Not at all, no woman will want to come spend holiday with her child in a house were the baby daddy is already married and living with his wife, and please take good care of that Child even if you are not marrying the mother.

Lols

CoolNL:
I and my siblings grew up in a very dramatic polygamous home, it was both hectic and toxic at a time.

We vowed to break the yoke of polygamy in our family but I don’t know if I’m toeing the line already.

I already have a child with a lady though I didn’t marry her, but we ended our relationship in 2020. We are cool and we are both taking care of our child without troubles, we only talk about our child and we don’t share what’s going on in our lives with each other.

I recently met a girl I plan to marry by the first quarter of next year, she is from a nuclear family and she knows about my family background as well. She’s been asking me what I’ll do if the mother of my child says she won’t allow my child visits or come spend the holidays with me except she is also allowed to come spend the holiday with my child in my house.

The question sounds confusing at the same time funny to me because I don’t know how a woman I stopped seeing since 3 yrs will suddenly say she won’t allow my child visit except she comes along.

That’s not my worry, I want to know if marrying my girlfriend when I already have a child with another woman will make me a polygamist.

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Cc RoyalRoy

If the mother of your son has 70% of what you wanted in a women, I will advise you to marry her. Your new girl is very smart, she ask you very important question. Those who are not on speaking term do get together in future and continue where they stop, let alone the one you are constantly communicating with. Never trust your ability or what you can do in future, you may end up in Polygamy setting without knowing.

Alternatively, you can collect your son now and allow him to stay with you. By this method, there won't be need to have a constant communication with her anymore. One thing is certain, a responsible baby dad will most likely win the heart of his baba mama even without his consent, especially if you are comfortable and she doesn't have peaceful home at other side.

ipobarecriminals:
Family tree

Gbamsulotely, Family Tree, and Family seed of Polygamy already in place, planted by his Nuclear Familytree and might likely follow all of them except the yoke is broken

Bros,if you want to abolish your family polygamy, settled with your baby mama

CoolNL:


I didn’t marry the first woman na, is that polygamy

CoolNL:


She is obviously seeing another person already, I don’t want to get back with her even if she is not seeing anyone. As for my babe making life difficult for my son.. I don’t think that will happen

you are entitled to your thought but that is far away from reality , she will make life difficult for him that is fact , for her the baby is not part of the family , know this and know piece , you already have two family if you marry another woman

jackmrandy:



you have a child already with another woman. tell us the full story that led to you not marrying her, and now you want to marry another woman. the fact that you have double dated already shows you are what you are asking already. can't you see it. go and make amend with your baby mama and leave single girls alone. or still go look for another single mother and marrry. case close. who knows if you will still turn this young one now into another single mother.

its time the society awake from all this none sense of turning ladies into single mothers.

Nothing comes from nothing.
Most single mothers are the architects of their problems. This is why we urge ladies to be careful because they are the ones that stand to lose the most.
No man is willing to tie themselves down because of anybody.

Why do you think courts always grant women the benefit of doubts in a divorcé case!

Bros,if you want to abolish your family polygamy, settled with your baby mama.
Best regards.

CoolNL:
I and my siblings grew up in a very dramatic polygamous home, it was both hectic and toxic at a time.

We vowed to break the yoke of polygamy in our family but I don’t know if I’m toeing the line already.

I already have a child with a lady though I didn’t marry her, but we ended our relationship in 2020. We are cool and we are both taking care of our child without troubles, we only talk about our child and we don’t share what’s going on in our lives with each other.

I recently met a girl I plan to marry by the first quarter of next year, she is from a nuclear family and she knows about my family background as well. She’s been asking me what I’ll do if the mother of my child says she won’t allow my child visits or come spend the holidays with me except she is also allowed to come spend the holiday with my child in my house.

The question sounds confusing at the same time funny to me because I don’t know how a woman I stopped seeing since 3 yrs will suddenly say she won’t allow my child visit except she comes along.

That’s not my worry, I want to know if marrying my girlfriend when I already have a child with another woman will make me a polygamist.

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Cc RoyalRoy

You talked about" breaking the yoke". I am.glad you know there is a yoke.

My brother, forget about the polygamist nomenclature. The truth is, yokes always re- appear and tend to continue in one way or another.

Time will not permit me but just one example. A friend of my had a father who had children from three women. Inspiite of all efforts by my friend, he presently has the third woman at home bearing him children.

CoolNL:
I and my siblings grew up in a very dramatic polygamous home, it was both hectic and toxic at a time.

We vowed to break the yoke of polygamy in our family but I don’t know if I’m toeing the line already.

I already have a child with a lady though I didn’t marry her, but we ended our relationship in 2020. We are cool and we are both taking care of our child without troubles, we only talk about our child and we don’t share what’s going on in our lives with each other.

I recently met a girl I plan to marry by the first quarter of next year, she is from a nuclear family and she knows about my family background as well. She’s been asking me what I’ll do if the mother of my child says she won’t allow my child visits or come spend the holidays with me except she is also allowed to come spend the holiday with my child in my house.

The question sounds confusing at the same time funny to me because I don’t know how a woman I stopped seeing since 3 yrs will suddenly say she won’t allow my child visit except she comes along.

