yes i have not been a very good brother, i have been over protective while we grew up, my parents broke up when we were kids and since then i saw myself as the big brother to all my sisters.yes i beat them up when they did wrong but later when things were hard we made things work once in a while.they all got jobs and started making money and there they all started acting up.well God would have it i made some made monies back then in 2006-2007 and life couldnot have been better and i started going into investments to solidify my money and after then i left for the UK.In the Uk i saw my investments go down the drain due to the global meltdown so i came back home to see if i can build my life again.Then my sister got a guy to marry and only invioted me or rather let me know a week to the traditional wedding and i was so angry but later my mum begged me to forgive her which i did but after like 4 months again the silly igbo boy called me a week to the court wedding again to say they want to marry and i got mad that why am i been treated this way and my mum said cos i have lost most of my money so i am no more regarded by my sister, so a war started in the house and when she was to have her baby dedication i decided not to go so they now said cos i asked her husband for a loan after i thought we had settled all and he said he didnt have and i forgot about it but now they tell my family friends that cos i didnt get the loan so i havenot been good to them.and that was why i didnt come for thier party, now the lastest i am hearing is that my sister tells everyone that whenever she sleeps she sees me in her dream trying to attack her, Was i wrong to protect them when we were kids cos i made sure they came back home on time since my father didnt care that much, i am so heart broken and i see a seed is been planted that when it beginings to bring forth fruits my sister and her husband wont be able to reap all of it cos i am really begining to hate her, God help me i am not suppose to hate

Maybe you were too hard on them when they were growing up and am sure you are still trying to dominate and control them because you care for them but you have to express your care for them in a way that is acceptable to them. Check yourself and stop heaping all the blame on your sisters or even better why dnt you find a way to talk to her and tell her how her behaviour is hurting you.