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This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by VeryKindHearted(m): 4:49pm On Apr 01, 2023
It's said that the world keeps changing. Some places which were once rainforest hundreds of years ago are now deserts and vise versa.

But little did you imagine that even human character also changes over time.

The male gender has actually changed over the last few years.


For example I have observed that males desire for sex has greatly reduced compared to let's say the year 2000AD.


With this reduction comes the reduction in chasing women.

In fact I observed that men are no longer interested in the woman after the first meeting.

What is even more astounding is that if a man asks a lady out and she refuses to accept that day, the man will stop asking her compared to those days when men spend months chasing women.


As I thought on this, suddenly the idea was undeniable: Men have changed to correspond to the nature of women.


I believe the universe is very wise. If women are giving men tough time, it is better to reduce the males desire for the females so as to avoid much pain to the male gender which comes from having much desire which are unsatisfied.

Modified: It's like what they tell us that some plants grew thorns to avoid being eaten by animals. These are plants which hitherto had no thorns. It only develop thorns to correspond to what it's facing. Things like this happen from time to time in the universe. It's part of the natural selection. It occurs to save some living things from trouble.

Also there's always a justice in the universe: Men are chasing women, but women are making shagara. In the next few years, women will be chasing men, and men will be doing shagara.

The reduction in males desire will continue till the desire of women for men will be more than the desire of men for women and then women will be doing the chasing.

It's a kind of justice. This justice also plays out in nature which has seen rainforest becoming desert and vise versa.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by LikeAking: 4:51pm On Apr 01, 2023
Quiet!

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Rokiat(f): 4:53pm On Apr 01, 2023
I must be in another universe because I have no problem getting chased by men.

But the reason why some women are no longer getting chased is because of this whole what a man can do a woman can do it. Women are now pursuing men and some are even going on their knees proposing to men so yea men have gotten lazy, women are doing the work for them.

Whatever works for them but I will remain traditional and in my feminine energy. I ain’t pursuing no man but I will definitely seduce and attract them and then they can do the pursuing.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Nobody: 4:53pm On Apr 01, 2023
Dey deceive yourself. The economic situation has handicap lot of men from pursuing women who are now more expensive.

Hustle, get money and you will pursue, sponsor and pay for women's vacation and BBL grin

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by virginprincess(f): 4:55pm On Apr 01, 2023
Story

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Zonefree(m): 4:57pm On Apr 01, 2023
See how Nairaland girls occupied the Second, third and fourth position on a thread about Men and Sex.


You hardly see them in political or educative discussions. Na only for sex thread you'll see them and their prowess.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Nobody: 4:58pm On Apr 01, 2023
VeryKindHearted:
It's said that the world keeps changing. Some places which were once rainforest hundreds of years ago are now deserts and vise versa.

But little did you imagine that even human character also changes over time.

The male gender has actually changed over the last few years.


For example I have observed that males desire for sex has greatly reduced compared to let's say the year 2000AD.


With this reduction comes the reduction in chasing women.

In fact I observed that men are no longer interested in the woman after the first meeting.

What is even more astounding is that if a man asks a lady out and she refuses to accept that day, the man will stop asking her compared to those days when men spend months chasing women.


As I thought on this, suddenly the idea was undeniable: Men have changed to correspond to the nature of women.


I believe the universe is very wise. If women are giving men tough time, it is better to reduce the males desire for the females so as to avoid much pain to the male gender which comes from having much desire which are unsatisfied.


Also there's always a justice in the universe: Men are chasing women, women, but women are making shagara. In the next few years, women will be chasing men, and men will be doing shagara.

The reduction in males desire will continue till the desire of women for men will be more than the desire of men for women and then women will be doing the chasing.

It's a kind of justice. This justice also plays out in nature which has seen rainforest becoming desert and vise versa.

You are absolutely right especially on the bolded

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by 1Sharon(f): 5:01pm On Apr 01, 2023
No longer desire women and sex?

You cannot cheat nature. A heterosexual man desires women and sex. The same goes for a heterosexual woman.

The approach may be different, but the desire is still there.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Autobot05: 5:02pm On Apr 01, 2023
Only people with zero ambitions and low morals chase women about .

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Nairalandnigga(m): 5:02pm On Apr 01, 2023
I don't know about other states but in Abia State where I reside, a lady will take her bath, come outside the street, from morning till evening no man will approach her. She'll just go back empty handed. Abians are mostly business people, they care about their business not women.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Reminderz: 5:04pm On Apr 01, 2023
easy access to pornography, masturbation, and sex workers is what's making men stop chasing women, because they feel what's the need when I can get pleasure in these ways...men have seen that it doesn't make any sense chasing them these days and that they are actually the one doing them a favour.

with these reasons, that prophesy of the Bible is going to unfold about women crying to get men...

