Good morning nairalanders.

I've been dating this girl for about 3yrs. Initially it was sweet and rosy untl she cheated. First time I forgave her then she repeated it again with another guy, still I forgave and yet again she did it with another guy. My attitudes towards her changed and although I loved her, I just started changing my attitude towards her and for the past 1yr we fight and quarrel all the time but cos I love her I'll still go to apologize to her and trying to make things work.

She practically has been staying with me all these years, we live like we're married. So we quarrelled about 2months ago and she moved her things out of the hse, which is her regular routine every time we quarrel. I tried to talk to her to settle things out but she refused. I tried my best and got tired until 2 weeks ago I agreed to the breakup she has always been asking for after her friend told me she already has a new bf.

Now after that day, she has been calling me everyday till today, she calls and randomly paid visit once, the second time she wanted to come visit I was not at home. I've made up my mind to move on but this her act of calling everyday, I'm not comfortable with it. Should I block her Or instruct her to never call me again (although I feel that'll be harsh) I'm a very gentle man and the least word that will hurt a woman, I don't like uttering it.

She told her friend nobody ever made love to her like I do and for that reason she always want to come back to me but just for sex. But I believe one day, she'll get over this sex thing that's intoxicating her and probably stick to the dude she'll be having in her life.. The one time she visited we had sex. That was about a week ago and yesterday she wanted to come visit but I wasn't home.


I forgot to mention the part where I am actually taking care of 100% of her bills.... I'm working in a financial institution where I earn about 150k monthly . Although the pay is not much but I'm not outrightly broke.

She does nothing at all.. the little career skill she has, I sponsored her through.

So what do you all advise I do.

Move on

fringz11:
Move on

I have moved on, but I'm not cool with her calling everyday.. what can I do about it ?

She is immature, you need to cut her off completely for your mental health and to be able to fully move on

Stop picking her calls, let her understand you need a long break from her without any form of communication

Ireportlive:
She is immature, you need to cut her off completely for your mental health and to be able to fully move on

Stop picking her calls

You're 100% correct... you talk like u know the whole story. But how did u figure that out in my little write up

You’re a very confident mumu man! Women go really like your type. You were sharing room with an unrepentant olosho, then God delivered you… and you’re still trying to go back to Egypt?! Ha!

You’re addicted to her toto that’s your problem. You enjoy the calls and she sees you as a weak man that’s why she can cheat on you anyhow she likes. I foresee her returning to you and you end up fathering another man’s child. Very weak man of this generation tueh

EmptyGarden:
You’re a very confident mumu man! Women go really like your type. You were sharing room with an unrepentant olosho, then God delivered you… and you’re still trying to go back to Egypt?! Ha!

I'm never going back.

StPete:
You’re addicted to her toto that’s your problem. You enjoy the calls and she sees you as a weak man that’s why she can cheat on you anyhow she likes. I foresee her returning to you and you end up fathering another man’s child. Very weak man of this generation tueh

I wasn't weak... If I was weak, she'll still be under my roof till now. I'm just asking of a nice way to stop her from calling.

Webdevpro:


I wasn't weak... .

Guy, you are a WEAK man boy

EmptyGarden:
You’re a very confident mumu man! Women go really like your type. You were sharing room with an unrepentant olosho, then God delivered you… and you’re still trying to go back to Egypt?! Ha!

it's just another episode of simps and their wails... I enjoy reading the stories of foolish men...

You have a sex buddy and you think you are in a relationship

Continue until she dash u HIV as a farewell gift. Avoidance avoidance is the best defense mechanism.

Block her and move on...

Webdevpro:


I wasn't weak... If I was weak, she'll still be under my roof till now. I'm just asking of a nice way to stop her from calling.

But you cried and begged her to come back but she refused.

What is the cause of this sudden proliferation of simps in Nigeria? I'll like to do a research on it someday when I have the time.

Webdevpro:


I wasn't weak... If I was weak, she'll still be under my roof till now. I'm just asking of a nice way to stop her from calling.

You categorically said she moved her things out herself so it wasn’t as if you’re the one that sent her packing. She decides when to move out, she decides when to visit, she decides when to call you, heck she even decides when to fvck you. If these aren’t signs of weakness, tell me what is

thesicilian:
What is the cause of this sudden proliferation of simps in Nigeria? I'll like to do a research on it someday when I have the time.

