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Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by luminouz(m): 4:43am On Mar 14, 2023
Jimbadly:


Go fvck yourself bastard! Stay off my mentions.

Oh he is so right about you.

Are you hurting darling? You need a huggie, a hankie or a mudafucking hankie-pankie, a walkie talkie or a goddamn balls-in-a-grinder yankie?

Damn, you are so uncouth I lost my wordplay. Who raised you?
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by SenecaTheYonger: 4:46am On Mar 14, 2023
Offpointng:
I don't know how to put it in the right words tho. but my Mum kinda have a past History with Igbo people that's making accepting my Girlfriend a problem. One of it was, when she had my Pregnancy, she had to work under this Igbo woman that maltreated her and did the unthinkable to a pregnant woman. The painful thing was, the woman's friends also used that leverage to insult, maltreat and do all manner of unthinkable things to her despite seeing how heavily pregnant she was. Before then, the nature of my Dad's job is a type that he only comes home twice monthly and my mum being a woman that wasn't trained to be idle took it on herself to keep herself busy atleast and decide to work at a Restaurant close to where she lived and that was the inhumane treatment she got. When we moved to the SW, we had to stay in this flat that had two Igbo neighbors. My mom actually made friends with them outta a pure heart but they just kept taking advantage of the fact that she a free giver. they back bite and do say bad things about her alot. The Yoruba neighbors on the other hand were more friendly to her and so overtime, she do have this distant relationship with any Igbo person she meet and that history is bout affecting my relationship with this girl. I would have said I'll go ahead with the relationship regardless but my mom don't want to tell you something and you disobey. it always come with regrets. esp me, anytime I do something she doesn't want me to do I always do regret it.

This have got me worried tbh. what can I do fam?

So your mom only ever met one Igbo person in her whole life? I’m sure there are some that treated her well in the past but trust a natural tribalist to hold onto one negative experience for their excuse at being tribalistic.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Dshocker(m): 4:56am On Mar 14, 2023
Offpointng:
I don't know how to put it in the right words tho. but my Mum kinda have a past History with Igbo people that's making accepting my Girlfriend a problem. One of it was, when she had my Pregnancy, she had to work under this Igbo woman that maltreated her and did the unthinkable to a pregnant woman. The painful thing was, the woman's friends also used that leverage to insult, maltreat and do all manner of unthinkable things to her despite seeing how heavily pregnant she was. Before then, the nature of my Dad's job is a type that he only comes home twice monthly and my mum being a woman that wasn't trained to be idle took it on herself to keep herself busy atleast and decide to work at a Restaurant close to where she lived and that was the inhumane treatment she got. When we moved to the SW, we had to stay in this flat that had two Igbo neighbors. My mom actually made friends with them outta a pure heart but they just kept taking advantage of the fact that she a free giver. they back bite and do say bad things about her alot. The Yoruba neighbors on the other hand were more friendly to her and so overtime, she do have this distant relationship with any Igbo person she meet and that history is bout affecting my relationship with this girl. I would have said I'll go ahead with the relationship regardless but my mom don't want to tell you something and you disobey. it always come with regrets. esp me, anytime I do something she doesn't want me to do I always do regret it.

This have got me worried tbh. what can I do fam?

Yoruba should marry Yoruba, Igbos should marry Igbos.

Stay away from her, period.

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Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Qatar2022: 7:53am On Mar 14, 2023
Offpointng:


I love my mom so much but my fears now is her avoiding my house or my marriage completely cuz when I look at my mum it's something she can do. if she doesn't like you she'll so avoid you. imagine getting married and my mum can't visit my house cuz she don't like my woman. it can be sickening really
Save yourself the stress and let the girl go,
After all the nonsense you people talk about igbo people you guys still run after them, let her go and go love your mum

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Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Jimbadly: 7:57am On Mar 14, 2023
luminouz:


Oh he is so right about you.

Are you hurting darling? You need a huggie, a hankie or a mudafucking hankie-pankie, a walkie talkie or a goddamn balls-in-a-grinder yankie?

Damn, you are so uncouth I lost my wordplay. Who raised you?

Oga shift make I see road.

Bunch of tribalistic elements.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by DaInferno(m): 8:09am On Mar 14, 2023
Those of us that are neither Igbo nor yoruba are just looking at this post like it's nothing. It's very meaningless. Even if na for Zimbabwe I see girl I like, I go wife, her period!

It's important to note that this is whom I'd be spending the rest of my days with first before worrying about what mum likes or not.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by YorubaSamurai: 9:04am On Mar 14, 2023
Your mom should have arrested you and have you beaten mercilessly for even dating an igbo girl..
Nothing good about that cursed tribe from the pit of hell

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Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by FuckYourFather(f): 9:52am On Mar 14, 2023
OP you are a kid, if something happens to someone's child you will be held responsible and if i were her dad i would have personally dealt with you.

