Foodqueen:
Your babe is well learned.

She gat brain.

She knows that the moment you both get married, the good baby mama will suddenly turn something else.

Your baby mama is been nice now cos u aren't married.

Think deeply and answer her question....

If u didn't want to smell polygamy at all, why didn't you marry the mother of your child.

It ended in a relationship it’s better that way

Emu4life:
I remember when the World was laughing at Muslims for practicing Polygamy. Today, the purveyors of such propaganda are telling us that Homosexuality is a must.
I call on the Religious Bigots of yesteryears to come and side with their pale skinned masters once again.
Islamic rules/principles is never archaic, you are just destitute of Wisdom

So how your preaching take concern wetin I post

CoolNL:


She is obviously seeing another person already, I don’t want to get back with her even if she is not seeing anyone. As for my babe making life difficult for my son.. I don’t think that will happen

It will happen in your face and you won't do anything

1Sharon:
Women, stay away from single fathers.

Op, what made you not marry your child's mother?

mumu talk

tiswell:
mumu talk

But you guys can tell each other to avoid single mothers?

CoolNL:
I and my siblings grew up in a very dramatic polygamous home, it was both hectic and toxic at a time.

We vowed to break the yoke of polygamy in our family but I don’t know if I’m toeing the line already.

I already have a child with a lady though I didn’t marry her, but we ended our relationship in 2020. We are cool and we are both taking care of our child without troubles, we only talk about our child and we don’t share what’s going on in our lives with each other.

I recently met a girl I plan to marry by the first quarter of next year, she is from a nuclear family and she knows about my family background as well. She’s been asking me what I’ll do if the mother of my child says she won’t allow my child visits or come spend the holidays with me except she is also allowed to come spend the holiday with my child in my house.

The question sounds confusing at the same time funny to me because I don’t know how a woman I stopped seeing since 3 yrs will suddenly say she won’t allow my child visit except she comes along.

That’s not my worry, I want to know if marrying my girlfriend when I already have a child with another woman will make me a polygamist.

Mod please help move to front page

Cc RoyalRoy

It won’t. But it pains me that your life has this complication.
Be sure u only marry a woman though. In all, the three of you (the adults) are not fair on that poor child

CoolNL:


So who single fathers go marry?

no thing like single fathers.

the term was recently introduced by feminists to further their gender equality agenda.


A man by nature can marry many wives and bear children, while a woman can't do the opposite.

ppogba:


Sorry sir.

na woman

tiswell:
mumu talk

Anyhow talk

1Sharon:


But you guys can tell each other to avoid single mothers?

yes,cos a woman has a biological seal(virginity),which distinguishes her as chaste and pure.


It is even worse,when the woman isn't just about chastity but gave birth in her father's house.

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tiswell:
no thing like single fathers.

the term was recently introduced by feminists to further their gender equality agenda.


A man by nature can marry many wives and bear children, while a woman can't do the opposite.

Is the definition of single father not an unmarried man with a child?

tiswell:
yes,cos a woman has a biological seal(virginity),which distinguishes her as chaste and pure.


It is even worse,when the woman isn't just about chastity but gave birth in her father's house.

So a woman w/o a kid is automatically a virgin?

Polygamy will solve many of your problems in marriage.

Being polygamous isn't the problem, the problem is being man of your word, stand your ground and resist any form of woman manipulations.

You'll enjoy your life better, when you marry more than one woman.

Be polygamous, stay polygamous.

1Sharon:


Is the definition of single father not an unmarried man with a child?

there's no thing like 'an unmarried man with a child"


How old are you?

1Sharon:


So a woman w/o a kid is automatically a virgin?

much beta than the one with child at her father's house

tiswell:
there's no thing like 'an unmarried man with a child"


How old are you?

Lol. I'll leave you to your delusion.

tiswell:
much beta than the one with child at her father's house

And you think women want men with children? You think all women want to become step mothers?

1Sharon:


Lol. I'll leave you to your delusion.

How often do single mothers get married ,than their 'single fathers" counterparts ?

tiswell:
How often do single mothers get married ,than their 'single fathers" counterparts ?

Single fathers often get married because they dump their children with the mother. Single mothers don't do this.

Nigerian men think child rearing is a women role or beneath them.

1Sharon:


And you think women want men with children? You think all women want to become step mothers?

a man with the financial frame is the prize,whether as a single father or opposite.


Don't deceive yasef,logically, therebis no way 'all women" should be pictured in this.


But,most women.

1Sharon:


Single fathers often get married because they dump their children with the mother. Single mothers don't do this.

Nigerian men think child rearing is a women role or beneath them.

now,end of story,you have answered yasef.


Men,remains the prize!

tiswell:
a man with the financial frame is the prize,whether as a single father or opposite.


Don't deceive yasef,logically, therebis no way 'all women" should be pictured in this.


But,most women.

Now you're talking about financial frame.

Most women don't marry a man to become step mothers. Why do you think step mothers become wicked? Step kids are simply an unwanted package that came with the marriage.

tiswell:
now,end of story,you have answered yasef.


Men,remains the prize!

If women were willing to let go of their kids like single fathers do, they would be able to get married aswell.

1Sharon:


If women were willing to let go of their kids like single fathers do, they would be able to get married aswell.

naturally,biologically, there weren't wired to.


So,it is what it is

CoolNL:


I didn’t marry the first woman na, is that polygamy

Dont mind him. You never did marry except u do with the new one. Your concern now should be how to make things work , not whether it's polygamy or not.

1Sharon:


Now you're talking about financial frame.

Most women don't marry a man to become step mothers. Why do you think step mothers become wicked? Step kids are simply an unwanted package that came with the marriage.

is it by force to marry a single dad?

why not marry a single guy without a child,than maltreating an innocent child behind his father?

Yankiss:
Dont mind him. You never did marry except u do with the new one. Your concern now should be how to make things work , not whether it's polygamy or not.

Thank you my brother

tiswell:
naturally,biologically, there weren't wired to.


So,it is what it is

Exactly. So that's the reason single fathers get married more.

tiswell:
is it by force to marry a single dad?

why not marry a single guy without a child,than maltreating an innocent child behind his father?

Lol. they got married because they wanted to bear Mrs and they took whoever came along.

Sonnobax15:

First of all, you're already a polygamist..So there's no way you will twist the story that can twist tht whole narrative..Then again,why would your current banny have such an imagination? Like your baby mama whom you ain't doing any relationship stuff with coming over to spend a night at your place all because of your kid? Who does that? Even Nollywood movies won't even stoop so low to that level of shooting such movies

More likely the ex will try for his visits at her home " the car is bad" " Iam not feeling well" type of reasons. It's amazing how attractive an ex becomes when they get married before you. And then there is the power play thing. " I've got his child, I have the pulling power"