Gooday house. As stated in the holy book, "... Men will arise who will sweettalk weak women from their home and lead them to sin..." (2timothy 3:6). So my wife, one day told me that, one of my colleague is stalking her. I asked who the person is, though she couldn't tell, but she described him. She said, that was the second time she rejected his advances and that I should confront him. fortunately enough, I and my wife were returning from a function and bump into each other with the guy along his friend_ right away she told me to confront the guy but I acted indifferent; considering the fact that they are from one community and one language (igala) I on the other hand (efik). So on reaching home, she started giving me attitude on why I couldn' challenge the dude. I told her here is their land, and given the aggressive nature their men exibit toward strangers over their women, that I will allow her to fight the guy to the finish if she truely love me and want me to leave here alive! pls I need more advice, Tnx

Lol...this is funny

Oxfordgrade:
Gooday house. As stated in the holy book, "... Men will arise who will sweettalk weak women from their home and lead them to sin..." (2timothy 3:6). So my wife, one day told me that, one of my colleague is stalking her. I asked who the person is, though she couldn't tell, but she described him. She said, that was the second time she rejected his advances and that I should confront him.

How people find married women attractive is still a mystery to me, a puna that to two or three human head has passed through.

See single girls with tight puna everywhere like water.

Which kind story be this nau😆😆😆

Is the Op trying to write script for comedy sitcom?

I am lost here.


If this story is true, then, you have failed in one of the core responsibility of a man. Defend your woman!
You have failed and it hurts her so dearly 🥵

You are even saying she should proof her love for you by doing your responsibility., 😫

Well, maybe the guy tall pass you and get money pass you 🤣😂😂

Please go meet someone close to the guy and his family and ask them to intervene or else you will arrest him for trespassing on your legally married wife.🤪

Before Dem call you weak man, know that your wife is a strong lady. My fear is that she doesn't take your indifferent for granted and do whatever she wants to do behind your back. Who knows if thats the only pervert troubling her?

Oxfordgrade:
Gooday house. As stated in the holy book, "... Men will arise who will sweettalk weak women from their home and lead them to sin..." (2timothy 3:6). So my wife, one day told me that, one of my colleague is stalking her. I asked who the person is, though she couldn't tell, but she described him. She said, that was the second time she rejected his advances and that I should confront him. fortunately enough, I and my wife were returning from a function and bump into each other with the guy along his friend_ right away she told me to confront the guy but I acted indifferent; considering the fact that they are from one community and one language (igala) I on the other hand (efik). So on reaching home, she started giving me attitude on why I couldn' challenge the dude. I told her here is their land, and given the aggressive nature their men exibit toward strangers over their women, that I will allow her to fight the guy to the finish if she truely love me and want me to leave here alive! pls I need more advice, Tnx

Gentle man, if you want to confront such person, you will need to be calm and logistical.

Sometimes, you need to be Xtreme by going to the elders of the land, I mean involve elders that can talk sense into the guy. If that one no work, it means you need leave the place with your wife untainted.

No fear, you need to stand your ground. Na phase wey every marriage dey go through be that.

advanceDNA:
Lol...this is funny

very funny bro. We worked in the same company, I was hit by the redundancy but he's still on the game and as heavy duty operator: fresh and has bar, and my wife on the other side posses the look of everyman's dream. So i guest he want to take an advantage of my present status; thinking it will be easy catch for him.

almarthins:



Gentle man, if you want to confront such person, you will need to be calm and logistical.

Sometimes, you need to be Xtreme by going to the elders of the land, I mean involve elders that can talk sense into the guy. If that one no work, it means you need leave the place with your wife untainted.

No fear, you need to stand your ground. Na phase wey every marriage dey go through be that.

the have a culture that forbid such among them, but sadly for the outsider OYO! One elderly igboman who married one much younger igbo lady and brought, they found their way and raped the lady? And the elders have done nothing uptill now. Thanks a lot for ur kind advice sir. I've reported to my inlaws_ tho iam not happy about the present state of event around me

You be wise man bro.......At least I've seen men who went down death lane simply by confronting men who were showing advances towards their women . As a woman,if she can't scare a man away by telling him she's already taken,then the shame should be on her.....

Men don't do such shiit....Na bannies dey fight unnecessary battles on top guyman matter....As a responsible man whom the op is,he should thank his stars for escaping a bullet.. Because what would had happened if the op had fought with the man and was killed . Don't be surprised that the same man would be the one to be enjoying his wife when he's dead

Fear bannies

Since u know the possible outcome why not attack instead of waiting for old people who will do nothing. Sorry to say but It's sad when ur a stinking ju and worse still when u got no balls as a man. Well, u can still use military men since u have no crew. First of all get all ur facts right and confirm ur woman isn't just trying to use u against another man. Then Just invite him to an unknown location let the military men be on plain clothes on another table. Confront the idiot with facts and when it gets clear he's really onto ur wife the men can come in with serious warning and disgracing. Or u can use them to disgrace him at work. Then when he's labelled a criminal his employer may likely drop him. U can then make him swear an undertaking should anything happen to u or any of ur family he will be held responsible. Before u do anything pls confirm ur wife's claims. Some women can be so terrible too

don't use force.

