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puremaker7:
I can't spend more than Flex money on a girlfriend, highest I can go is 5K to 7K per month, since their loyalty doesn't depend on money, infact the higher you spend the higher the chance of getting dumped.. just spend the amount that won't pain you too much after break up.

True! Most times you just do it at of pity. Imagine giving your babe 7 cake when her issue 57k. She was just someone I couldn’t be stingy to even if I wanted to. Everything is experience sha.

Fiscus105:
Your ["let get to know each others"] means...... Even though,no access to my hole for now, it doesn't stop me to be swimming in the pool of ur cash......

I swear down
😁😁😁

Rathoreng:
One thing i also experienced, is that , poor gals dont date their fellow poor dudes, i have experienced it twice, one thing about me is that i never show my true background to ladies at first meeting, one gal did that and later came back to me after seeing my dad who is a prof and mom with ganduje, also noticing i dey flex with iphone 13 at that time

Lol, this is me ...


"Never show your true background"


If you think I'm broke, fine I'm broke..

No they stress me ...

jayAjoku:
chai connect me to sugar mummy too 🤣🥺😭

Because of her that woman Don block me

hopexter:
True! Most times you just do it at of pity. Imagine giving your babe 7 cake when her issue 57k. She was just someone I couldn’t be stingy to even if I wanted to. Everything is experience sha.

I can't just give a girl 57k even if I have, the problem is not having the money but 98% of these girls are not just loyal.. Imagine hustling and giving your girl friend sum of 57k and it ended up that your girl give another guy 50k out of the 57k you gave her...

Samantha124:
Is there any other South Africa apart from the South Africa that you already know?🤣🤣🤣

isn't letsotho (in) south africa

The sisi was a mutual friend, we were just friends for 2 years plus and I wasn't even interested in her and she knew. I knew she had a boyfriend which she confirmed..and all was cool.

Going forward, she chatted me up on Whatsapp one evening and was complaining that I'm harsh and not caring and ended up texting me "if I don't mind, I love you", so I was like let's try besides people were like that we fit each other. I also asked about her boyfriend which she told me that they don't communicate like that again (not that they broke up)...I was like ok oo.

But despite this girl opening up her feelings first to me, I noticed that I was still the one trying to correct her into showing affection and care towards me.

On Val's day..I bought stuffs for her but this girl never sent me a single val text till I complained later in the evening via WhatsApp of which she sent a val message...fine.

The next day..we took some pictures with her phone, as I was using her phone to transfer the pics to my WhatsApp..found out that she sent the message val message to another number..that her same ex she claimed they don't communicate well again.
She later begged n I let it slide due to some circumstances that happened with a mutual friend of ours.

Long story short..she wanted to travel to sort out her school stuffs (according to her oo) kept saying that she is scared that I would break up with her once she travels..I supported her to go ahead to sort out her school stuffs that nothing like break up was on my mind.

She travelled..but later dropped at a friend's place instead of her parents (of which she didn't tell me initially). Told me she forgot her phone charger while travelling ( a charger I bought for her). Like in the 4 days she spent there..we hardly communicate, her reason being that her phone was down and she gives it to her female friend she's squatting with who hardly stays at home at spends most of her time at her boyfriend's house.
This her friend in question, she never allowed me to talk with her or snap pics with her...when I asked her to buy a charger to keep our communication steady, she gave excuses that where it's sold is far and can't afford to trek such distance and moreover she has no cash with her and they don't accept transfers..like she was just saying it with such unseriousness...as usual in the next 5mins, she screenshoted a low battery image n was off again.

The next day .saw her online and was very angry with her and told her that I'm done with her and blocked her, I now used another Whatsapp number she didn't have to chat her up, with that I noticed she was online throughout that day. She later called me n begged me and I unblocked her...but already I've decided within me that she's another street naija girl pretending with an innocent face.

The next morning, she texted me that she's travelling to her parents place..asked her how come she's been online since with no battery issues, she said she has bought a charger, sent a screenshot of the charger, I noticed that the background of the place was different from where she stays. Also mind you, she never mentioned to me that she had plans of buying a charger yesterday.

She travelled to her parents place..gave her mum to speak with me briefly.

Now during our chats..she would be online but would hardly reply me even when she does..it's with short texts..asked her what's up, she said her dad is talking to her and she can't ignore him, I told her if u're busy with your dad why not tell me..she flared up that I'm angry and then said goodnight and went offline.

The next day,she apologized...but again I noticed that she will be online but whenever I come online and chat with her, she will reply me and then go offline again. One occasion, I got angry and told her that I knew all she has being doing and that she never told me how she got the charger, she cut the phone on me and that was all I needed, found out she blocked me on Whatsapp too which I blocked her as well.

