Juz tell her u wanted to let her see the mistake she’s doing leaving a kid to handle the business.

MaDaRa01:
My conscience is judging me.

A woman that i sometimes patronize left a kid to watch her shop. I wanted to buy rice. I ask him for the price because the price do flunctuate, which he said it is 100, no 50, no 20 naira. I shock, then the devil enter me and i said whether e no go sell 10. I told him to sell me 5cup of rice, after he measured and tied it, i gave him 100 and told him to take the remaining 50 and not to tell the woman so that she will not collect his 50 tip.

Kid was happy, i was happy, trader lose.

Now this evening, rice no let me eat, i am just thinking of going back to do restitution.

How do i go about it without the trader getting angry?

God help o! I don't know people can be this poor? Even to a child, if it's adult i can still digest the matter.

Well you have conscience so that good. The main thing is go back and pay.

Go and balance the money and eat your rice In peace

chai. guy from the bottom of my heart I will advice you to go and pay the woman the normal money you suppose to give her, if not. I said if you didn't go sorry for you what you will see in future

You even know what restitution is. 😆
What you did was very very bad. Imagine it was done to you... You took advantage of that poor kid and the mother just for your own selfish interest

Return the rice and apologize,otherwise the guilt will hunt you for life.

Bluezy13:



Did he "mistakenly" pay a lesser amount as you put it

He who comes to equity must come with clean hands.

Doesn't matter what happened, what matters is what the woman believes happened, thereby knowing she does not owe him anything

MaDaRa01:
My conscience is judging me.

A woman that i sometimes patronize left a kid to watch her shop. I wanted to buy rice. I ask him for the price because the price do flunctuate, which he said it is 100, no 50, no 20 naira. I shock, then the devil enter me and i said whether e no go sell 10. I told him to sell me 5cup of rice, after he measured and tied it, i gave him 100 and told him to take the remaining 50 and not to tell the woman so that she will not collect his 50 tip.

Kid was happy, i was happy, trader lose.

Now this evening, rice no let me eat, i am just thinking of going back to do restitution.

How do i go about it without the trader getting angry?

yeye boy

Bluezy13:
Don't go explaining to the woman. You'll never earn her trust again.
Be sure to give an equivalent amount to cover-up the cheating with sincerity.
If you were to balance her #400, go to her shop with #500, buy stuff worth #100 and tell her to keep the balance. If she insists on returning it to you, tell her you remember you were owing her #400 a long time ago and although she must have forgotten but it feels right to pay her back. Walk away as soon as you finish talking.
Be at peace with your mind.

Note: this is not a mistake butter an intentional act.


That's if and only if this story is true

This is no restitution! It is wrong to leave the woman feeling indebted to you. It is also wrong to cover your ass while she continues to leave the young chap to sell at a loss. She needs to learn to lock up the shop if she needs to go out. Better to say you paid what the child asked you to pay but your intention was to come and talk to her about leaving the business in care of the young chap, give her the balance and she'll still thank you

MaDaRa01:
My conscience is judging me.

A woman that i sometimes patronize left a kid to watch her shop. I wanted to buy rice. I ask him for the price because the price do flunctuate, which he said it is 100, no 50, no 20 naira. I shock, then the devil enter me and i said whether e no go sell 10. I told him to sell me 5cup of rice, after he measured and tied it, i gave him 100 and told him to take the remaining 50 and not to tell the woman so that she will not collect his 50 tip.

Kid was happy, i was happy, trader lose.

Now this evening, rice no let me eat, i am just thinking of going back to do restitution.

How do i go about it without the trader getting angry?

Just go there and tell the woman you came to buy rice the previous day and the boy you met was not sure of the price but you bought 4 cups and you're back now to pay up since she's around. To make it easier for you, you could start by advising her to be careful of who she keeps in her shop to avoid incurring debt in the process.

You'd satisfy your conscience and you won't be scared of the boy's words against yours should his kasala burst cos he'll definitely get caught someday and you might be fingered in his confession.

You really need to learn to not take advantage of things/situations like this that will put you in difficult/embarrassing positions. Learn from this and avoid future occurrence. You won't be happy if someone took advantage of your kid to hurt you/your finances in any way. Building a good society starts from you. You can't blame the government for corruption when you're complicit in a way. We all can make the society better in our little way. Don't contribute to the rottenness of the society and cry foul when you're at the receiving end. Cheers.

