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Sex Is Not Love. by RTID: 6:53am On Jun 26, 2023
Whenever there’s an infidelity scandal involving a man, some people will bring up the picture of the wife and put it beside the side chic and begin to compare their beauty and ask what the man was looking for that he wasn’t getting from his wife.

I sincerely hope that one day you people will understand that cheating has nothing to do with the physical features of a man’s wife.

A beautiful wife does not stop cheating. Jay Z cheated on a whole Beyoncé.

A wife that acts porn in the bedroom with her husband does not stop cheating. If you like give him snake in the monkey shadow style, it does not stop cheating.

An educated wife does not stop cheating. We have seen too many stories of husbands cheating with illiterate house helps that came from the village.

Wearing sexy clothes inside the house does not stop cheating. If you like wear pant to cook, your man will still cheat on you on that girl that wears Hijab 24/7.

Cheating is 100% the urge to satisfy a guilty pleasure and the only thing that can prevent it is discipline and of course, the special grace of God.

And I have to say this even if the entire world will disagree with me, it doesn’t mean that the cheater does not love his wife. Cheating is wrong, it is a sin against God and the wedding vows the man took but it doesn’t mean that the man now despises his wife and doesn’t love her anymore.

Love for men is rarely emotional, it is deeply practical and rooted in provision, security and responsibility to their wives. A married man that leaves town and sleeps with a random girl in a hotel has sinned against his God and his wife and betrayed his wedding vows. It doesn’t mean that he no longer loves his wife, or that she is not beautiful or sexy or that she doesn’t give him peace at home. We sin against God everyday, does this mean we no longer love him?

SEX IS NOT LOVE.

It is also not the woman’s fault that her husband cheated. The only person responsible for cheating is the man.

You can now insult me.

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Re: Sex Is Not Love. by Cassandraloius: 6:59am On Jun 26, 2023
Your definition of sinning everyday tho, let me ask you this question, if you have a child that steals your money everyday and steals meat from the pot, would you just leave him to keep doing this everyday and say he does it everyday and you're used to it?
Mtcheew... Let's call a spade a spade!
Re: Sex Is Not Love. by Jashub: 7:01am On Jun 26, 2023
What about the scenarios where the woman constantly disrespects the man and provides nothing but trauma and anxiety? Whose fault will that be ? The man or the woman ...?

Or how about women who are married yet keep behaving like their single to get male attention? Whose fault is that....its the man's abi?lipsrsealed
Re: Sex Is Not Love. by donbachi(m): 7:01am On Jun 26, 2023
Formication and adultery is not a sin against God.rather,sin against your body.
Re: Sex Is Not Love. by Edipet(m): 7:08am On Jun 26, 2023
And love does not exist

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Re: Sex Is Not Love. by CJStarz: 7:18am On Jun 26, 2023
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Re: Sex Is Not Love. by Blakjewelry(m): 7:38am On Jun 26, 2023
RTID:
Whenever there’s an infidelity scandal involving a man, some people will bring up the picture of the wife and put it beside the side chic and begin to compare their beauty and ask what the man was looking for that he wasn’t getting from his wife.

I sincerely hope that one day you people will understand that cheating has nothing to do with the physical features of a man’s wife.

A beautiful wife does not stop cheating. Jay Z cheated on a whole Beyoncé.

A wife that acts porn in the bedroom with her husband does not stop cheating. If you like give him snake in the monkey shadow style, it does not stop cheating.

An educated wife does not stop cheating. We have seen too many stories of husbands cheating with illiterate house helps that came from the village.

Wearing sexy clothes inside the house does not stop cheating. If you like wear pant to cook, your man will still cheat on you on that girl that wears Hijab 24/7.

Cheating is 100% the urge to satisfy a guilty pleasure and the only thing that can prevent it is discipline and of course, the special grace of God.

And I have to say this even if the entire world will disagree with me, it doesn’t mean that the cheater does not love his wife. Cheating is wrong, it is a sin against God and the wedding vows the man took but it doesn’t mean that the man now despises his wife and doesn’t love her anymore.

Love for men is rarely emotional, it is deeply practical and rooted in provision, security and responsibility to their wives. A married man that leaves town and sleeps with a random girl in a hotel has sinned against his God and his wife and betrayed his wedding vows. It doesn’t mean that he no longer loves his wife, or that she is not beautiful or sexy or that she doesn’t give him peace at home. We sin against God everyday, does this mean we no longer love him?

SEX IS NOT LOVE.

It is also not the woman’s fault that her husband cheated. The only person responsible for cheating is the man.

You can now insult me.
All these na mumu talk. The society gives man the edge to cheat because them know say if the woman is allowed, their own go worst. You think the women don't have the urge to cheat?
Some people will tell you women Bleep with their heart my brother na lie. Right from time immemorial all the world religion are dominated by men they wrote the religious do they rein the women in. Do you know there culture in the world were women are allowed to do what they want sexually?
Omo if you love somebody respect that person, the way you feel when a lady cheat on you that is how they feel when you cheat on them.

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Re: Sex Is Not Love. by Muhammad234: 7:56am On Jun 26, 2023
So person no fit enjoy
Re: Sex Is Not Love. by talented321: 8:34am On Jun 26, 2023
What i observe in this social media age is women want to compete with their husbands in all ramification except expenses, imagine the ones up their.
Re: Sex Is Not Love. by Donire: 1:32pm On Jun 26, 2023
Take it or leave it , 99.9% of men you end up marrying will cheat on you. Is just the level of comfort or what he sees as comfort. Once he attend it, cheating sure.
For this world wey naked and daughters of evil full. temptation sure .

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