do?

Young blood, You ain't seena nothing yet. Life is like a party Different people come in and some leave early while others leave late but few stay to clean up the mess with you. Let her a be, she's gotta do what she's gotta do and you do you too.

falcon01:
Young blood, You ain't seena nothing yet.
Life is like a party.
Different people come in and some leave early while others leave late but few stay to clean up the mess with you.

I'm so grateful for this

BenedictAbajue:

I never thought of her as babe.
I think time would solve this issue.

Hmm.
You guys are no longer in same level again. So, you need to focus more on yourself. That's life after secondary School for you.

falcon01:
Young blood, You ain't seena nothing yet. Life is like a party Different people come in and some leave early while others leave late but few stay to clean up the mess with you. Let her a be, she's gotta do what she's gotta do and you do you too.

Yeah.

BenedictAbajue:

Okay
So what should I do?

Go n read your books child

Goodlady:
Go n read your books child

I'm talking social and emotional here. Not like I do not read my books.

people with no self value or respect are the ones forcing themselves on people,she ain't interested in rolling with you guys no more people grow , people change you should too, delete her number and move on

young man, future first future first..

Be Taliban...

Nnawah o..

Kiddo.. go read and concentrate on your books

Forget about her and move on. No downgrade yourself by calling her.

In Yoruba adage.

20 children cannot play for 20 years.

I wish say na dis kyn problems I get for my life

BenedictAbajue:

Okay thanks

Have you gotten admission yet?

If not, that's one of the problems
Most girls reason like that, she thinks you two are no longer on the same level cos she has gotten admission and left you behind

ProphetM0hammad:


Have you gotten admission yet?

If not, that's one of the problems
Most girls reason like that, she thinks you two are no longer on the same level cos she has gotten admission and left you behind

I scored far better than her in Jamb. She got admission before me but now I have my admission now.
Its just the difference in schools that gave her that edge.

BenedictAbajue:

I scored far better than her in Jamb. She got admission before me but now I have my admission now.
Its just the difference in schools that gave her that edge.

Just ignore her and focus on your progress
You'll meet a lot of interesting people in school

ProphetM0hammad:
Just ignore her and focus on your progress You'll meet a lot of interesting people in school

Okay Thanks I can't even wait again to get to school sef. We're resuming May 1st