As much as I can say that in this our area most women are not confused when they say "care for me" but truly what is on their mind or meant is "spend cash for /on me" .and we guys need to see that. A girl that is interested in "take me out, eat this or that, see what she's putting on! but not intterested in counsels, advices,, books talk shows , family,friendship will probably fall this category ( Ala febi pa) .
It is obvious from most of our posts that guys actually wants ladies to demand for material things.because majoruty of replies are tends towards interpreting her can you take care of nme to being material things despite of all the assistance the guy had given the girl which we only see the material aspect of it even the OP . Meaning, we men mostly view our contributions into relationships in monetary terms . So when we could not perform any further we term the girl as been materialistic. .

d gal is after somthin else