Let's settle this..
Is sêx necessary during dating? I mean is it important for a guy to have sêx with his girlfriend when dating?

Logically yes because it's part of what you guys will use to confirm your compatibility.

Some people that avoided sex before marriage later found out some hidden unacceptable things.

Although Christians will say no, logically yes

That girl u dey call ur girlfriend is not ur girlfriend until u bleep her' bleeping is a mutual agreement that she has accept to date you not with ordinary mouth.
I must bleep u up to 200 times before we talk about about proposal and another 200 times before wedding' thank u.

Lashing won't be necessary so long billing won't also occur..

Dating is not sex, Nigerian men have turned everything upside down

IconicR:
Dating is not sex, Nigerian men have turned everything upside down

Flowing from your premise one can also assert that dating is not begging for money.

Take out sex and money and see 95 percent of relationship crashing.

Dating is about knowing someone and understanding compatibility traits with the same person.

ExudeLoveToAll:


Flowing from your premise one can also assert that dating is not begging for money.

Take out sex and money and see 95 percent of relationship crashing.

Dating is about knowing someone and understanding compatibility traits with the same person.

Why equate sex with money? You modern men have lost it

IconicR:
Why equate sex with money? You modern men have lost it

You cannot approbate and reprobate at the same time.

What has money got to do in getting to know someone? Do you require money to be given as a condition to knowing someone? Just as sex isn't required to get to know who someone is that is how money isn't required to get to know someone.

Personally I tell you what I do, money isn't a criteria so is sex, I remove the two from the equation any Lady standing I will go with.

Ladies don't see anything wrong in removing sex from the equation but see something wrong in removing money, getting to know someone has nothing to do with sex and money.

Getting to know someone isn't a job description therefore money isn't required just as sex isn't required.

No it is not, in truth it is very wrong. Avoid that route, because you don't really like her; instead, you're just looking to sate your lust and give the relationship a fancy label like "dating" to cover it. Bro, run away from immorality and youthful passion.

Yes, having sex with her is very important during courtship so you can be sure that her pússy is still in good condition

It's not necessary. And it is necessary you don't make it necessary as instructed by your maker.

If you truly love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them can you accept every non necessary about them including their past mistakes, dick size and failures.

It's unfortunate the world we leave in today is a world where we taunt people that decided to remain chaste and glorify those that are readily available for the streets. Pathetic I must say.

Ashawo don give advice 😂😂

Womanizer:
Yes, having sex with her is very important during courtship so you can be sure that her pússy is still in good condition

Sex is the top purpose why people date, especially in Nigeria.

No, it's not, same way spending is not necessary during dating.

So after determining incompatibility or irreconcilable differences, you jump to the next one with the emotional and sexual baggage of the previous and start afresh ?

Now do this ten times, and tell me you are okay. This is not even to count casual sex which many people don't consider as body count. So no, you should not be having sex recklessly. You violate your body.

But I understand say I dey waste my time. This generation is the most sexually messed up, that merely stating the simple fact of abstinence will be met with vehement anger.

This thing is complicated somehow oo

Coz… lemme just keep quite.

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Depends on what you really want, and who your partner is.

No

Ekelejoseph:
Let's settle this..
Is sêx necessary during dating? I mean is it important for a guy to have sêx with his girlfriend when dating?

Not really for me, in the past I used to have sex but not anymore. I usually feel guilt of fornication.

Today you are friends, tomorrow you are washing each other linens in public and wishing them ill.

Skin to skin,sweat to sweat,body to body...then tomorrow it's all over. Doesn't make one sense.

qtguru:


Not really for me, in the past I used to have sex but not anymore. I usually feel guilt of fornication.

ha

zakkyzakes:
ha

So me je Saint obi ni ?

It shouldn't be o..

qtguru:


So me je Saint obi ni ?

it's the fact that you used to feel guilty before nhi sir🥲

zakkyzakes:
it's the fact that you used to feel guilty before nhi sir🥲

Religious upbringing.

qtguru:


Not really for me, in the past I used to have sex but not anymore. I usually feel guilt of fornication.

Hello Sir

Can I send you a PM via email?

I don't know if it's fine by you. But I would appreciate if we could share contact and communicate directly via whatapp.

I actually want to learn a lot from you. Not like tutoring directly, but guidance and advise.

pansophist:
No, it's not, same way spending is not necessary during dating.

So after determining incompatibility or irreconcilable differences, you jump to the next one with the emotional and sexual baggage of the previous and start afresh ?

Now do this ten times, and tell me you are okay. This is not even to count casual sex which many people don't consider as body count. So no, you should not be having sex recklessly. You violate your body.

But I understand say I dey waste my time. This generation is the most sexually messed up, that merely stating the simple fact of abstinence will be met with vehement anger.

Thank God that it is coming from a Don too. Sincerely speaking God's way is the best. No sex before marriage. Because true love can be decided based on attributes, character and values and not merely on feelings. This is a generation of feelings and not foundation. So If I feel it for him, I be with him, then if the feelings are gone, I go away. This method of sexual feelings alone have wrecked relationships, marriages etc. Why will a man wed a woman who knows all the girth and sizes of men's dick. She knows the required length of time to spend with her. It is a bleeped up system where women want care(money) , attention and compliments without giving anything in return. And the only thing that is free, that is not hard, that they will be the one to enjoy the most, they still don't wanna give. So what will a man gain by dating a woman who has nothing to offer including sex. Sex is the only thing easy for them to offer, and that's why men demand sex as a reward for their input too.

Joshmuch:
Thank God that it is coming from a Don too. Sincerely speaking God's way is the best. No sex before marriage. Because true love can be decided based on attributes, character and values and not merely on feelings. This is a generation of feelings and not foundation. So If I feel it for him, I be with him, then if the feelings are gone, I go away. This method of sexual feelings alone have wrecked relationships, marriages etc. Why will a man wed a woman who knows all the girth and sizes of men's dick. She knows the required length of time to spend with her. It is a bleeped up system where women want care(money) , attention and compliments without giving anything in return. And the only thing that is free, that is not hard, that they will be the one to enjoy the most, they still don't wanna give. So what will a man gain by dating a woman who has nothing to offer including sex. Sex is the only thing easy for them to offer, and that's why men demand sex as a reward for their input too.

Any love that is based on feelings, I don't want it. If it's based on vibes, attraction, lifestyle, or her desire for soft life, it's a very useless love to me.

Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that you shouldn't be attracted to who you settle with, but it should not be the core. Those things fade and become stale, but duty, character, and a firm commitment to the marriage should be the foundation.

Like a car, the engine will determine if you will reach your destination, not if the car is fine. A good relationship is built on a good engine, not vibes, and attraction.

I want a love that is based on virtues, character, and duty. That is how I understand love. I do not want a love where I am not a ¨human being¨, but a ¨human doing¨ to a woman.

Where to her, marriage is about conquering me, instead of teaming up let's conquer the world together. Where she just wants to move in and enjoy, and justify her gold-digging with all kinds of tricks in the book.

Trick such as the crying in the Lamborghini nonsense, hold me to tight ridiculous traditional standards where she herself has been nacked at least ten times by other men that didn't give her marriage. Traditionalism where it benefits her, and modernity when it doesn't. A chameleon.

dreamxhaser:


Hello Sir

Can I send you a PM via email?

I don't know if it's fine by you. But I would appreciate if we could share contact and communicate directly via whatapp.

I actually want to learn a lot from you. Not like tutoring directly, but guidance and advise.

Send Me an email I'll reply with my number

qtguru:


Religious upbringing.

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