Well,iv sent a text to her that she should not even try talking to me when she returns cos I might beat her Infront of her senior sister (the mutual friend) whom I've told that things are not ok between us and also that she was scared then cos she knew she was going to cheat on me once she travels and I would find out and break up with her.

I just wanted to be sure before calling it quits with her.

[quote author=Heathrow44 post=122305474]Oga no dey claim wetin u no be, shift first and face front

sheriffindy:
The sisi was a mutual friend, we were just friends for 2 years plus and I wasn't even interested in her and she knew. I knew she had a boyfriend which she confirmed..and all was cool.

Going forward, she chatted me up on Whatsapp one evening and was complaining that I'm harsh and not caring and ended up texting me "if I don't mind, I love you", so I was like let's try besides people were like that we fit each other. I also asked about her boyfriend which she told me that they don't communicate like that again (not that they broke up)...I was like ok oo.

But despite this girl opening up her feelings first to me, I noticed that I was still the one trying to correct her into showing affection and care towards me.

On Val's day..I bought stuffs for her but this girl never sent me a single val text till I complained later in the evening via WhatsApp of which she sent a val message...fine.

The next day..we took some pictures with her phone, as I was using her phone to transfer the pics to my WhatsApp..found out that she sent the message val message to another number..that her same ex she claimed they don't communicate well again.
She later begged n I let it slide due to some circumstances that happened with a mutual friend of ours.

Long story short..she wanted to travel to sort out her school stuffs (according to her oo) kept saying that she is scared that I would break up with her once she travels..I supported her to go ahead to sort out her school stuffs that nothing like break up was on my mind.

She travelled..but later dropped at a friend's place instead of her parents (of which she didn't tell me initially). Told me she forgot her phone charger while travelling ( a charger I bought for her). Like in the 4 days she spent there..we hardly communicate, her reason being that her phone was down and she gives it to her female friend she's squatting with who hardly stays at home at spends most of her time at her boyfriend's house.
This her friend in question, she never allowed me to talk with her or snap pics with her...when I asked her to buy a charger to keep our communication steady, she gave excuses that where it's sold is far and can't afford to trek such distance and moreover she has no cash with her and they don't accept transfers..like she was just saying it with such unseriousness...as usual in the next 5mins, she screenshoted a low battery image n was off again.

The next day .saw her online and was very angry with her and told her that I'm done with her and blocked her, I now used another Whatsapp number she didn't have to chat her up, with that I noticed she was online throughout that day. She later called me n begged me and I unblocked her...but already I've decided within me that she's another street naija girl pretending with an innocent face.

The next morning, she texted me that she's travelling to her parents place..asked her how come she's been online since with no battery issues, she said she has bought a charger, sent a screenshot of the charger, I noticed that the background of the place was different from where she stays. Also mind you, she never mentioned to me that she had plans of buying a charger yesterday.

She travelled to her parents place..gave her mum to speak with me briefly.

Now during our chats..she would be online but would hardly reply me even when she does..it's with short texts..asked her what's up, she said her dad is talking to her and she can't ignore him, I told her if u're busy with your dad why not tell me..she flared up that I'm angry and then said goodnight and went offline.

The next day,she apologized...but again I noticed that she will be online but whenever I come online and chat with her, she will reply me and then go offline again. One occasion, I got angry and told her that I knew all she has being doing and that she never told me how she got the charger, she cut the phone on me and that was all I needed, found out she blocked me on Whatsapp too which I blocked her as well.

Well,iv sent a text to her that she should not even try talking to me when she returns cos I might beat her Infront of her senior sister (the mutual friend) whom I've told that things are not ok between us and also that she was scared then cos she knew she was going to cheat on me once she travels and I would find out and break up with her.

I just wanted to be sure before calling it quits with her.

The girl in question only needed lust to satisfy with which she succeeded already. she wasn't for once in love with you, her love is in somewhere else. Such girl dnt need the stress you underwent because of her.

......just call wen "urge" comes and use her to discharge. Many of them full streets.

Gone were the days, girls took cognisance of body counts.

Betrayal, I found out he has a wife in another city. So painful.

Samantha124:
No offence, but I'd rather die single than get married to a Nigerian man.

For real, why so much hate for Nigerian men?

I knew all that..me no too send her just that I didn't want to treat her badly cos of her big sis which is also a good friend of mine. I just wanted to make sure she exposes her main intentions before I ditch her...so that I will have facts when she wants to make me look bad to her
big sis.

Fiscus105:
The girl in question only needed lust to satisfy with which she succeeded already. she wasn't for once in love with you, her love is in somewhere else. Such girl dnt need the stress you underwent because of her.

......just call wen "urge" comes and use her to discharge. Many of them full streets.

Gone were the days, girls took cognisance of body counts.

I don't hate them, they're just not my cup of tea.