Toluwanise247:
Ajeh werey ni guy yin. Guy you have to go and balance that woman oooo

Bluezy13:
Don't go explaining to the woman. You'll never earn her trust again.
Be sure to give an equivalent amount to cover-up the cheating with sincerity.
If you were to balance her #400, go to her shop with #500, buy stuff worth #100 and tell her to keep the balance. If she insists on returning it to you, tell her you remember you were owing her #400 a long time ago and although she must have forgotten but it feels right to pay her back. Walk away as soon as you finish talking.
Be at peace with your mind.

Note: this is not a mistake but an intentional act.


That's if and only if this story is true

..
Apart from the thousands of wives and concubines he had, are you in anyway related to King Solomon?

Bluezy13:
Don't go explaining to the woman. You'll never earn her trust again.
Be sure to give an equivalent amount to cover-up the cheating with sincerity.
If you were to balance her #400, go to her shop with #500, buy stuff worth #100 and tell her to keep the balance. If she insists on returning it to you, tell her you remember you were owing her #400 a long time ago and although she must have forgotten but it feels right to pay her back. Walk away as soon as you finish talking.
Be at peace with your mind.

Note: this is not a mistake but an intentional act.


That's if and only if this story is true

Wrong,very wrong.

In fact,she will trust him the more and besides,your intent ain't to earn her trust or whatever,his intent is to admit his offence and make amends,who knows,the women must've known that something is amiss,that she must've lost revenue and stock.
It will help her in future so as not to make careless loses..

,🤣🤣🤣🤣 you go shit stone o better go do the right team thing.

MaDaRa01:
My conscience is judging me.

A woman that i sometimes patronize left a kid to watch her shop. I wanted to buy rice. I ask him for the price because the price do flunctuate, which he said it is 100, no 50, no 20 naira. I shock, then the devil enter me and i said whether e no go sell 10. I told him to sell me 5cup of rice, after he measured and tied it, i gave him 100 and told him to take the remaining 50 and not to tell the woman so that she will not collect his 50 tip.

Kid was happy, i was happy, trader lose.

Now this evening, rice no let me eat, i am just thinking of going back to do restitution.

How do i go about it without the trader getting angry?

The rice suppose choke you. You Dagbo small pikin

I would have said you deserve the type of leaders you have but you still have a conscience. Pls go and make restitution. The day i forgot to pay a bus driver, i felt terribly bad.

Authoreety:
Easy one... Just go there with the amount for 5 cup of rice and 100 naira useful stuff when the child is not there o...


Buy the 100naira worth stuff... And freely give the woman the whole money, tell her u just feel like blessing somebody today... Then carry your yeye sef out of there... Don't try it again o..

Learnt it's really tough for Nigerians at the moment

very hard time, where are you?

You cheated yourself 😉

I understand how hard the country is... However, not to make the woman angry and expose yourself...go and give the woman the equivalent of that amount as dash...thats option one...

Option two...go and tell the woman you made a mistake and gave the boy a hundred and have come to pay the exact amount.


Don't try it again. Na everybody dey suffer for this useless country

MaDaRa01:
My conscience is judging me.

A woman that i sometimes patronize left a kid to watch her shop. I wanted to buy rice. I ask him for the price because the price do flunctuate, which he said it is 100, no 50, no 20 naira. I shock, then the devil enter me and i said whether e no go sell 10. I told him to sell me 5cup of rice, after he measured and tied it, i gave him 100 and told him to take the remaining 50 and not to tell the woman so that she will not collect his 50 tip.

Kid was happy, i was happy, trader lose.

Now this evening, rice no let me eat, i am just thinking of going back to do restitution.

How do i go about it without the trader getting angry?

Just go and give them their money.

MaDaRa01:
My conscience is judging me.

A woman that i sometimes patronize left a kid to watch her shop. I wanted to buy rice. I ask him for the price because the price do flunctuate, which he said it is 100, no 50, no 20 naira. I shock, then the devil enter me and i said whether e no go sell 10. I told him to sell me 5cup of rice, after he measured and tied it, i gave him 100 and told him to take the remaining 50 and not to tell the woman so that she will not collect his 50 tip.

Kid was happy, i was happy, trader lose.

Now this evening, rice no let me eat, i am just thinking of going back to do restitution.

How do i go about it without the trader getting angry?

