Nonywendy:

When the foundation is built on lies u wil reap lies bountifully. He will never believe u again. Even ur greetings will seems like lies to him

Martinsmine:
achieve first before d truth

Bennysam:

What if this relationship leads to marriage?

zedegit:



That can't be the only lie because a lie begats more lies. Did you equally tell him you are a virgin?


Otilo

advanceDNA:


U lied that u are same birth day and month with him? To what end?? Madam...u do realize this is a principality level of heart and soul manipulation??


Me i go close ur file sharpally....cos only god knows how far u can go

samwash:
Let me give you my 25 cent.

Tomorrow morning, locate the nearest customary/ high court close to you & jejely sworn affidavit of the month & date of birth and show it to your boyfriend to support your lie.
He wouldn't get angry again because you already have prove for it.

phorget:
You both will soon break up so no point telling him about nothing..

Oluromantic:
You kept a lie for a year! Haba. No matter how little it sounds, lying is bad in a growing relationship. How would you feel if you were lied to. Tell him now before it's too late and set your mind free. You've been rolling together for a year which makes it seem like the relationship is growing.

Advice: Work your self esteem too. You don't have to lie to make a man happy. Men don't need that, it's you ladies that crave it.

nokspos:
This is an health issue you need to address, it is called mythomania and pseudologia fantastica. You should google it "pseudologia fantastica disorder" Your case might not be complex, but its an health issue.

Come clean to him , if he can accept you with the fact that there's an underlying health condition. Then fine , if not , move on with your life and tell your next relationship about your health condition before you go far.

fyzaila:


It's leading already, i just want 2 be on a clean note with him. Well, I thought it's something insignificant that's why i didn't bother revealing the actual date

Bennysam:

Open up to him , it will easy for you if he hear it from your mouth than hearing it from another person

fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.

fyzaila:


How is it a manipulation? Is he loving me because of birth date and month? Or is birth date and month giving him the peace of mind he is having now?

We've come a long way and there is no stopping or going back.

jeromestarks:


The date you were born has little to no significance in your life. Don't believe fallacies told about born dates.
Make his date your date. His Month your Month.

If you confess, he will lose trust in you.
We guys know that a girl that can lie about the date she was born can lie about ANYTHING!

Some things are better left untold.

advanceDNA:


Why did u do it in the first place if u know it doesnt matter when it comes to loving you?.. people take the date and month they were born seriously
U made him feel there is something special out of the ordinary about meeting u...and u said its not manipulation...

This one is not even serious.....so why did u come here if u know there's no going back

fyzaila:





If at all i made him feel that, i have also proved myself worthy of it. And i know everything about me is true except that.

This one you're sounding harsh like this 😳 making a mountain out of a mole hill. Wahala o for your girlfriend.

fyzaila:

Achieve what if i may ask please?

Martinsmine:
win him first. Say it later

advanceDNA:


Lol.... every woman thinks she's a worthy girl friend .....no one thinks they are bad because deep down we all do what favors us even kidnappers and ritualists...

Yeah...u are the one that knows everything about u is true.....when others know we can lie about when we were born then they start doubting everything they know about us

Besides...U ddnt answer the question ...why did u do it if u know its not a big deal..??

he will soon catch u anyway.. then u will realize i wasnt harsh..i was just letting u know a possible angle he will view ur lies from.

The bad part is ..u dont seem sorry u lied to him....u are here to look for those that will support u and ur lies..thats one of the ways to know u are not good person..

fyzaila:


What is the smile for now?

fyzaila:


I don't know about all the girls you've been dating o, because it seems you've been dealt with by them. All what i know is, i know myself and i have made my self worthy of the love he gave to me.

About your question, it didn't seem like a lie at first because we were catching fun during the talking stage and i over looked telling him the truth.

So if he catch me on this or i tell him the truth does it amount to anything that will make him gaga? I don't think so.

fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.

advanceDNA:


Lol....u want psychoanalyse others but u are not looking in the mirror to deal with ur insecurities that led to the lying....
....someone also told u up there that its best he doesnt know.....u ddnt tell him it wont matter if he knows ooo..

An employee that lied about his age thinks the company will overlook it because he's a good staff.....lol....

Orisha17:

Why?

fyzaila:


I didn't tell the person it won't matter because I'm still weighing my options here.

Besides, i didn't lie about my age, it's just the month and day i lied about.
But, can you give up on your skillful, competent, and loyal staff that you know to get his type isn't easy? Can you?? Just because of something as insignificant as that?

If you can, then you are on the long thing.

fyzaila:


He's won already. That's y i am asking if it's high time i say it

fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.