novia22:


So are you now his financial backbone? Abi him wan turn you to him lover? Jokes apart, So he is actually not contributing anything to you? This is a parasitic relationship my brother. He has to go asap.
Tell Him your brother that paid the rent for you is coming to stay a long while and the house can't accommodate you 3. That pls he has till the end of the week to leave. Dont ask him if he has a place to go to, or money to rent a place, the answer will be NO ( remember he is a hoarder). Just tell him he needs to go shikenah.

That guy wasn't planning on leaving you......ever and His sister, your Ex is a wicked person to have heaped such a responsibility on you.

Gracias!

Trustedpronet:


Na one of my guy planned with a babe in other to chase away his male friend that year...to cut the Torry short the girl divulged all the plans to the accused, as I'm talking now they are happily married.

enuf reason for me to chase both d guy and d girl out of my house shap shap... thunder fire dem

manee2:


Yes, For almost 3 months

Anyone who doesn't know how to say no kills himself gradually because the world out there is wicked, people will certainly take advantage of your weakness to their favour

manee2:


He's been here already for over 2 months

What was the reason you accepted to take him in? Was he a student or artisian whose stay has something to do with time.
Me: Kid bro we need to talk. Since the relationship between me n your sister fell apart you know I have remained nice just the way I am.
She has moved on and I need to move in too and having you around is affecting me somehow. Pls plan how to relocate in a week or 2. I am sorry but try to understand me.
I will always be your big brother but I need this space for now.

If you are good hearted there is no problem, and if its in your ability, no problem

But you wrote, you are beginning to lose focus, so its time for him to go.

I commend you for your good heart, but don't over stretch yourself, Nigerians are very ungrateful too, they will just use you, and when they are doing well, they will just forget you too.

I like personal space, because sometimes mental health is connected to it.

manee2:
My ex broke up with me while I was accomodating her brother, and she's married now.
I saw this as motivation, moved and doubled down on my hustle and lost communication with both of them.
As I was trying to find my bearings, within a year two of my friends had already kicked me out of their house.
About 3 months ago she contacted me through FB and asked for my phone number for her brother.
He needed my help, under the guise of trying to start his life over. All his friends he hung out with turned their backs on him.

Having learned life the hard way, I have become an introvert who easily feels uncomfortable around the people around me. I discovered that I did better on my own.

Regardless of that, I put up with it and regret it because I'm embarrassed and slowly losing focus.
Although he is supportive, but he has Diogenes syndrome.
Being so kind-hearted, I don't know how to ask him to leave my space.

kestolove95:
Go bring ur babe to come stay with you for a week, dat one alone is ok

What if he brings his babe and after a week his friend leaves, but now he doesn't know how to tell his babe to leave?

Phoenix873:
If you have the financial wherewithal, assist him rent a single room

na so. assist your ex's brother.
see your mouth like assistant referee.

scrolldown88:

What if he brings his babe and after a week his friend leaves, but now he doesn't know how to tell his babe to leave?

Don't mind those guys dishing out thoughtless advice. they have no idea what it means for someone unrelated to you to die in your house. these kids ain't seen nothing

scrolldown88:

What if he brings his babe and after a week his friend leaves, but now he doesn't know how to tell his babe to leave?

which kind problem come bdix? She must leave oo

Don't, just look for excuse and trash the talk e get why

Help ur fellow man these generation Z guys na only women una Dey help? Dey take woman swear for una?

novia22:


People suffering that syndrome no get shame. E go dey there till you finish work...

I go begin give the girl Mouth Action

Chykes403:


I go begin give the girl Mouth Action

If you like do Snake in monkey shadow, Na you go tire. Go as Manee2 how far.

This is a careless narration oga

yommen:


What about OP's safety?

Op is safe since the snake and Scorpio go recognize him face they no go nack am bite

novia22:


If you like do Snake in monkey shadow, Na you go tire. Go as Manee2 how far.

Ah! Novia!
Actually, I’ve solved it. Thanks for your help!