A man's desire is not sex, he can get it from anywhere. A man's desire is not food, he can get that from the best restaurant. A man's desire is not dressing, he sees women even better dressed than you every day. A man's desire is his respect. If you take that from him, you will cause the beast in him to be activated. He needs respect. He needs you as a woman to massage his ego. Act like a queen then he will be your king.