reason the man - one on one; man to man; and tell him to leave your wife alone.

call the man and peacefully tell him to leave your wife alone , do so if he talks to her again

Jakumo, we need you here.

boss,i understand you trying to act matured is right but try to tell him to fuhk off from ya wife glory to God that ya wife is someone that values her marriage...

if is this #oes parading as wives,by now na 3rd knacking dem dey naw...try confront him...


how some idiots find married woman attractive still baffles me?

disgusting

decatalyst:
Which kind story be this nau😆😆😆

Is the Op trying to write script for comedy sitcom?

I am lost here.


If this story is true, then, you have failed in one of the core responsibility of a man. Defend your woman!
You have failed and it hurts her so dearly 🥵

You are even saying she should proof her love for you by doing your responsibility., 😫

Well, maybe the guy tall pass you and get money pass you 🤣😂😂

Please go meet someone close to the guy and his family and ask them to intervene or else you will arrest him for trespassing on your legally married wife.🤪

BRO code 102..


NEVER fight a bro over a woman not even your wife.let her do the severing.if she ain't interested then she ain't interested.

No go do wetin go kill u o.



No need to confront anyone


She might be exaggerating

Oxfordgrade:
very funny bro. We worked in the same company, I was hit by the redundancy but he's still on the game and as heavy duty operator: fresh and has bar, and my wife on the other side posses the look of everyman's dream. So i guest he want to take an advantage of my present status; thinking it will be easy catch for him.

I doubt you're efik.
efiks hardly marry outside their tribe

Oxfordgrade:
Gooday house. As stated in the holy book, "

Ignore the Voices urging you to go and fight in another man's land, how you handled it so far is so good...

You don't need to fight to assert dominion over your territory, na wisdom you need to be able to make your woman understand that as a woman, married or not, men will always come after her. even twice as more if she's beautiful, or naturally endowed in the right places... so it's normal.

Just make sure you play your part as a responsible and understanding husband,

you need to ooze confidence normally so she won't be pushing you to do silly things just to proof to her that you are man enough for her...

CondenseMilk:


How people find married women attractive is still a mystery to me, a puna that to two or three human head has passed through.

See single girls with tight puna everywhere like water.

It's nothing mysterious... Crazier things have been happening given the right situations...

life is not all about tight puna

If you trust your wife approach your the man maturely, lf you don't trust your wife ask for evidence before taking action

Guy tell her that u can’t step into the matter, she should keep ignoring is advances if truly that’s what she is doing, the only thing u can do is tell her if ever come a day that u and her are together and u bump into the guy, let her stop the guy and do a formal introduction, like uncle whatever is name is meet my husband, hope u will stop disturbing me now, and u as a guy will shake the guy and say my bro, Abeg she don marry ooo, help me free am simple

You're just a weak man, your excuse is not acceptable. Did she ask you to fight the guy?

decatalyst:
Which kind story be this nau😆😆😆

Is the Op trying to write script for comedy sitcom?

I am lost here.


If this story is true, then, you have failed in one of the core responsibility of a man. Defend your woman!
You have failed and it hurts her so dearly 🥵

You are even saying she should proof her love for you by doing your responsibility., 😫

Well, maybe the guy tall pass you and get money pass you 🤣😂😂

Please go meet someone close to the guy and his family and ask them to intervene or else you will arrest him for trespassing on your legally married wife.🤪

Some men are in the grave trying to fight for their wives.
And that wonderful wife is presently screwing another rod without remorse.
The OP is a very wise man. Never let a woman make you fight a useless battle.

Oxfordgrade:
very funny bro. We worked in the same company, I was hit by the redundancy but he's still on the game and as heavy duty operator: fresh and has bar, and my wife on the other side posses the look of everyman's dream. So i guest he want to take an advantage of my present status; thinking it will be easy catch for him.

If that’s the case then keep a close eye on your wife but don’t come off as obsessed or insecure..try to show her love more and try to get a job fast otherwise that guy will fvck your wife soon if you are NOT careful and very vigilant.

Oxfordgrade:
very funny bro. We worked in the same company, I was hit by the redundancy but he's still on the game and as heavy duty operator: fresh and has bar, and my wife on the other side posses the look of everyman's dream. So i guest he want to take an advantage of my present status; thinking it will be easy catch for him.

Be rest assured that your wife will chop that guy's dick. That's it they haven't even started banging. Dude, that your is just using reverse physocology on you. Trust a Nigerian lady at your own peril.

CondenseMilk:


How people find married women attractive is still a mystery to me, a puna that to two or three human head has passed through.

See single girls with tight puna everywhere like water.

Igala women are damn beautiful… 🤧