Dshocker:
For real, why so much hate for Nigerian men?

LeeSmart:
We are here to share our experience on our past (last) relationship.
Who was at fault or who brought about the abrute end of the r/ship... I knw that majority of the persons who are going to comment would surely fault their ex-partner (as per say na u holy pass).

As for me, i wasn't comfortable with her being around me. I suddenly realised she's way older than i am, she was 37yrs nd i was barely 26 at that time, so i called it a quite

So let's hear from you guys.

PS. Too much cruise is not allowed.

37 26 this story no clear at all.

headbasher96:
She was the commissioner of cheerful givers almost all the street guys know all the colour of panties she used

What in the world

DrDunamis:
What in the world

well that gender is a tricky one though and am happy i got served first hand i learnt a thing or two sha

Yep, it's within SA, but it's not South Africa.

Silentgroper:
isn't letsotho (in) south africa

Samantha124:
Yep, it's within SA, but it's not South Africa.

.


Namibia??

Namibia is a southern African country boardering with South Africa.

Silentgroper:
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Namibia??

LeeSmart:
We are here to share our experience on our past (last) relationship.
Who was at fault or who brought about the abrute end of the r/ship... I knw that majority of the persons who are going to comment would surely fault their ex-partner (as per say na u holy pass).

As for me, i wasn't comfortable with her being around me. I suddenly realised she's way older than i am, she was 37yrs nd i was barely 26 at that time, so i called it a quite

So let's hear from you guys.

PS. Too much cruise is not allowed.

*Abrupt
*called it quits

LeeSmart:
Yes i did called it off and i was at fault which i knw.

I appreciate your honest response to my questions.

sheriffindy:
The sisi was a mutual friend, we were just friends for 2 years plus and I wasn't even interested in her and she knew. I knew she had a boyfriend which she confirmed..and all was cool.

Going forward, she chatted me up on Whatsapp one evening and was complaining that I'm harsh and not caring and ended up texting me "if I don't mind, I love you", so I was like let's try besides people were like that we fit each other. I also asked about her boyfriend which she told me that they don't communicate like that again (not that they broke up)...I was like ok oo.

But despite this girl opening up her feelings first to me, I noticed that I was still the one trying to correct her into showing affection and care towards me.

On Val's day..I bought stuffs for her but this girl never sent me a single val text till I complained later in the evening via WhatsApp of which she sent a val message...fine.

The next day..we took some pictures with her phone, as I was using her phone to transfer the pics to my WhatsApp..found out that she sent the message val message to another number..that her same ex she claimed they don't communicate well again.
She later begged n I let it slide due to some circumstances that happened with a mutual friend of ours.

Long story short..she wanted to travel to sort out her school stuffs (according to her oo) kept saying that she is scared that I would break up with her once she travels..I supported her to go ahead to sort out her school stuffs that nothing like break up was on my mind.

She travelled..but later dropped at a friend's place instead of her parents (of which she didn't tell me initially). Told me she forgot her phone charger while travelling ( a charger I bought for her). Like in the 4 days she spent there..we hardly communicate, her reason being that her phone was down and she gives it to her female friend she's squatting with who hardly stays at home at spends most of her time at her boyfriend's house.
This her friend in question, she never allowed me to talk with her or snap pics with her...when I asked her to buy a charger to keep our communication steady, she gave excuses that where it's sold is far and can't afford to trek such distance and moreover she has no cash with her and they don't accept transfers..like she was just saying it with such unseriousness...as usual in the next 5mins, she screenshoted a low battery image n was off again.

The next day .saw her online and was very angry with her and told her that I'm done with her and blocked her, I now used another Whatsapp number she didn't have to chat her up, with that I noticed she was online throughout that day. She later called me n begged me and I unblocked her...but already I've decided within me that she's another street naija girl pretending with an innocent face.

The next morning, she texted me that she's travelling to her parents place..asked her how come she's been online since with no battery issues, she said she has bought a charger, sent a screenshot of the charger, I noticed that the background of the place was different from where she stays. Also mind you, she never mentioned to me that she had plans of buying a charger yesterday.

She travelled to her parents place..gave her mum to speak with me briefly.

Now during our chats..she would be online but would hardly reply me even when she does..it's with short texts..asked her what's up, she said her dad is talking to her and she can't ignore him, I told her if u're busy with your dad why not tell me..she flared up that I'm angry and then said goodnight and went offline.

The next day,she apologized...but again I noticed that she will be online but whenever I come online and chat with her, she will reply me and then go offline again. One occasion, I got angry and told her that I knew all she has being doing and that she never told me how she got the charger, she cut the phone on me and that was all I needed, found out she blocked me on Whatsapp too which I blocked her as well.

