DodadaKoKigbe:


How? Because he escaped from a violent father?

lol...you can pretend all you want, ain't no replacement for fatherly love. The highest the government will do for him is to move him from one dysfunctional foster home to another until he grows to become a mentally deranged man..

LegallyBlunt:
Indiscipline rules the UK. Most of their teachers are running to the Middle East for more money and respect kids there give them. As a parent, you dare not hit your child.

If you wan japa, hold your hand and caution yourself ooo. Ehen.

The kids in the UK KNOW that their parents, teachers, police and ALL adults are afraid of them and they capitalize on it. These kids animals are feral.

Secondary school girls dress and make up like porn stars and their teachers dare not correct them. The boys and a lot of the girls are in gangs and some of the boys are drug dealers possessing guns and knives to protect their drug dealing turfs.

Its a ticking time bomb waiting to explode and sooner or later they will be attacking adults in the streets. They've actually started doing that already.

I've already told my younger brother who has 3 boys to allow them complete University in Naija before venturing abroad if he doesn't want them to lose their culture but its up to him to listen.

A few weeks ago, I saw a 9 or 10 year old mixed race boy playing football outside my glass window and I came out and told him football is not allowed in the front garden of the flats. His Oyinbo Mum came out of nowhere and asked me what right I have to speak to her son like that and I told her there are council notices all around saying No ball games and she said I should let the council tell them that themselves. When I told her that I would call the police, she said I should let the police talk to them themselves. I just went back inside and made a mental note that sooner rather than later, I will leave this UK for the Mums and their unruly feral kids.

In the UK, children as young as 5 are being kicked out of school for watching porn at school and for 'sexual misconduct' ?

Between 2013 and 2017, just in England,700 children were expelled from school for sexual misconduct, abuse, assault and sharing indecent images.

Less than 3 weeks ago, a Maths teacher at a school in the UK was stabbed by a 15 year old pupil in the school corridor around 9am.

In 2014, a 61-year-old female teacher was stabbed to death while teaching a Spanish lesson at a school in the UK. The perpetrator, was a 15 year old pupil when he committed the murder and was sentenced to life imprisonment with a minimum of 20 years. The boys grouse was that he did not understand the subject and he boasted to his classmates beforehand that he was going to do something newsworthy later that day.

Some years ago, a headmaster was stabbed to death in London by a 15-year-old as he went to the rescue of a pupil being attacked.

Apparently its all over Western Europe as a Female teacher aged 54 in France was stabbed to death in front of a packed class by a 16-year-old pupil who claimed to be 'possessed by the devil'.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/education/education-news/children-as-young-five-being-excluded-for-sexual-misconduct-pornography-assault-a7883156.html

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2017/aug/09/english-schools-excluded-700-children-for-sexual-misconduct-in-past-four-years

https://metro.co.uk/2023/07/11/maths-teacher-stabbed-by-pupil-in-school-corridor-releases-statement-19110080/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Ann_Maguire

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwiIhNuHtrKAAxVSU0EAHcZBCecQFnoECBUQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.independent.co.uk%2Fvoices%2Fmy-gentle-headmaster-was-stabbed-to-death-for-protecting-a-pupil-20-years-on-we-ve-learned-so-very-little-a6765271.html&usg=AOvVaw0nNGpSk4408aa5Vpi8ASt5&opi=89978449

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11780009/Female-teacher-stabbed-death-student-class-France.html

Ashirioluwa:
This mama is in the UK just to gossip

No mind am. She no look like who get husband for house.

These UK based women are part of the problem. They pamper and spoil the kids rotten just to ensure that the kids love them more than their disciplinarian fathers and to ensure it is easier to form a cartel against the man that forces him out of the family home when she is ready to start claiming single mother payments from the Government in the UK (which is the single parent capital of Europe).

A LOT of times, these women animals in conjunction with UK Police force / kick the fathers out of the house and then they find it hard to control the unruly kids especially the boys.

Karma / law of retributive justice is catching up with some of these women whose sons raised in a single mother household turn round and shoot / stab their own mothers to death both in the UK and in America.

In the first url below, a 21 year old Nigerian boy stabs his single Mum to death.

In the second url, an American 10 year old 'shoots his mum dead after she refused to buy him a virtual reality headset'. His 44-year-old mother was shot at close range. The bullet entered her right eye and exited the back of her head through her skull, the criminal complaint said. The worrying fact is that a day after shooting and killing his Mum, the 10 year old boy went on to buy a Virtual Reality Headset on his dead mother's Amazon account and even asked his grandmother whether his package had arrived, according to the criminal complaint.

In another US story, a 14 year old boy shoots and kills his single Mum as she lay sleeping on the sofa because she would not allow him to join a gang.

Intentional single motherhood is a curse on the black race.

https://www.echo-news.co.uk/news/12889108.conflicting-views-on-mental-state-of-son-who-killed-his-mum/

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/10-year-old-wisconsin-boy-charged-adult-fatal-shooting-mother-amazon-o-rcna59605

FacilitatorLekk:

It's discipline, you better whip your child if they are unruly or that child might beat you one day. I have never hear of kid serial killers in Nigeria, it's due to the discipline factor. Live in mars in peace, don't try to tell us in Africa how to discipline the young.

