Their is nothing as good as been in a relationship, the early the better you can plan, mothers know everything in a relationship regarding challenge but still want you as their baby, you cannot listen to two voice , you either accept one and tell the other you can control everything. But use wisdom because their is nobody or friend as mother, she might be using you which is frustrating but would never disappoint you, I always carry both my relationship and mother along but always have it in mind they are human being, is human being not selfish in nature ?