Divorce the mugu. Some men no get sense. This is what I called the REAL USE AND DUMP.

sharpwriter:

Lol.. You wicked... What was his expression?

h em didn't say anything ,just looked at me thoughfully

The man should be happy; the woman is no longer for real.

Really

nothing wrong here, many married people fall out of love (whether in the UK or Africa)... expecting this lady to remain with this man, regardless of how she now feels (just because he brought her there) is ABSURD!!!!

as hard as it may sound, divorce him and move on with your life, sista!

Lamanii22:
You never loved him right from the start… you shouldn’t have accepted to go over to the UK then…. You should be deported ASAP and allow the innocent man to find true love abroad….

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boldsleek:
women bashing thread

really so we shouldn't tell the truth again? How do you guys process information

ipobarecriminals:
She don see better Rich 9ja man there. When she finish/drain his purse, she'll find another ready-made idiot to drain again till she's out of service /network is bad.

I dont think so

She started working now and all of a sudden the feeling is gone

Nobody knows women until they started making money.

Megabig:
She is reading from what someone write to her, she is a wanna be blogger. That’s not the woman who doesn’t love her husband, the person is anonymous

Exactly my observation. The village woman is looking is carrying out a publicity stunt

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oIkjlbE-1XI

Drink snipper and go to hell. You dont love her again , ask us question us of what to do

Drink snipper and go to hell. You dont love him again , ask us question us of what to do

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This girl must be very stupid and selfish.your husband assisted you through nursing school and spent millions sending you to UK only for you to realize that you don't love him,that is very wicked of you.God will judge you

sharpwriter:

but all these tins still dey amaze me. Someone gave a quote and said that the greatest mistake a man can do under this context is to tink that it can't ever happen to him since they've been living nicely in naija before relocating abroad. The tin dey fear me jàre.

ahhh bro it can happen to anybody who is not willing to adjust their expectations. As a man, unless you are otedola and have the money to hire help, you become useless to a woman if your ego does not allow you to start sweeping they floor and washing the toilet and changing diapers. If you can't accept this as your new job in the UK as a man then more than likely your wife is going to get rid of you. You have become useless. Lol. It's true

I guess na becuz of una UK US won ban student visa go bring in their family...


Fear this gender abeg

Zonefree:

Women were never created to love.

But I’m an advocate of love… being in love is something I cherish

blacksam01:


h em didn't say anything ,just looked at me thoughfully

bukatyne:


What do you think?

I don't even know, but you sound sweet

sukkot:
ahhh bro it can happen to anybody who is not willing to adjust their expectations. As a man, unless you are otedola and have the money to hire help, you become useless to a woman if your ego does not allow you to start sweeping they floor and washing the toilet and changing diapers. If you can't accept this as your new job in the UK as a man then more than likely your wife is going to get rid of you. You have become useless. Lol. It's true

Are you sure these are only the things causing this anomaly? All these are no problem to me. I was brought up in such a way that I can attend to any domestic chore. I do change diapers. I can cook meals if need be and clean environs.

I went to a state university and all these are a must, moreover if you live alone won't person do the needful. I don't see it as anything to attend to necessary tinx in your home.

I remember a course mate (female) who visited me at one time and she requested to use the toilet. She came back whining that the toilet is clean o, how come? I just looked at her say wetin dey do this one, so in her mind because I be man make I dey put my yansh for inside dirty WC? So make I no wash wetin I dey use ba?

So I really don't see these as a problem, there must be other tinz triggering this evil pattern.

sharpwriter:

Are you sure these are only the things causing this anomaly? All these are no problem to me. I was brought up in such a way that I can attend to any domestic chore. I do change diapers. I can cook meals if need be and clean environs.

I went to a state university and all these are a must, moreover if you live alone won't person do the needful. I don't see it as anything to attend to necessary tinx in your home.

I remember a course mate (female) who visited me at one time and she requested to use the toilet. She came back whining that the toilet is clean o, how come? I just looked at her say wetin dey do this one, so in her mind because I be man make I dey put my yansh for inside dirty WC? So make I no wash wetin I dey use ba?

So I really don't see these as a problem, there must be other tinz triggering this evil pattern.

brother these men and your own story you have presented above are two different things. these are men with houses and housegirls and houseboys and gatemen in naija now expected to sweep floors and change diapers in the uk

sukkot:
brother these men and your own story you have presented above are two different things. these are men with houses and housegirls and houseboys and gatemen in naija now expected to sweep floors and change diapers in the uk

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I think I can now get the picture better..... E no go easy for dem true true o....
People just wanna eat dem cake and have it... Shey dem no know say every action get consequence good, bad or mild. Having such life here, I no know wetin dey push dem go settle for another man's land and thinking every thing go dey the same.

A king in his territory isn't a king in another's.... We should get life and reality right rather than jumping thoughtlessly. Traveling on vacation, holiday etc as a big man here is okay. But going to settle and think you remain a big man when you are not really big (upper middle class) ain't gonna favor you.

Worse, some sell off every thing they labored to get over the years and get a shocker from the culture shock there. Na real wa😣😫