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Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by Mikael4(m): 10:58pm On Sep 29, 2011 |
cito us:[size=14pt]Well! I cant say naija style is the best style! Cos obviously, it failed you woefully for almost 6 months! What's best about that? You did not point out how the janded flow worked on the naija ladies, so there really isnt anything we have, to base any constructive differentiation from! Societal and cultural values could also play a part in the flow, as against the rest of the world! Every part with it's own values of what is acceptable in wooing a girl or not! I believe we should just adapt to the flow of wherever it is we find ourselves! Never rush into anything just because you feel you have the "Holy grail" flow of wooing ladies! You just might be quintessentially dumbfounded, -as you were when you first got to Nevada- to find out that your flow doesnt work! Nothing wrong in studying your environment first, and then, trying to adapt to the flexibility of their own flow! Diving in head first into any situation whatsoever, especially into untested waters, isnt the way to go! It could leave you bemused, or worse still, in confounded wonderment! Thanks for pointing this out though! [/size] |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by MrsChima1(f): 11:39pm On Sep 29, 2011 |
Relax101: [size=22pt]A hit dog yelped.[/size] |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by citous(m): 12:43am On Sep 30, 2011 |
~Mikael~: [size=14pt]I gat you bro. Its not that my flow wasn't working here, it was just too weird to most of em. They are not used to someone preaching like Idahosa to them in the name of wooing. I did adapt to it but the experience nearly did in my self confidence. I believe in when in Rome, behave like the Romans. The new mantra came about from painful experiences tho . I still believe we gat guys with flows back home cos right now I don't know if I have the patience or the guile to navigate through the obstacles our beautiful ladies will throw my way if I try wooing them. But to be frank with you, some of our brother's flows are plain hilarious to say the least. [/size] |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by Relax101(m): 1:00am On Sep 30, 2011 |
Mrs, Chima: You tend to portray some good and some bad but my personal experience tells me you are are wrong with whatever you think about the two different groups. And Yes, African Americans and White Americans are not different when it's time to lay them. They are all the same. Both the educated, illiterate and the so-called hard-to-get. Peace. |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by MrsChima1(f): 5:38am On Sep 30, 2011 |
Beware of the yelping dogs. |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by Mikael4(m): 7:43am On Sep 30, 2011 |
cito us:[size=14pt]Ofcourse! There are guys with flows! But if you want to fit in again, you'll just have to adapt a little, and then update it with the flow of where you are coming from! Yeah, i agree with the hilarious flows of some bro's though! [/size] |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by pelumiboi: 4:34pm On Oct 02, 2011 |
I NOTICE THIS SHIT, my ininternational student friends find it hard to make the appproach (USA) |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by kenyaman: 9:07am On Oct 05, 2011 |
Upendo-curvy On the contrary, Lax is actually as shy as a dove. But its just that your presence wakes up a side of me I never knew existed when God created alias wine-n-dine. U dig? This pops up as white. We are black Africa, that included Nigeria. Please investigate |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by citous(m): 5:13am On Oct 06, 2011 |
~Mikael~: [font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]I will knw for sure how much swag I have lost when I get home in a few months [/font] |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by pendo89(f): 7:18am On Oct 06, 2011 |
kenyaman: I swear dude you just crack me up. You have trailed me here from politics. I tried showing you how to insert a quote you dint get it! Now you r confused btwn Upendo and Pendo cz u see 2 diff,pics. Even after explaining you still insist am a 100 yr old white male cz of upendo. You are too funny enjoy. |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by drnoel: 9:19pm On Dec 28, 2011 |
I agree with the poster. In Naija we used 2 really pursue the girls, do treasure hunting (gifts and Mr biggs) coupled with lots of flows and pressures but still the get nothing 4 our pain. Talk less 2 even see kiss or even see her panty. I remember the first girl I tried it on when I got here, she was so freaked out she told her friends I was crazy. I actually didn't smell her ass till I completely 4got about her and had changed my runs and style, then she turned around. Here in America and Europe, I noticed the girls pursue themselves 4 u, all u need 2 do is almost nothing. Once I like any girl I just walk up to her and yearn her up. If she likes me fine, if she doesn't I'll move on. So far its been more than 90% successful. Funny thing is if she likes u, she will definitely Psych herself 2 yearn with u. Once u notice her doing so the game up. U'll be chopping that ass if not that night then soon. This never happens with Naija girls back homes. It probably has 2 do with culture of the country or the orientation of the people, I don't know but its definitely easy to chop chicks living in Caucasian countries compared 2 Naija chicks in Naija. |
Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by 195(f): 9:25pm On Dec 28, 2011 |
Its so true all those popping of moet et all dont work in this side of the world NIJA STYLE OF TOASTING IS PURE BUSHERY No wonder tons of them use this BUSH method anyways I keep wondering- U go 2 a nigerian club and girls flock dudes who dance that weird dance called alanta or guys who shake their arse and im like WTF!! |
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