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Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by antonion(m): 1:23pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
BELUEM: You must be a love-vendor or some sort. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
too dangerous,because it is your health at risk, that is why the people that have the highest percentage of hiv are the married ones, be careful, love can kill, i cant tolerate even one 1 Like |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by Cogent: 1:29pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Men have a proclivity to being easily aroused and so their tendency to cheat is high, women please try to understand |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by nkirupass(f): 1:56pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
-infinity |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by Fokativ: 2:17pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
7 X 77 but I must not know about any of them |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by HighChief4(m): 2:28pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
0 |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by ronkebp(f): 2:34pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
It depends on my mood, |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by estrella(f): 2:41pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
zero, i don't believe you men can't zip it in, or women can't keep to one man.Being faithful is a mind thing and anyone can be faithful as long as you want to be, |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by MissEZ(f): 2:57pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
00000000. I like how people make it look like guys dont have self control or that cheating is a disease. If you saw a sexy girl who had aids, would u sleep with her? Abegi jo. I no do jor, you go out and collect nonsense from another woman and come and give me at home. The cheat should have thought of his/her family before going out to do nonsense. Always think about consequences before you go through with an action. Self control and discipline is not for saints, God gave this ability to all of mankind 1 Like |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by MrsChima1(f): 3:02pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
None. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by Walala(m): 3:04pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
As a Yoruba guy, I already know I would cheat and my partner will forgive because i got that "Gwap" $$$$$$. My forefathers have always been randy and the conquest of women is seen as a sign of wealth. Cheating is very necessary for a man to remain sane in his relationship as long as you use a condom and protect yourself and your wife. Any lady that still believes that her man will not cheat in their marriage can call me so that I can sell the Third Mainland Bridge to her. Women are like cars and even people wey get ferrari dey tire and then go buy new car even if it ain't as good as their ferrari. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by WhyAWhy(m): 3:06pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Walala: People like you are the ones ruining family life. Indeed, Not every man with something hanging between his thighs is supposed to be a husband 1 Like |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by InkedNerd(f): 3:13pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
@OP: I can't say that I can ever really forgive an affair because I know it will always be in the back of my mind. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by deniyor: 3:36pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Cogent:You say you are staying for the kids. Yet what you are portraying to them is not the right idea of wat love or marriage should be. If it is the financial contribution you are looking for, he will pay for child support. Why put yourselves into a bondage. You acting that way shows your marriage is over. Why still stay in it? |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by deniyor: 3:40pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Walala:Clap for yourself. Good job The sad thing about this is you can't get a quality woman, its got to be one with low self esteem so she can accept every BS you throw her way. Which means you never get to fully enjoy what heights your marriage could have reached. You know those old men that end up being single and lonely late in life, making a fool of themselves throwing money and all possilbe to get a lady to smile at them? Look at the mirror long and hard now cos in future tht will be you and you wont like what you see. 1 Like |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by InkedNerd(f): 3:42pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
deniyor: Tell am o!!! I don't understand this whole "stay for the kids" mentality. You're only lying to yourself and your children. Besides, kids aren't dumb. They can tell when something is wrong even if they don't have the words to express themselves. deniyor: Preach my brotha!!! |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by Walala(m): 3:51pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
deniyor: Women are fake and only go for the money and the comfort it provides. I can never be lonely in my life as long as i keep getting that $$$$$$. The only guys that are ever lonely are the broke ones, hmmm, ever wondered why that is so? Marriage is a game and who said you have to play fair. I love women and will keep conquering them until I am a six feet under. For more information on what men really think about women, check out my blog at http://nigerianamericanboy..com/ |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by ibelab(m): 3:53pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
@ pos, u 're wrong be saying it,z only nigerian men, it,z men in general . Be it white or black, ( MAYBE ONLY 10%) The day i saw my boss in a green house, dat was when i knew ,there are only few ones left, dis man wife fine die, blonde, tall pretty face, back cove , but still he ends up in puff, the remaining innocent claiming ones , engage theselves with homo, child pornography, child sexual abuse, masturbating 5 times a day and still claim faithful, my opinion, it,z men,s nature to cheat, u can,t beat it, if u do, it,z only by his grace, u hv to forgive |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by Cuddlemii: 3:57pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