It’s shocking I must tell you and equally irritating

She cheated on you for three good times and u forgive her, what about the ones she didn't tell you or get caught. I can overlook many other things in a relationship but not cheating. Manchi you a simp

Okay I think I can actually relate but the truth is, it's pointless trying to stop her from calling just don't give her the attention you used to when you were both in a relationship in other words you could choose to ignore or decline her calls if u want to or better still tell her you are busy or something. In what ever you do with her don't let your emotions control you. Stay toxic king

Webdevpro:
Good morning nairalanders.

I've been dating this girl for about 3yrs. Initially it was sweet and rosy untl she cheated. First time I forgave her then she repeated it again with another guy, still I forgave and yet again she did it with another guy. My attitudes towards her changed and although I loved her, I just started changing my attitude towards her and for the past 1yr we fight and quarrel all the time but cos I love her I'll still go to apologize to her and trying to make things work.

She practically has been staying with me all these years, we live like we're married. So we quarrelled about 2months ago and she moved her things out of the hse, which is her regular routine every time we quarrel. I tried to talk to her to settle things out but she refused. I tried my best and got tired until 2 weeks ago I agreed to the breakup she has always been asking for after her friend told me she already has a new bf.

Now after that day, she has been calling me everyday till today, she calls and randomly paid visit once, the second time she wanted to come visit I was not at home. I've made up my mind to move on but this her act of calling everyday, I'm not comfortable with it. Should I block her Or instruct her to never call me again (although I feel that'll be harsh) I'm a very gentle man and the least word that will hurt a woman, I don't like uttering it.

She told her friend nobody ever made love to her like I do and for that reason she always want to come back to me but just for sex. But I believe one day, she'll get over this sex thing that's intoxicating her and probably stick to the dude she'll be having in her life.. The one time she visited we had sex. That was about a week ago and yesterday she wanted to come visit but I wasn't home.

So what do you all advise I do.

Some girls fit mumu

Omo move on nd don't even let her com or else she go de bill u nd dash u hiv

Webdevpro:


I wasn't weak... If I was weak, she'll still be under my roof till now. I'm just asking of a nice way to stop her from calling.

There's no nice way to tell her to stop calling other than Telling Her to stop calling you

The kind of things I read here they make me wonder if men still dey again, can you listen to this useless SIMP. Under ur roof ur prostitute girlfriend cheated on you 3times and you forgive her, now she have moved out of ur hux and you are now seeking advice on weather you should move on, go and ask your father. Go and bring her back, Na HIV or AIDS she go give you this time around. Guy you are fucking useless for bring up this crap this morning.

She takes your gentleness for granted


Just be careful before she infest you with STDs

Webdevpro:


I have moved on, but I'm not cool with her calling everyday.. what can I do about it ?

Start ignoring her calls until she gets the message

StPete:


You categorically said she moved her things out herself so it wasn’t as if you’re the one that sent her packing. She decides when to move out, she decides when to visit, she decides when to call you, heck she even decides when to fvck you. If these aren’t signs of weakness, tell me what is

MEHN, I TIRE O!

[quote author=Webdevpro post=123887409]Good morning nairalanders.

I've been dating this girl for about 3yrs. Initially it was sweet and rosy untl she cheated. First time I forgave her then she repeated it again with another guy, still I forgave and yet again she did it with another guy. My attitudes towards her changed and although I loved her, I just started changing my attitude towards her and for the past 1yr we fight and quarrel all the time but cos I love her I'll still go to apologize to her and trying to make things work.

She practically has been staying with me all these years, we live like we're married. So we quarrelled about 2months ago and she moved her things out of the hse, which is her regular routine every time we quarrel. I tried to talk to her to settle things out but she refused. I tried my best and got tired until 2 weeks ago I agreed to the breakup she has always been asking for after her friend told me she already has a new bf.
YOU'LL KNOW WHAT TO DO WEN U REALLY KNOW WHAT TO DO.

Lataability:
The kind of things I read here they make me wonder if men still dey again, can you listen to this useless SIMP. Under ur roof ur prostitute girlfriend cheated on you 3times and you forgive her, now she have moved out of ur hux and you are now seeking advice on weather you should move on, go and ask your father. Go and bring her back, Na HIV or AIDS she go give you this time around. Guy you are fucking useless for bring up this crap this morning.

😃😃😃. Calm down, abeg.

When will the 2024 Cup begin?

What a weak mofo... I couldn't even read past her triple cheating on u and u still going to beg.. if u were my child I would bury u alive because u definitely can't be from me