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Nobody: 5:05pm On Apr 01, 2023
Rokiat:
I must be in another universe because I have no problem getting chased by men.

But the reason why some women are no longer getting chased is because of this whole what a man can do a woman can do it. Women are now pursuing men and some are even going on their knees proposing to men so yea men have gotten lazy, women are doing the work for them.

Whatever works for them but I will remain traditional and in my feminine energy. I ain’t pursuing no man but I will definitely seduce and attract them and then they can do the pursuing.
You nailed it. They call it woke. Mtcheww

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by VeryKindHearted(m): 5:07pm On Apr 01, 2023
DMerciful:


social media has made the amount of willing women a man can reach astronomical so if one says no, hundreds are ready to say yes...just have your money. Men focus on getting money, they literally can get any woman they want. If a particular pretty woman says no, an even more beautiful woman would say yes, just hold your side!

I must confess that this is very true.

In fact the universe has come to the help of men.

Now, if you see a girl and you like her but you don't have opportunity to speak with her, or you speak to her and she says no, immediately you leave that place, a girl with exactly her height, complexion and body feature will be waiting to speak to you and to accept you. She may even be the one who comes to you. It's like women are stationed everywhere. Any disdain from one woman towards a man, another woman is ready to take over the man. If you see a particular girl with a body structure which you like, immediately you leave, you will see more of such girls and even better ones. It's like " if you can't have the other one, you can select these ones". I mean it's baffling.

My aunt boils it down to the universe coming to the aid of men.

When she was yet a girl, she saw how much disdain women showered on men in the context of the men trying to woo women.

She said she was wondering whether to woo a woman was so evil that women subjected men to untold disdain. She used to cry for men. That was when she was a small girl.

But now she is about 63 and she is happy to see a man rejecting women advances.

The scarcity of husbands these days strengthens her belief that women are paying for all their actions sorounding the mockery of men in those days.

Don't forget that in those days, men were subjected to so much disdain by the woman when he tried to get her as his wife.

This is what is called the law of reciprocal action.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by 1Sharon(f): 5:10pm On Apr 01, 2023
Zonefree:
See how Nairaland girls occupied the Second, third and fourth position on a thread about Men and Sex.


You hardly see them in political or educative discussions. Na only for sex thread you'll see them and their prowess.

Is it Nigerian women that are opening threads up and down on how they can't get sex when they japa to Amrica or Canada?

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Nobody: 5:23pm On Apr 01, 2023
Rokiat:
I must be in another universe because I have no problem getting chased by men.

But the reason why some women are no longer getting chased is because of this whole what a man can do a woman can do it. Women are now pursuing men and some are even going on their knees proposing to men so yea men have gotten lazy, women are doing the work for them.

Whatever works for them but I will remain traditional and in my feminine energy. I ain’t pursuing no man but I will definitely seduce and attract them and then they can do the pursuing.

What's the difference between chasing a man and seducing a man? angry

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by ahnie: 5:24pm On Apr 01, 2023
Just dey decieve yourself cheesy cheesy :Dsome men are even killing themselves if a woman refused answering their greetings.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Rokiat(f): 5:29pm On Apr 01, 2023
AbdulMagaji:


What's the difference between chasing a man and seducing a man? angry

The difference is me walking into a bar and walking to a nigga that don’t even have my time and offering to buy him a drink in the hope that he will like me CHASING.

Vs

Me walking into a bar confidently, looking good, smelling edible, passing by this man smiling pleasantly at him but not even saying a damn word and this nigga walking over to me well because he can’t help his damn self and offering to buy me a drink starting a conversation AKA SEDUCING.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Nobody: 5:33pm On Apr 01, 2023
AbdulMagaji:


What's the difference between chasing a man and seducing a man? angry
Co-asked

I be wan ask but I dey mind my business these days 😹 😹 😹
Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Nobody: 5:48pm On Apr 01, 2023
Rokiat:


The difference is me walking into a bar and walking to a nigga that don’t even have my time and offering to buy him a drink in the hope that he will like me CHASING.

Vs

Me walking into a bar confidently, looking good, smelling edible, passing by this man smiling pleasantly at him but not even saying a damn word and this nigga walking over to me well because he can’t help his damn self and offering to buy me a drink starting a conversation AKA SEDUCING.



I hear you Miss BARtender !

You will only attract fake guys by your seduction

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Nobody: 5:49pm On Apr 01, 2023
ahnie:
Just dey decieve yourself cheesy cheesy :Dsome men are even killing themselves if a woman refused answering their greetings.