Well,iv sent a text to her that she should not even try talking to me when she returns cos I might beat her Infront of her senior sister (the mutual friend) whom I've told that things are not ok between us and also that she was scared then cos she knew she was going to cheat on me once she travels and I would find out and break up with her.

I just wanted to be sure before calling it quits with her.

You are looking for excuse to sink yourself right?
That lady wil damage you.
There are some level of innocence that are not healthy, this is one of them.
Talk to your leg and run.

The lady will use your emotions and turn you to a beast and blame you for it.

Run!!! Before she damaged you.

My 2cent

It always my fault and me doing the breaking up...na like this I go take marry ?

Lol...I already knew. That ship has sailed a long time.

zyzxx:
You are looking for excuse to sink yourself right?
That lady wil damage you.
There are some level of innocence that are not healthy, this is one of them.
Talk to your leg and run.

The lady will use your emotions and turn you to a beast and blame you for it.

Run!!! Before she damaged you.

My 2cent

headbasher96:
do u know how it feel when u are working your ass off in the sun moving from here and there to provide for someone u love all that i wanted was appreciation nothing more

And the same people is collecting dick from everybody like even my own friends started visiting me for no reason because i no the dey house and u know where i the work but u go come dey house from morning say u the wait for me for no reason and i will ask this stupid girl if she is uncomfortable with them always visiting she will say no but still offering them kpekus like loafs of bread anyway this my said friend opened up to me and even mentioned other he was the who mediated over the whole matter.


Dude called a meeting with every one he knows that has tasted the kpekus and some women that dont get along with this girl in the area it took him an hour of sermon for everyone to come clean i was dumbfounded with what i heard sha when he was done with our circle.

My said friend had already done a little charity in the area in anticipation of the whole drama he sprinkled some gifts like salt and oil here and there won all the women over.



So the area took it upon themselves to expel this my girl i was very high the day of the whole encounter i sat like a lost kid guy imaging what i have been living with the only words i was able to mutter was pls she should not enter my room again and nobody should touch her because my friends gift did magic all the area went berserk fuel by some women she had issues with i dont seem to know how a single lady will have issues with married women but all the women were baying for her blood she should be stripped and beaten others wanted to attack her physically all i wanted was for her to go and nobody should drag and spoil my home appliances she later left what later ensured between me and her family is something else because they sent her back to me see guts o girl wey i never marry them the call family meeting the invite me i sha sent my elder brother when him start to smome cigarrate for their palour meeting finish because he went there to pepper them too well i on my own learnt a thing or two from the who qagmire


Dont ever show a lady u love her to an extent even my mama now i the pepper her from time to time but my mum seems to enjoy it she will say its how she raised me i no longer take any woman serious again thats life sha and guys should be careful of how they look at girls some just indecentstars hidin in plain sight how will a lady not be lacking anything and cant have self control its really a mistery

Am very sorry about that, what about your current relationship is it still like that?

Dindondin:
There was a girl around 2013. I left her cos she cheated. I would have forgiven her but recalled she also had an unremorseful behavior

All of u claiming she cheated blah blah blah they are serving u the exact thing u will serve them in marriage or are u telling me u didn't cheat on her while u were dating? Una no go ever gree, nonsense!!!

Prettygirl200:
All of u claiming she cheated blah blah blah they are serving u the exact thing u will serve them in marriage or are u telling me u didn't cheat on her while u were dating? Una no go ever gree, nonsense!!!

I didn't cheat on her. If you know me, I m a dream man of many women.

Dindondin:
I didn't cheat on her. If you know me, I m a dream man of many women.

And u want me to believe that? U all be claiming u don't cheat in relationships bc u know she can easily walk away if she finds out but cheat in marriage like what the hell. All married men are cheaters what u will do to them in marriage is what they are doing in relationships. M not in support of Ladies cheating in relationships but that's what u all do in marriage.

Prettygirl200:
Am very sorry about that, what about your current relationship is it still like that?

well i have been finding hard to date a girl since then no matter how honest she might been i only see the bad side in whatever dey do it seems something is wrong with me

My last Ex,I dated this girl for 4years and we broke up over 4tyms..the girl would always meet older men den look for one excuse to break up wit me den run bk and apologise wen she sees m still beta
Got tired afta the 2nd breakup but decided to always pretend to still care just for d pussy ..after the 4th breakup I met her sis and we started fucking and believe me it was fun
Last Last had to breakup finally wen she needed me the most nd believe me it made BILLBOARD TOP CHART..#m satisfied #

Prettygirl200:
And u want me to believe that? U all be claiming u don't cheat in relationships bc u know she can easily walk away if she finds out but cheat in marriage like what the hell. All married men are cheaters what u will do to them in marriage is what they are doing in relationships. M not in support of Ladies cheating in relationships but that's what u all do in marriage.

I m different.

Dindondin:
I m different.

You no go ever gree, that's the problem