Do the right thing. It shows you have integrity and honour, rare virtues many wish for.

Hmmm! I pity you...

All these immature kids... Imagine even coming to post this nonsense on nairaland.


By the nature go collect it back from you, you go hear am... You go lose something wey pass thing wey you do.... Na only you country hard for abi

MaDaRa01:
My conscience is judging me.

A woman that i sometimes patronize left a kid to watch her shop. I wanted to buy rice. I ask him for the price because the price do flunctuate, which he said it is 100, no 50, no 20 naira. I shock, then the devil enter me and i said whether e no go sell 10. I told him to sell me 5cup of rice, after he measured and tied it, i gave him 100 and told him to take the remaining 50 and not to tell the woman so that she will not collect his 50 tip.

Kid was happy, i was happy, trader lose.

Now this evening, rice no let me eat, i am just thinking of going back to do restitution.

How do i go about it without the trader getting angry?

In order for u not to have issues, just give a poor person #500 as restitution...what if u go back the child recognizes u and them come beat u? Don't go back...pay someone else

overdrive:
Thief.

Lols

Bro u no cheat the boy
You only successfully exchange ur destiny to a thief
If no Body watch
God Dey watch
Remember say na business

What you've done is wrong.
Life is hard at the moment. For the first time in my life I was tempted to beg online yesterday but the shame to do it won't let me. I don't even have what to eat as I type.
Anyways, go to the woman with the money. Tell her you intentionally bought the rice at the price the child called it knowing you will come back and pay the balance later. That she should be careful with who to put at the shop when she's away. Simple
A reasonable person won't see you as a fraudster.
You have just taught her a lesson of being careful with her business.
May God help us in this hard times

helinues:
Had it been the person is old now, that would have been different, that act is just to poor.

That's purely cheating..

That is the same way tinubu cheated and stole the mandate of Nigerians. He will definitely return it

Bluezy13:
Don't go explaining to the woman. You'll never earn her trust again.
Be sure to give an equivalent amount to cover-up the cheating with sincerity.
If you were to balance her #400, go to her shop with #500, buy stuff worth #100 and tell her to keep the balance. If she insists on returning it to you, tell her you remember you were owing her #400 a long time ago and although she must have forgotten but it feels right to pay her back. Walk away as soon as you finish talking.
Be at peace with your mind.

Note: this is not a mistake but an intentional act.


That's if and only if this story is true

The only way to undo a wrong is to come clean completely, not by using so-called naija sense to get away with it. Have you considered the fact that the lady my treat gifts differently from her business money? What if she decides to spend the "gift" whereas she would have been frugal with proper income?

Let's learn to do the right things as much as possible, regardless of the pain that may come with it.

If you don’t go and restitute, you have just start your cycle of poverty! You are very poor u cannot even afford paint of rice but you are still cheating in your poverty! You better receive sense or u die of poverty.

MaDaRa01:
My conscience is judging me.

A woman that i sometimes patronize left a kid to watch her shop. I wanted to buy rice. I ask him for the price because the price do flunctuate, which he said it is 100, no 50, no 20 naira. I shock, then the devil enter me and i said whether e no go sell 10. I told him to sell me 5cup of rice, after he measured and tied it, i gave him 100 and told him to take the remaining 50 and not to tell the woman so that she will not collect his 50 tip.

Kid was happy, i was happy, trader lose.

Now this evening, rice no let me eat, i am just thinking of going back to do restitution.

How do i go about it without the trader getting angry?

Go and pay the woman her money, tell her to bought on credit from her kid

You are a very good man. Only men with dead conscience will not feel anything.

Its very simple.

Take an older or elderly person with you.....

And they the woman the truth.....

That you were hungry and when discovered her boy doesn't

know the prize of the goods,, you took advantage of it......

Despite,, you were hungry,, you still couldn't cook the food.

because you have not done such a thing before. And that you are very sorry.....


To be very safe, allow the elderly person or older person to do the talking for you

then, you will now come in to beg for forgiveness and return the rice and ask them to keep your money you already deposited.

but if she returns the money back to you, it's up to you to collect it or leave it.

Don't worry you will be fine.


Just ignore all the insults you are getting on this thread,,some of them have done worst things and still did not
restitute it.

All the best. keep it up, you are a good man.

Most importantly,, pray about this before you make the move.

Do have a great day.