See your armpit angry

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by ahnie: 6:00pm On Apr 01, 2023
AbdulMagaji:


See your armpit angry

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Rokiat(f): 6:02pm On Apr 01, 2023
[b][/b]
AbdulMagaji:




You will only attract fake guys by your seduction

Smh why did I waste my time explaining shi..t to this small boy even? Please F off my mentions respectfully.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Nobody: 6:09pm On Apr 01, 2023
Rokiat:
[b][/b]

Smh why did I waste my time explaining shi..t to this small boy even? Please F off my mentions respectfully.

Please take redress and refrain from such act.

Only teenagers insults on a faceless forum.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Truvelisback(m): 6:11pm On Apr 01, 2023
VeryKindHearted:
It's said that the world keeps changing. Some places which were once rainforest hundreds of years ago are now deserts and vise versa.

But little did you imagine that even human character also changes over time.

The male gender has actually changed over the last few years. U are right.


For example I have observed that males desire for sex has greatly reduced compared to let's say the year 2000AD.


With this reduction comes the reduction in chasing women.

In fact I observed that men are no longer interested in the woman after the first meeting.

What is even more astounding is that if a man asks a lady out and she refuses to accept that day, the man will stop asking her compared to those days when men spend months chasing women.


As I thought on this, suddenly the idea was undeniable: Men have changed to correspond to the nature of women.


I believe the universe is very wise. If women are giving men tough time, it is better to reduce the males desire for the females so as to avoid much pain to the male gender which comes from having much desire which are unsatisfied.

Modified: It's like what they tell us that some plants grew thorns to avoid being eaten by animals. These are plants which hitherto had no thorns. It only develop thorns to correspond to what it's facing. Things like this happen from time to time in the universe. It's part of the natural selection. It occurs to save some living things from trouble.

Also there's always a justice in the universe: Men are chasing women, but women are making shagara. In the next few years, women will be chasing men, and men will be doing shagara.

The reduction in males desire will continue till the desire of women for men will be more than the desire of men for women and then women will be doing the chasing.

It's a kind of justice. This justice also plays out in nature which has seen rainforest becoming desert and vise versa.
Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Truvelisback(m): 6:12pm On Apr 01, 2023
True.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Slayar: 6:34pm On Apr 01, 2023
True talk. Some women who refuse men will die without a man or kids .The ones that act normal may get a man and Kids and pass on their genes.

Natural selection at play.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by DMerciful(m): 6:36pm On Apr 01, 2023
One of the most attractive quality of a woman is femininity. Those promoters of women masculinity are doing a disservice to women.

Secondly, social media has made the amount of willing women a man can reach astronomical so if one says no, hundreds are ready to say yes...just have your money. Men focus on getting money, they literally can get any woman they want. If a particular pretty woman says no, an even more beautiful woman would say yes, just hold your side!
Rokiat:
I must be in another universe because I have no problem getting chased by men.

But the reason why some women are no longer getting chased is because of this whole what a man can do a woman can do it. Women are now pursuing men and some are even going on their knees proposing to men so yea men have gotten lazy, women are doing the work for them.

Whatever works for them but I will remain traditional and in my feminine energy. I ain’t pursuing no man but I will definitely seduce and attract them and then they can do the pursuing.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by DMerciful(m): 6:39pm On Apr 01, 2023
You know the class of women wey dey japa na, dem wan settle down so not ready for casual sex.
1Sharon:


Is it Nigerian women that are opening threads up and down on how they can't get sex when they japa to Amrica or Canada?

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by imagrg(m): 6:40pm On Apr 01, 2023
You've hit the head on the nail! shocked
Rokiat:
I must be in another universe because I have no problem getting chased by men.

But the reason why some women are no longer getting chased is because of this whole what a man can do a woman can do it. Women are now pursuing men and some are even going on their knees proposing to men so yea men have gotten lazy, women are doing the work for them.

Whatever works for them but I will remain traditional and in my feminine energy. I ain’t pursuing no man but I will definitely seduce and attract them and then they can do the pursuing.
Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by 1Sharon(f): 6:44pm On Apr 01, 2023
DMerciful:
You know the class of women wey dey japa na, dem wan settle down so not ready for casual sex.

Exactly. Women are more concerned with establishing meaningful long term relationships.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Aladdin1(m): 6:47pm On Apr 01, 2023
Persephone1:
Dey deceive yourself. The economic situation has handicap lot of men from pursuing women who are now more expensive.

Hustle, get money and you will pursue, sponsor and pay for women's vacation and BBL grin
See mumu man.your parents should be ashamed of you.instead of you to wish and plan to make money and take good care of your suffering parents.you are here daydreaming on how you probably stumble on wealth to please one overused kpekus.

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Re: This Is Why Men No Longer Chase Women As Before. by Demonicus: 6:51pm On Apr 01, 2023
From childhood to adulthood I've always been chased by women,

It all depends on how you carry yourself,na me dey select them like stones for beans.😎

Guys wey dey chase after girls dey really try I no lie.

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