guobe:
I was in a conversation with a girl after she posted on her WhatsApp status that you use to call me everyday before now but now you nolonger call.
I asked her why her boyfriend nolonger calls her and she said that he is always busy. In my mind I feel if a guy really likes a girl there is nothing that will make him to be too busy to give his girlfriend all the attention she deserves.Just my thought though.

Samantha124:
Not even to say "hello, how are you? I was just checking on you"

Come on... Even when you're working you keep taking breaks... You don't just work from morning to evening without taking any breaks.

peedeeasobie:




To give his girlfriend all the attention she deserves? Are you serious? Is he that jobless?

Any girl who gets all the attention she deserves must be dating a lazy man. Men don't have time to be calling girls all the time.

Understood that if the boyfriend doesn't call at all then something is wrong...

Silentgroper:
those breaks dont mean nothing.. Being mentally stressed can be overwhelming... It's like a mood thing.. It's nt an intentional neglect..

donbachi:
she dig your style

Natbrowny:
Relying to a Nigerian Girls status is a NO NO. 98% trap.

U'll see stuffs like

I'm lonely
Need a new phone
Boring weekend
Need someone to take me out
Data has finished.
Lol true most times and it works like magic.se se no go kill these girls
In these posts. She's sure of getting 8 reactions from 10 contacts she has.. 5 outta those 8 will drop some rabas. In the data aspect for instance, She'll gather d raba and have more data than the 5 people combined.

Coded moves.

UptownVibes:
Her breakfst is ready to be served..

faceLAGOS:
I made a mistake of giving a girl my whole attention when it was difficult for me to barely have time to scratch myself.

Beech didn’t worth it.

JOACHINpedro:
You guys must have made it so big to have free time.
That complaint came to me but babe no understand say na future I dey plan set for us. Figured it's better to be single than to be guilt tripped of not giving attention.
I don't really blame her, distance relationship is hard to maintain for a hustler

guobe:
some girls are like that not all though

guobe:
better breakfast with ogbono soup

Ireportlive:
Quickly run am and keep shut

Samantha124:
Those breaks mean something if you really care.

Being an adult alone is mentally stressing, but we mustn't stop caring for those we love just because of work.

Because immediately you start always talking of how you're busy, there's gonna be a time whereby your partner will stop caring and she'll look elsewhere for the attention she needs, next thing you'll be saying women are wicked, when you're the wicked one.

Even your children won't have a close bond with you and by the time they're older, they will always be too busy for you too, but have time for their mother... Next thing you'll be saying the mother has turned your children against you, when you would've turned them against you.

Learn to balance between work and your personal life.

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Silentgroper:
.. now you're starting to stress me mentally ...


go through my post . you'd see where I wrote it doesn't happen intentionally ...

we can't just seem tap out from the feeling most times .


your lots needs to understand that .


it's not always about you females...

Samantha124:
Tell me this, how would you feel if that one person you love and care about is also always busy to even call and check up on you?

You're in a relationship or marriage, but you feel like you're single.

How would you feel?

Silentgroper:
I'd be reasonable and inquire when she's less busy esp the day/ days..





Then after, if no changes .. my emotions may get the better of me

Samantha124:
You see? This is what I meant.

And it's not only just the relationship that'll suffer, but your friendships with others will also suffer... You'll only be left with your colleagues in the end, the colleagues that also have their own lives to live immediately they leave the workplace.

Your relationship with your children will also be affected if you're going to allow work to take up all your family time.

What kind of a job do you do? If you don't mind me asking.

Silentgroper:



That's why they all fvcking need to understand...


I'm working for their scrawny asses .....



Well there's the weekends ...


weekends should be enough to make up for their starving attention of me..



I'm a sonographer on the route to becoming a radiologist ..

guobe:
lol which game again

guobe:
I was in a conversation with a girl after she posted on her WhatsApp status that you use to call me everyday before now but now you nolonger call.
I asked her why her boyfriend nolonger calls her and she said that he is always busy. In my mind I feel if a guy really likes a girl there is nothing that will make him to be too busy to give his girlfriend all the attention she deserves.Just my thought though.

Samantha124:
But sonographers and radiologists don't work as much as medical doctors and nurses do.

So what will be preventing you from just calling and checking up on the people close to you?

Sometimes you'd even find those radiologists just sitting and doing nothing.

Silentgroper:



you don't live in Nigeria so you wouldn't know that ...


sonography is not just only abt pregnancy..



Well no one complains abt me not checking up on them .

Besides it's not like I wouldn't .

I eventually check up on them

but it might not just be as frequent aa they expect like a gf or wife would want .


when I'm spaced and I get in that mood, I usually do ..

Samantha124:
Truth be told, your job is not demanding.

Silentgroper:
and you know that how ?? .. you know nothing if you're not in the same field . .



Once you live in Nigeria ... All kinds of job becomes tasking, demanding and whatnots...


c'est Fini ..



I go no further....


Now lemme go check up on dorcas

guobe:
long distance relationship this period is even more expensive with the fuel subsidy brouhaha. If you can survive long distance relationship this period then you can survive anything in life

JOACHINpedro:

Lol, I don't see relationship as work hence I can't sacrifice my time and safety traveling to see somebody's daughter that I call gf. Nah, it's not worth it for me.

Michaelspresh:
You're right tho

When a man starts forming busy...I'll just know something's up

Obarofrederick:
what if, he was not forming? What if, he was really busy?

guobe:
I was in a conversation with a girl after she posted on her WhatsApp status that you use to call me everyday before now but now you nolonger call.
I asked her why her boyfriend nolonger calls her and she said that he is always busy. In my mind I feel if a guy really likes a girl there is nothing that will make him to be too busy to give his girlfriend all the attention she deserves.Just my thought though.