almarthins:


The man no well, na who knack the woman?
The pikin fall from sky ?

The man should take responsibility, period.
If na me I go just take responsibility no be blame game. I remember the day my gf told me she no longer on birth pills, Omo! I switch mode to coitus interruptus. If u no want wahala, why look for one; and then say I no want wahala.

Flier:
Only the arm implant method can not fail,other methods is just like sending invitation letter to another child because they will fail at some point
So if you want peace of mind,do the implant (Nexplanon)
The good thing is cost 5000 naira or free in some places and it takes less than 2 minutes to be done

sync:
So I and my friends went to visit a friend that just put to bed her 5th child.

This child was unplanned for as they had already stopped having children.

She narrated to us how her husband was furious when she told him she was pregnant. He blamed her for not taking the necessary precautions.

This brought a debate between us, who actually is responsible for an unplanned pregnancy.

Is it majorly on the woman who knows her cycle and carries the pregnancy but was still careless or on both the man and wife for not working closely together to ensure what needed to be done is done

N3TRAL:
To give a comprehensive answer to the question, a plethora of determinants must be considered. One of them is "cost". Others are the "pain" and "risk" involved.


After a detailed consideration of the various birth control techniques, I have resolved that the man is to blame because male condom use is the cheapest means of birth control.

Male condoms are usually given as souvenir at health awareness programs and campaigns. They're displayed for sale at the counters of malls and stores.

Spermicide is more expensive and the procedure is not without side effects.
Vasectomy is painful and there are cases of inability to reverse the male to his status quo. Pills and contraceptive implants can affect the female reproductive system negatively.

The use of condom is the birth control method that you're sure of stopping if the uneventful happens.

For instance, if you lose an only child or you discover through a DNA test that you're a victim of paternity fraud, you can always take off the condom and fill her up with white protein.

Moniya4Real:
Never! Wear condom to have sex with my wife. Over my dead body.

Globad:


The woman...

There's a reason the significant effort of family planning is on the woman.

The woman receives and if she's not willing or ready, the sender sends in vain. This is true most of the time

phemmyfour:
Both
What stopped the man from using condom even if the family planning method fails.

When a team concede goals, both the attackers and defenders should be blame

Cutehector:
Nobody is to be blamed, when God says yes a child wil come forth, nobody says no.

1Sharon:


White people use condoms alot in their marraiges but African men think it's beneath them. They believe it's only for oloshos.

I'm tired of the ignorance with Nigerians.

eyinjuege:


Then stop complaining if she keeps falling pregnant

sync:
So I and my friends went to visit a friend that just put to bed her 5th child.

This child was unplanned for as they had already stopped having children.

She narrated to us how her husband was furious when she told him she was pregnant. He blamed her for not taking the necessary precautions.

This brought a debate between us, who actually is responsible for an unplanned pregnancy.

Is it majorly on the woman who knows her cycle and carries the pregnancy but was still careless or on both the man and wife for not working closely together to ensure what needed to be done is done

1Sharon:
Africans really don't know how to use contraception!

It didn't fail. YOU failed to use it correctly.


Unexposed ignorant Nigeria men, they say they don't want to use condoms on their wives . They will say condoms are only for oloshos or Gfs.

But wearing it cost you guys nothing.

Female contraceptions affects a woman's hormones, mood and weight.

Moniya4Real:


Bro calm down! Withdrawal method no Dey fail an expert.

sync:
So I and my friends went to visit a friend that just put to bed her 5th child.

This child was unplanned for as they had already stopped having children.

She narrated to us how her husband was furious when she told him she was pregnant. He blamed her for not taking the necessary precautions.

This brought a debate between us, who actually is responsible for an unplanned pregnancy.

Is it majorly on the woman who knows her cycle and carries the pregnancy but was still careless or on both the man and wife for not working closely together to ensure what needed to be done is done

missyblissy:


If the family planning method is affecting yiur health, then tie your tubes.

eyinjuege:
It's both their responsibility.
Men can wear condoms, have vasectomies to prevent pregnancy.
Women can do contraceptives too. Knowing your period is not a sure way of preventing pregnancy as your period can change due to stress, hormones for whatever reason

1Sharon:


You want the woman to tie her tubes when you can simply use a condom?

Why are you Nigerian men dense like this? The ego is out of this world!

missyblissy:


As the man no gree wear condom nko. What do you do? It's your body and your decision shey if he impregnates you again , you will go and abort abi. Why not save yourself this emotional truama.

If the man refuse to wear condom, then buy female condom abi. Wear your own condom. Case close

1Sharon:


You want the woman to tie her tubes when you can simply use a condom?

Why are you Nigerian men dense like this? The ego is out of this world!

caandi:
Pls the both parties are to be blamed sometimes, but most especially the husband!!
I know of a friends elder sis who had issue with the husby cos of this same topic
Her baby was not upto two years, she was on a family planning method but it was not suitable for her body so she decided to stop it cos the negative impacts were more
Still trying to balance her life, she kept on telling her hubby the situation of things
The man blankly refused saying he wants a child
Anytime they get intimate this man will refuse using condom
She told him her body is not yet ready to carry another child
Atlast when the thing entered; she found out and told the man she was going to abort
The man went livid with anger and sent her packing to her fathers house saying all sort of rubbish
Ahswear Africans are too backward
If it were to be abroad
The man and woman would decide they don’t want to have children for some couple of years or hey Will adopt and African man will never agree to this
Even a poor man will be claiming his wife must birth 10 children for him cos his mum has dem many
Stupid mentality
Mtcheeww

N3TRAL:


Nigerian women enable them- fact.

I give women maximum respect and they mock me for being too "white".

Drop-dead fine and productive guy like me 😂 SMH

1Sharon:


The women too are clueless.

But na white ppl dey pro for this family planning issue. 1 or 2 kids max and a dog.

They birth what they can handle. But Africans look at them and laugh

1Sharon:


It's the woman's body, but does the child belong to only the woman, will the woman alone raise the child?

Conception is a joint effort and couples need to both come to a compromise

manchyme:


That period you're talking about I'll advice you put your mouth in topics you have experience in, as in personal experience. Do you have personal experience on that? For me, knowing your period works perfectly.

caandi:
Pls the both parties are to be blamed sometimes, but most especially the husband!!
I know of a friends elder sis who had issue with the husby cos of this same topic
Her baby was not upto two years, she was on a family planning method but it was not suitable for her body so she decided to stop it cos the negative impacts were more
Still trying to balance her life, she kept on telling her hubby the situation of things
The man blankly refused saying he wants a child
Anytime they get intimate this man will refuse using condom
She told him her body is not yet ready to carry another child
Atlast when the thing entered; she found out and told the man she was going to abort
The man went livid with anger and sent her packing to her fathers house saying all sort of rubbish
Ahswear Africans are too backward
If it were to be abroad
The man and woman would decide they don’t want to have children for some couple of years or hey Will adopt and African man will never agree to this
Even a poor man will be claiming his wife must birth 10 children for him cos his mum has dem many
Stupid mentality
Mtcheeww

Pojomojo:
Wife her na

Karleb:
If you are a serious person, it should be your fault whether man or woman.

But man should take responsibility here, women are emotional and most are broke, na you go still dey take care of the family including yourself, so why leave such to the care of a woman?