MrBrownJay1:


BWAAAAAAH you must have amnesia, by all means let me refresh your memory with the below footballers then...
RYAN GIGGS's wife divorced him because of cheating, he had to pay her $52m divorce settlement.
PATRICK EVRA's wife also divorced him due to cheating and having 2 bastard children while being married to her.
THIERRY HENRY's wife divorced him after he had an affair. he had to pay her $8m divorce settlement.
ASHLEY COLE'S wife divorced him after he cheated, she got $4.5m settlement even though she had a $20m fortune of her own.
LOUIS SAHA lost half his fortune thanks to divorce, but instead of infidelity, it was gambling addiction that crashed their marriage.
WESLEY SNEJDER's wife divorced him over infidelity and took away 15m divorce settlement too.
DANY ALVES's wife divorced him due to infidelity as well.
DAVID JAMES's wife divorced him after cheating rumor and got $3m divorce settlement
ACHRAF HAKIMI's wife divorced him after he had an affair (that the babe claimed was rape while he claimed it was consensual). he was lucky to dodge that massive bullet.

IconicR:
So a man can cheat and go scort free while a woman who cheats deserves no mercy or forgiveness, how do you feel typing that?

IconicR:
What I've realized is men don't forgive cheating, it's best you walk away as the lady else you are married or in a relationship with yourself. Even men that are chronic cheats hates cheating the most, isn't it ridiculous?

Tallesty1:
When you forgive a woman something she didn't expect you to, she will punish you dearly for it

IconicR:
All your thing na bill bill bill hian. What kind of man will be comfortable having his woman pay bills

IconicR:
That's obsession at it's peak which is very bad. You simply walk away if a marriage is affecting your sanity, you can't change a man from his ways just because he's your husband, the decision to live responsibly and respect his vows is solely his to make.

IconicR:
If I pack out because my husband cheats and he had the guts to bring in the girl he cheated with then I'll forever be thankful for taking that decision. Real men put in great effort to mend their issues and go all out to keep their home intact and not allow randines break it. Well, I'll never marry rubbish as a husband, never.

jimmychang:



I pity you my guy.You will never forget even if you forgive.Go and read about couples who reconcile I mean good reconciliation not the one you will just forget ooh and pretend it didn't happen.It will take years and your marriage will never be the same.You also will never be the same. .How will you trust her you go always dey wonder if she comot for house.Dey imagine things.

Your wife will be in love with whoever she is cheating with.She might not stop loving him even if you forgive her.She will blame you gaslight you and worst case scenario sleep with the man on your bed.

And before you forgive anybody make sure they are showing true remorse not the please please because they are caught,because If you forgive my guy she will do it again and blame you ontop self.

IconicR:
Cheating sabi pain Dem ehn 😂😂😂😂. Only good men go get good women, you can't explore the brothel life to the maximum and expect a good woman to inherit your baggages lailai. Thank God say virgin scarce 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you all don't deserve it

correctguy101:


I know men who had done that. Caught their woman and some guy pants down but accepted them back. It's a personal thing. Not all men will chase their woman away.

ask4bk:


You speaking and thinking exactly like the majority bandwagon who can't really love in truth.
Forgiving never means to forget. Even wounds for your body Dey create scars that never disappear. Yet you healed the wound and face the scar daily with joy cause its healed.
Of course you can't forget, but will do everything to heal your ill partner. When you do, you'll feel joy to have helped the person.

ask4bk:


You speaking and thinking exactly like the majority bandwagon who can't really love in truth.
Forgiving never means to forget. Even wounds for your body Dey create scars that never disappear. Yet you healed the wound and face the scar daily with joy cause its healed.
Of course you can't forget, but will do everything to heal your ill partner. When you do, you'll feel joy to have helped the person.

SawD007:


I understand your view, but don't call people people seeing things in perspective as bandwagon. Have you lived or currently living through the experience as a man? ... If a woman cheat on you, she already left you out of her mind. It's not about you the forgiver but the willness of the accuse to stop the act. Let's face life for what it is. REALITY.

SawD007:


Don't bbe too sure my guy. There are some damn good planners that love to get back to betrayals by keeping them close. Worst situation than going different ways.

Godoverevery:

Does the change the fact both Terry and Wayne cheated and there wife didn't leave??
It common sense nah.......not every woman leave there husband because of cheating and it has nothing do with part of the world.

glolomoh:


No. The marriage was less than 6 months when the incident happened.

slan87:


@bukola98 n @areafada2, I said it earlier due to my experience but a brother here said they forgive wholeheartedly.

I see no reason to argue with him cause I would agree with him that woman are all wired differently.

IconicR:
All your thing na bill bill bill hian. What kind of man will be comfortable having his woman pay bills

cococandy:
That is still nairaland fairytale. Total hogwash

But even if it were true, when you’re expected to be the sole provider of a home in which you do nothing else (because every other task is beneath you), I don’t see what the issue is. You made your beds with your championing of strict gender roles. Lay in it .

doyin01:


All these idiots keep shouting nairaland fairytale ...any small thing nairaland fairytale..meanwhile same opinions are seen on different social media platforms..any small thing she go dey shout nairaland....as if your life depends only on nairaland...mtchewwww

Empty barrels always making the loudest noise....

Thank God for nairaland..some of you won't even have any meaningful existence...idiot

SawD007:


I understand your view, but don't call people people seeing things in perspective as bandwagon. Have you lived or currently living through the experience as a man? ... If a woman cheat on you, she already left you out of her mind. It's not about you the forgiver but the willness of the accuse to stop the act. Let's face life for what it is. REALITY.

ask4bk:


What of when we men cheat?
I'm sure your standard for us will be different

Skyview01:
Yes after we must have had a long conversation and if she is remorseful and willing to put in the hard work to gain my trust.

Rayban25:


ibeere IELTS.

if he cheats on you, the worst you can do is get angry divorce him. na you go still go back your papa house and start from square one dey try find who go marry you