Good evening forum, pls I need a word of advice pls, and it's affecting me seriously.
It happens whenever I and my fiance had little misunderstanding, I will start saying I am not doing again that he should go.

My fiance is an elderly person who is unproblematic and I respect him so much. I love him with all my life, but I don't know why at any little thing I am angry at, I will start saying I am not doing again.
Pls is there anyone who has passed through such attitude and how do you caution yourself on this attitude.?

Let him go first maybe you will be fine.

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum, pls I need a word of advice pls, and it's affecting me seriously.
It happens whenever I and my fiance had little misunderstanding, I will start saying I am not doing again that he should go.

My fiance is an elderly person who is unproblematic and I respect him so much. I love him with all my life, but I don't know why at any little thing I am angry at, I will start saying I am not doing again.
Pls is there anyone who has passed through such attitude and how do you caution yourself on this attitude.?

When you are angry... Don't talk till your boiling comes down from d boiling point to like 30 degrees celcius. Then speak

it's because you're still childish and haven't experienced much in life yet..

another reason might be because you still see him as an option...
or you don't even respect him..

or you haven't decided to settle with him yet...
or you feel he isn't good enough for you...

Odetokun3:
Let him go first maybe you will be fine.

I second this.

Pls do if you have the heart and see if you really can do without him

You rush into conclusive statement and perhaps you're oversensitive thinking towards the extreme while he's just being cool with issues

Hmm

Hehe just like what i said to my fiance too she don dey even give me attitude now ....am feeling bad inside but trying to macho it...guess i have to hope for the best...i apologised though but if it doesnt work out then so be it

you say it because you feel HE CAN'T LEAVE YOU...,you are disrespecting him and taking the love he has for you for granted..the earlier you stop saying such things,the better for you because you see such patient people,the day they choose to walk out of your life,they will never come back... CAUTION YOURSELF

Your mind is not really in the said relationship. If you really value the relationship, such words won't come out of your mouth,even if you were dreaming. Meanwhile you can stop saying such words,if you want to.. All you need to do is to love the man and start seeing a better future ahead of you guys.. Fantasize it,dream it,and enter it.. Shout Fayayayaya sombori..

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum, pls I need a word of advice pls, and it's affecting me seriously.
It happens whenever I and my fiance had little misunderstanding, I will start saying I am not doing again that he should go.

My fiance is an elderly person who is unproblematic and I respect him so much. I love him with all my life, but I don't know why at any little thing I am angry at, I will start saying I am not doing again.
Pls is there anyone who has passed through such attitude and how do you caution yourself on this attitude.?

The real truth is that you are enjoying your relationship and the good things that comes with it

In another word, he is taking care of you

But the problem you are having is his age, that alone is one of the reasons you are acting funny

But you didn't tell us if he is just dating you or you guys have plans for the relationship

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum, pls I need a word of advice pls, and it's affecting me seriously.
It happens whenever I and my fiance had little misunderstanding, I will start saying I am not doing again that he should go.

My fiance is an elderly person who is unproblematic and I respect him so much. I love him with all my life, but I don't know why at any little thing I am angry at, I will start saying I am not doing again.
Pls is there anyone who has passed through such attitude and how do you caution yourself on this attitude.?

For your own good, you better stop doing that. Else your fiancée will be looking for Plan B

If to say I be your fiance by now I for done dey find your replacement, e mean say you no just get regard for the guy period.

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum, pls I need a word of advice pls, and it's affecting me seriously.
It happens whenever I and my fiance had little misunderstanding, I will start saying I am not doing again that he should go.

My fiance is an elderly person who is unproblematic and I respect him so much. I love him with all my life, but I don't know why at any little thing I am angry at, I will start saying I am not doing again.
Pls is there anyone who has passed through such attitude and how do you caution yourself on this attitude.?

Abeg nor vex you be gay?