That’s not my worry, I want to know if marrying my girlfriend when I already have a child with another woman will make me a polygamist.

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Cc RoyalRoy

Have you heard of Okafor's law? This may be the genuine concern of your girlfriend so that co-parenting won't lead to stories that touch later. I don't think she will have any problem with your child.

CoolNL:
I and my siblings grew up in a very dramatic polygamous home, it was both hectic and toxic at a time.

We vowed to break the yoke of polygamy in our family but I don’t know if I’m toeing the line already.

I already have a child with a lady though I didn’t marry her, but we ended our relationship in 2020. We are cool and we are both taking care of our child without troubles, we only talk about our child and we don’t share what’s going on in our lives with each other.

I recently met a girl I plan to marry by the first quarter of next year, she is from a nuclear family and she knows about my family background as well. She’s been asking me what I’ll do if the mother of my child says she won’t allow my child visits or come spend the holidays with me except she is also allowed to come spend the holiday with my child in my house.

The question sounds confusing at the same time funny to me because I don’t know how a woman I stopped seeing since 3 yrs will suddenly say she won’t allow my child visit except she comes along.

That’s not my worry, I want to know if marrying my girlfriend when I already have a child with another woman will make me a polygamist.

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Cc RoyalRoy

If you go ahead and marry your babe and she starts having children for you, they would refer to your first son as their half sibling and your first son would refer to them as his half siblings. You wife would refer to your first son as her step son and your first son would refer to her as his step mother. The yolks of half siblings and step- parents may persist in your descendants.

But if you marry the mother of your son and work towards ensuring that your marriage works with prayers, then you have broken the yolk of polygamy in your descendants.

Women, stay away from single fathers.

Op, what made you not marry your child's mother?

jackmrandy:



you have a child already with another woman. tell us the full story that led to you not marrying her, and now you want to marry another woman. the fact that you have double dated already shows you are what you are asking already. can't you see it. go and make amend with your baby mama and leave single girls alone. or still go look for another single mother and marrry. case close. who knows if you will still turn this young one now into another single mother.

its time the society awake from all this none sense of turning ladies into single mothers.

Lol I literally laughed out loud. Who you be wey i wan tell the full story

Except she uses Jazz on you... You are determined not to be a polygamist you won't fall

westlius:
Every baby mama get angry when the father of there child get married to another woman

It’s called gameover

Op no go understand, when it’s gameover reality comes into play

Ara21:
Not at all, no woman will want to come spend holiday with her child in a house were the baby daddy is already married and living with his wife, and please take good care of that Child even if you are not marrying the mother.

Thank you, he is my priority already

1Sharon:
Women, stay away from single fathers.

Op, what made you not marry your child's mother?

So who single fathers go marry?

CoolNL:


So who single fathers go marry?

Single mothers.

Why didn't you marry your baby mother?

Okealaaye:
You are the kind of person the Yoruba call Olojukokoro! You're so selfish that you failed to factor the future of your son into your happiness. There are girls who will not under any circumstance marry a guy from a "divided" home. How does your son cope with life seeing his classmates with both parents now and again? I advise you go and settle with the mother of your child, because as our people would say, a woman who has even one child for you is no longer a concubine - she's a wife. Your girlfriend seems to be more reasonable than you, because her questions are deep and meaningful.

She said “I’m taking this decision because of our son so accept it”

That doesn't make you a polygamist, but a fornicator.

Whether your fornication is still ongoing, it's between you and your fornicating partner in the guise of girlfriend or whatever, then God.

Oxygenmayo:


Whether you marry the first lady or not, you are married already because marriage is more than the coming together of a man and wife to become couples. For as long as there was an issue (a child) between you, you are married. As to whether you'd be a polygamist or not, that's another matter for another day, but your past has put you on the path of polygamy .

What a beautiful nonsense?

1Sharon:


Single mothers.

Why didn't you marry your baby mother?

Madam why are you so concerned about that. I don’t want to bring what happened between us up here. I respect her as the mother of my son.

Leave am

transient123:
That doesn't make you a polygamist, but a fornicator.

Whether your fornication is still ongoing, it's between you and your fornicating partner in the guise of girlfriend or whatever, then God.

I nor go respond to you sha.

ADAHE01:
Bros,if you want to abolish your family polygamy, settled with your baby mama

Even if they have realised that they're not compatible? Lol

CoolNL:


I nor go respond to you sha.

I didn't mean to disparage you....truth is just bitter.

maasoap:

Even if they have realised that they're not compatible? Lol

Then he shouldn't have had a baby with her.

Will he be happy if his sister was done like that?

ppogba:
■ You talked about" breaking the yoke". I am.glad you know there is a yoke. My brother, forget about the polygamist nomenclature. The truth is, yokes always re- appear and tend to continue in one way or another. Time will not permit me but just one example. A friend of my had a father who had children from three women. Inspiite of all efforts by my friend, he presently has the third woman at home bearing him children.

So, you really want us to believe that three women unconsciously happened to your friend? Dey there dey feed yourself nonsense dey claim say you get sense in it.

Kobojunkie:
So, you really want us to believe that three women unconsciously happened to your friend? Dey there dey feed yourself nonsense dey claim say you get sense in it.

Sorry sir.