Why can't you go and rent your own house and move in with your wife and leave your tribalistic mother alone. keep doing mummy's boy, you will marry your mom, omo ase!
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by FuckYourFather(f): 9:57am On Mar 14, 2023
YorubaSamurai:
My mom should have arrested me and have me beaten mercilessly for even dating a dirty yoruba girl..
Nothing good about that cursed tribe from the pit of hell

yorubas are the most dirty set of people on earth, and they breed agberos and harlots as children
MAY GOD PUNISH YORUBA TRIBE
I AM YORUBA AND MAY GOD PUNISH ME AND MY FAMILY TOO


Heyyah,,, boy take it easy on yourself ok, don't self destruct

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Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by YorubaSamurai: 12:49pm On Mar 14, 2023
FuckYourFather:



Heyyah,,, boy take it easy on yourself ok, don't self destruct
my comment pain you... grin
Die by fire you bloody igboman
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Quality20(m): 1:36pm On Mar 14, 2023
Is there any sane person who doesn't have issue with d Igbo tribe?

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Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by DarkPheonix: 2:14pm On Mar 14, 2023
Don't mind this foolish offpointng, he is a tribalist who I am very sure doesn't have any yoruba girlfriend but I believe his mother is also a tribal bigot. You can check is post, he is all over nairaland showing is tribalistic sentiment and I know this thread is created to paint the igbo tribe bad.

I am a yoruba and I fuckin hate tribalist like you, all you do is going about sowing seed of hatred that will come back to later consume you one day when you least expected.

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Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Weallbloom: 2:20pm On Mar 14, 2023
This post was made just to excite the masturbatory fancy of Igbo haters. It's a made-up story. Notice how his mother is hated by Igbo all around. Notice how he didn't say anything about the girl, just that she's Igbo? Like other wise people here have said, leave the Igbo damsel alone. Go find someone else your mother will be fine with as daughter-in-law. Ndeewo!

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Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by aronski(m): 3:04pm On Mar 14, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Your girlfriend is the person you should study and if you are satisfied with her character and everything then you shouldn’t listen to your mother. I dislike tribalism and and making a general conclusion on any tribe just because of some experience you had with some people, not a good thing. I believe in personal character, we all have our unique characters irrespective of our tribes and religion.

Very true!

Our tribe or religion does not define who will become in the future or define our characters or guarantee us success or makes us special than anyone or even give us advantage over others.

But still yet, tribalism is a major killer. I lost interest in my girlfriend after she listed the tribes her mom told her if her future husband belongs to, she will reject and my tribe was among. She also supported her mom by saying all men from those tribe are useless. I felt hurt, and that moment I asked myself how she sees me/define me. I asked her and she was like "am different" bla bla bla, but it was there.

I left oh, ah no fit...
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by 1Sharon(f): 4:12pm On Mar 14, 2023
Are you a man?? How can you call yourself an adult if you can't take your own decisions?

I really cannot stand Nigerian men like this.

I see why women want to avoid men especially if he's the only and first son of his mother.

I'm pretty sure there are other times you have disobeyed your mother in your lifetime, so why do you now want to draw the line here? Hypocrites.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by davillian(m): 5:05pm On Mar 14, 2023
Offpointng:
I don't know how to put it in the right words tho. but my Mum kinda have a past History with Igbo people that's making accepting my Girlfriend a problem. One of it was, when she had my Pregnancy, she had to work under this Igbo woman that maltreated her and did the unthinkable to a pregnant woman. The painful thing was, the woman's friends also used that leverage to insult, maltreat and do all manner of unthinkable things to her despite seeing how heavily pregnant she was. Before then, the nature of my Dad's job is a type that he only comes home twice monthly and my mum being a woman that wasn't trained to be idle took it on herself to keep herself busy atleast and decide to work at a Restaurant close to where she lived and that was the inhumane treatment she got. When we moved to the SW, we had to stay in this flat that had two Igbo neighbors. My mom actually made friends with them outta a pure heart but they just kept taking advantage of the fact that she a free giver. they back bite and do say bad things about her alot. The Yoruba neighbors on the other hand were more friendly to her and so overtime, she do have this distant relationship with any Igbo person she meet and that history is bout affecting my relationship with this girl. I would have said I'll go ahead with the relationship regardless but my mom don't want to tell you something and you disobey. it always come with regrets. esp me, anytime I do something she doesn't want me to do I always do regret it.

