A Nigerian girl is complaining that people in Nigeria who are in her social media forum are intruding into her private life after she posted pics of her and and her white dude on social media.she has turned off the comment section and says its non of their business.who is right in this matter?The social media inlaws or the lady in question.

why does she even care what friends/strangers on social media think?!?! if she is hapy dating that dude, then so be it. to hell with what people think. its HER life, not theirs!

MrBrownJay1:
why does she even care what friends/strangers on social media think?!?! if she is hapy dating that dude, then so be it. to hell with what people think. its HER life, not theirs!

I share that opinion too.its her life and she is above 18 and can do whatever she likes.

guobe:
I share that opinion too.its her life and she is above 18 and can do whatever she likes.

sadly, many people today value their lives upon the validation of total strangers on the internet...

simple solution: remove any person who talks negatively about you (or your actions) on SM

Yes. It's our business, we shall meet in court ●

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princeisrael01:
Yes. It's our business, we shall meet in court ●

or better still stop posting about your private life as people will always have something to say.

The internet is a public space.

Keep your shit private.

Victor2707:
The internet is a public space.

Keep your shit private.

yes that's another angle you can look at it.its like telling people how do I look unknowingly.

It's none of their goddamn business. Whether she make it public or private it no business of theirs to poke nose into her post. People should face their own problems and stop helping people live their lives.

fyzaila:
It's none of their goddamn business. Whether she make it public or private it no business of theirs to poke nose into her post. People should face their own problems and stop helping people live their lives.

people will always talk as there are trolls everywhere.its her ability manage the situation that makes her strong.

Like MrBrown has stated, block/remove those people who criticise the racial group of your partner. She doesn't need their opinions on who she should date. If need be, make your account private. I think oyibo land makes people so feeble minded. Or is it this so-called GenZ thing? The next thing we go read na she don become depressed. Why? Some people criticised her choice of partner. BTW, was she born and bred in the UK?

Another thing, the moment a picture of oneself is posted online especially to the general public, she loses the right on how people should dictate towards it. If she's unhappy with the responses, kick them out or stop posting the pictures.

guobe:
people will always talk as there are trolls everywhere.its her ability manage the situation that makes her strong.

True

Gerrard59:
Like MrBrown has stated, block/remove those people who criticise the racial group of your partner. She doesn't need their opinions on who she should date. If need be, make your account private. I think oyibo land makes people so feeble minded. Or is it this so-called GenZ thing? The next thing we go read na she don become depressed. Why? Some people criticised her choice of partner. BTW, was she born and bred in the UK?

Another thing, the moment a picture of oneself is posted online especially to the general public, she loses the right on how people should dictate towards it. If she's unhappy with the responses, kick them out or stop posting the pictures.

she relocated to UK a couple of years ago.she likes the social media razzmatazz,I think she didn't see this one coming and it is eating her deep.

guobe:
she relocated to UK a couple of years ago. she likes the social media razzmatazz, I think she didn't see this one coming and it is eating her deep.

Well deserved. Now, she will know that there is a world outside social media. A lesson well taught, and hopefully, it will be learnt.

Her type cannot survive Nairaland or even Twitter.

Gerrard59:


Well deserved. Now, she will know that there is a world outside social media. A lesson well taught, and hopefully, it will be learnt.

Her type cannot survive Nairaland or even Twitter.

Ah nairaland is the powerhouse of toxicity.If you can survive nairaland you can survive everywhere.lol.

Gerrard59:


Well deserved. Now, she will know that there is a world outside social media. A lesson well taught, and hopefully, it will be learnt.

Her type cannot survive Nairaland or even Twitter.

she said someone told her that she just relocated to UK for study and na man be her concentration now lol.

guobe:
A Nigerian girl is complaining that people in Nigeria who are in her social media forum are intruding into her private life after she posted pics of her and and her white dude on social media.she has turned off the comment section and says its non of their business.who is right in this matter?The social media inlaws or the lady in question.

Where is the link to your story

seguno2:


Where is the link to your story

ah link to a real life story that the person is already angry.abego

guobe:
she said someone told her that she just relocated to UK for study and na man be her concentration now lol.

She pays too much attention to what people who are of no use to her life says. So, what if man na her concentration? Are they in Nigerians going to issue her visa if other avenues fail to secure a stay after her studies? Would they have said the same if she be man, and he showcases his abroad girlfriend?

Gerrard59:


She pays too much attention to what people who are of no use to her life says. So, what if man na her concentration? Are they in Nigerians going to issue her visa if other avenues fail to secure a stay after her studies? Would they have said the same if she be man, and he showcases his abroad girlfriend?

so true.maybe she is subconsciously not comfortable with the relationship just maybe otherwise she shouldn't have bothered what other people have to say.