I don't really get the rationale behind this topic. Why are people fond on taking water to aid another person's digestion. Why do we dwell on negativity all the time. Men are polygamous in nature, the population of women are higher than that of men. It also takes 2 to tango, anybody be it guy or girl that gets intimate with someone else's hubby or wife is also at fault. So you see its really a dicey issue. I will rather bother about my own well being, development, advancement without forgetting to love, submit & cater to my hubby and kids. Once I have a peaceful home then I am good, I am not going to be all inspector gadget on any man, its his balls and health so if he chooses to make mistakes, he deals with them. Just don't bring any diseases home for me that is when I will kill you slowly. If you bring a child from outside, I will care for the child with your resources, its not hard. You bring another wife home, I wont leave my home & take full responsibility of my children all alone and grow grey hair. God forbid but poo happens in life, you either triumph over them or let issues bring you down. You should always make yourself happy first and let others bother about their promiscuity. I cant cheat cos I wont even marry a guy that doesn't take me there as simple as that. It naija now, affairs plenty, some guys own is to look at every given buttocks and bosom, all is annoying but is that enough for a lady to kill herself and aid the man replace to her 2 days after her demise. You only live life once, just take things easy, you can't cheat or change destiny. What if you never find out your guy is cheating? Are u in their hearts, so I don't have time. I don't like women sleeping around cos it affect the body parts of the lady, makes her sag, womanliness expand, unwanted preg, removed womb etc so its rather unfortunate that its not in the favor of ladies to cheat. My above points buttressed on the hubby aspect & not Bf cos there is no for better for worse yet, u can still scram at dating stage, Ha, I can't shout. So for dating level as in bf or gf level, once I notice you have affair with a lady more attractive than me, I erase your existence in my life like those Sci-fi movies because you are indirectly sending me an SMS that I am not your spec, so deuces. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by silibaba: 4:09pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
i will continue to forgive her as long as i go dey run my own package too |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by Cuddlemii: 4:15pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
silibaba: That one is easy na, its not a serious relationship. Its called an open relationship (Feel free to test the waters). |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by Greenslim: 4:36pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
everytime |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by ronkebp(f): 5:28pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Walala: You are still dreaming, when you wake up to reality, you will understand better. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by r231(m): 5:30pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Walala: On your own |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by Nobody: 5:38pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
aloy/emeka: Your analogy is lame as hell! Do you truly think it's healthy for children to live with parents that are at loggerheads, because one cheated on the other? If you believe children aren't perceptive enough to know things aren't right between their parents, then you're living in cloud koo-koo land. Children have brains, they're not daft. It's best their parents split up, and both move on, rather than subject the children to cheating and lying. Or do you propose to bring up your kinds, with the belief that it's right to cheat on their partners, "just stay together" because there are kids involved? No wonder Nigeria is in the state she's in today, couples remaining together for the wrong reasons. There's nothing wrong with getting divorced because your spouse is a serial cheat, but there's plenty wrong with remaining in an unhealthy, cheating marriage, devoid of love and respect, "because their are children involved." I wouldn't forgive a cheat even once. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by adastic: 5:50pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
shocked, angry and hurt, how many what if my man does not love me enough to keep it tight then its no use. the problem we have in Africa is that women thinks that its natural fro a man to cheat why they keep suffering and smiling. but nahhhhhhh i wont forgive one not now, maybe in the days of my grandmum yes but not now.or we play tit for tat. if he can forgive me then maybe i can .do me i do u. sorry guys but when a man loves a woman he has no mind for anything else. vice versa. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by bamosagie(m): 6:02pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
All those saying 0 time, -1 time, no time, are the ones that will be begging their partner to stay even when they have all the evidence of the partner cheating on them. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
@Aloy emeka how can my children hate me when i will explain clearly to them the importance of marriage and also the dangers of having a man sleeping around and disrespecting his wife. if these children are going to hate anyone, they will the person who had no respect for his family and was ready to throw it all away for a piece of coochie. ksam: dont get it twisted brotha, the reason why divorces have been increasing is because A) people have no RESPECT for the vows they took B) people dont UNDERSTAND what it takes to be married and C) many marry for the wrong reasons. . . . . . . . and that is just the reason's tip of the iceberg. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by seedord247(m): 6:51pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
bamosagie: I think you hardly see a Guy forgiven a lady if he caught her cheating. Even if he try to forgive i don't think he will forget but make it Early morning coffee to Nagg on her on what she did. But for me . . E O D |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by MMM2(m): 7:03pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by harakiri(m): 7:28pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Sometimes i wonder if some of these people commenting are real human beings or spam bots. Some are saying they can forgive dozens of times over. Well, i'll take their word for it. I have been cheated on (never cheated on her, treated her like a queen, put her on a pedestal and all the works) and she still boinked some other dude who didn't give two $hits about her. It hurt me like hell but i guess it's one of those things. It's all in the past now. Life goes on. |
Re: Guys/ladies: How Many Affairs Are You Willing To Forgive? by hbrednic: 8:44pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
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