This have got me worried tbh. what can I do fam?
Grow up a little ...
So you can make decisions for yourself without the influence of anyone

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Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by FuckYourFather(f): 6:31pm On Mar 14, 2023
YorubaSamurai:
i want to kill myself, i am a useless troll my life is useless

go ahead bro
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by KarinaSlim(f): 7:34pm On Mar 14, 2023
Story....story...
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Yomit71(m): 7:41pm On Mar 14, 2023
Jimbadly:
What a silly woman your mother is. She hates your girlfriend cos she perceives Igbos as mean, based on just two experiences she had with Igbos in the past? She lacks maturity and sense, that's all. Illiterates have a weird sense of reasoning. I'm sure your mum has never seen the 4 walls of a higher institution where you interact with people from diverse ethnic background without prejudice.

If we start judging ethnic groups based on few undesirable isolated experiences we had with them, then no one will associate with anyone from a different tribe as theirs.

This issue is a no-brainer. Simply go and get a girlfriend from your tribe so that your petty mother will rest. Stop disturbing us with inconsequential topics here. After all, she's just a common girlfriend and not a fiancee yet. Just find a girl from your tribe and let us rest abeg. 😐 Ndi ara!
Your parents failed in their duty raising you.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Yomit71(m): 7:42pm On Mar 14, 2023
Quality20:
Is there any sane person who doesn't have issue with d Igbo tribe?
None sir.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Yomit71(m): 7:43pm On Mar 14, 2023
DarkPheonix:
Don't mind this foolish offpointng, he is a tribalist who I am very sure doesn't have any yoruba girlfriend but I believe his mother is also a tribal bigot. You can check is post, he is all over nairaland showing is tribalistic sentiment and I know this thread is created to paint the igbo tribe bad.

I am a yoruba and I fuckin hate tribalist like you, all you do is going about sowing seed of hatred that will come back to later consume you one day when you least expected.
who is this nonentity
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by YorubaSamurai: 7:48pm On Mar 14, 2023
FuckYourFather:


go ahead bro
okoro fool
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by DarkPheonix: 7:51pm On Mar 14, 2023
Yomit71:

who is this nonentity
Your father is the nonentity
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Yomit71(m): 8:22pm On Mar 14, 2023
DarkPheonix:

Your father is the nonentity
Okay, that means you inherit it from him right.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by DarkPheonix: 8:33pm On Mar 14, 2023
Yomit71:

Okay, that means I inherit it from him right.
Yes you did.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Yomit71(m): 8:40pm On Mar 14, 2023
DarkPheonix:

Yes you did.
I see, my regards to your father.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Jimbadly: 12:30am On Mar 15, 2023
Yomit71:

Your parents failed in their duty raising you.

And you're a bastard.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by VictorGeneral4(m): 1:58am On Mar 15, 2023
Offpointng:
I don't know how to put it in the right words tho. but my Mum kinda have a past History with Igbo people that's making accepting my Girlfriend a problem. One of it was, when she had my Pregnancy, she had to work under this Igbo woman that maltreated her and did the unthinkable to a pregnant woman. The painful thing was, the woman's friends also used that leverage to insult, maltreat and do all manner of unthinkable things to her despite seeing how heavily pregnant she was. Before then, the nature of my Dad's job is a type that he only comes home twice monthly and my mum being a woman that wasn't trained to be idle took it on herself to keep herself busy atleast and decide to work at a Restaurant close to where she lived and that was the inhumane treatment she got. When we moved to the SW, we had to stay in this flat that had two Igbo neighbors. My mom actually made friends with them outta a pure heart but they just kept taking advantage of the fact that she a free giver. they back bite and do say bad things about her alot. The Yoruba neighbors on the other hand were more friendly to her and so overtime, she do have this distant relationship with any Igbo person she meet and that history is bout affecting my relationship with this girl. I would have said I'll go ahead with the relationship regardless but my mom don't want to tell you something and you disobey. it always come with regrets. esp me, anytime I do something she doesn't want me to do I always do regret it.

This have got me worried tbh. what can I do fam?
you're not yet matured yet for marriage
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by Yomit71(m): 4:58am On Mar 15, 2023
Jimbadly:


And you're a bastard.
No sense in that.
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by TheChameleon: 4:23am On Mar 29, 2023
Qatar2022:

Save yourself the stress and let the girl go,
After all the nonsense you people talk about igbo people you guys still run after them, let her go and go love your mum

Pele. We just enjoy them for our entertainment because they are cheap.

OP will surely chop his own to the fullest and give for one of yall to pay 35 page bride price list. Don't cry ooo grin
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by LILTJAY: 4:31pm On Mar 29, 2023
TheChameleon:


Pele. We just enjoy them for our entertainment because they are cheap.

OP will surely chop his own to the fullest and give for one of yall to pay 35 page bride price list. Don't cry ooo grin
wicked yoruba demon grin grin grin
Re: My Mum Have An Issue With My Girlfriend Cuz She's Igbo by okunwaye(m): 7:56pm On Mar 29, 2023
one of the best gift I will give to my future kids is not giving dem Igbo mother's

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