You can’t show me where I tried telling you how to discipline the young—that’s because I never tried doing it in the first place.

being:
SMH
So a parent will just give an instructions and a 2 yọ will just obeying?!! Are u in this world?

Yes, I’m in this world but maybe you live in a different world—a world where 2 year olds can understand, act, and behave like a teenager. If a 2 year old doesn’t follow the parents instructions, it’s probably because he or she doesn’t fully understand what the parent is wanting them to do. Maybe you didn’t know but some 2 year olds still wear diapers and the ones who don’t wore diapers not long ago—what can a child that was still crawling a year or so ago so to make a parent brutally flog him and slam his head against the wall?

FacilitatorLekk:

It's discipline, you better whip your child if they are unruly or that child might beat you one day. I have never hear of kid serial killers in Nigeria, it's due to the discipline factor. Live in mars in peace, don't try to tell us in Africa how to discipline the young.

This is what happens when you grow up in a society that focuses more on violence than knowledge

Go and actually read up on serial killers. Most of them grew up in dysfunctional homes with cruel parents. That is where their disconnect with empathy began - from cruelty to them as children.

https://www.crimetraveller.org/2015/07/serial-killers-childhood-abuse/

GloriousGbola:


This is what happens when you grow up in a society that focuses more on violence than knowledge

Go and actually read up on serial killers. Most of them grew up in dysfunctional homes with cruel parents. That is where their disconnect with empathy began - from cruelty to them as children.

https://www.crimetraveller.org/2015/07/serial-killers-childhood-abuse/

Hogwash, what do you have to say about the declining morality of kids in America, no respect etc, seems soft persuasion ain't working over there.

FacilitatorLekk:

Hogwash, what do you have to say about the declining morality of kids in America, no respect etc, seems soft persuasion ain't working over there.

You wrote a complete load of crap that I responded to.

Now you are writing another load of crap

Our army of yahoo boys, colos users, hookup geng, are a sigh of our rising morality?

Where were campus cultists raised? What of area boys? What of kidnappers? Or bandits? Or killer policemen?



You see why I say you are more focused on violence than actual knowledge and critical thinking?


This is one of the most amoral societies on the planet, with people who will sell fake drugs, who will sicc robbers/kidnappers on to you, who will defend rape of children to their last breath, and you are actually blathering about declining morals in the West?

GloriousGbola:


You wrote a complete load of crap that I responded to.

Now you are writing another load of crap

Our army of yahoo boys, colos users, hookup geng, are a sigh of our rising morality?

Where were campus cultists raised? What of area boys? What of kidnappers? Or bandits? Or killer policemen?



You see why I say you are more focused on violence than actual knowledge and critical thinking?


This is one of the most amoral societies on the planet, with people who will sell fake drugs, who will sicc robbers/kidnappers on to you, who will defend rape of children to their last breath, and you are actually blathering about declining morals in the West?

Mumu dumb head, ritualist and killers are doing it for money, but American kids shooting up schools, teenage gang killing themselves and disrespectful to parents are as a result of absence of discipline. They are criminals and robbers/killers in America even more than Nigeria. Clown, enjoy your mars.

FacilitatorLekk:

Mumu dumb head, ritualist and killers are doing it for money, but American kids shooting up schools, teenage gang killing themselves and disrespectful to parents are as a result of absence of discipline. They are criminals and robbers/killers in America even more than Nigeria. Clown, enjoy your mars.

You are a prime example of the complete absence of morals in Nigeria

Ritualists and killers are doing it for money

Good lord!



You have made your own argument

What is the percentage of these people in the society? Can u compare to the degeneration in the western society? Do u also know that some Nigerian parents are becoming lax on discipline?hence an increase in vices

GloriousGbola:


You wrote a complete load of crap that I responded to.

Now you are writing another load of crap

Our army of yahoo boys, colos users, hookup geng, are a sigh of our rising morality?

Where were campus cultists raised? What of area boys? What of kidnappers? Or bandits? Or killer policemen?



You see why I say you are more focused on violence than actual knowledge and critical thinking?


This is one of the most amoral societies on the planet, with people who will sell fake drugs, who will sicc robbers/kidnappers on to you, who will defend rape of children to their last breath, and you are actually blathering about declining morals in the West?

being:
What is the percentage of these people in the society? Can u compare to the degeneration in the western society? Do u also know that some Nigerian parents are becoming lax on discipline?hence an increase in vices

Please stop the bullshit.

I was in university in the 90s at the height of campus cultism. Today yahoo has taken over. What nonsense values led to the prevalence of violent crime and then financial crimes by our youth?

Why is it the well brought up Nigerians are being profiled and banned from Dubai and Seychelles and other countries? The other joker has already said everything in his response to me

FacilitatorLekk:

Mumu dumb head, ritualist and killers are doing it for money,

Great.. u saw cultists then.. Were up to half of the students cultists? Was it not just a small percentage terrorising the whole school?
U want to compare that to most teenagers belonging to gangs, druggies, uncouth, unruly, violent? Teenagers constituting nuisance in public places?

People as adults will still have to choose btw good and bad but at least such training as kids gives them the discipline to choose some good if they want.
Not people who were unchecked as kid druggies and gang members and grow up wishing they had a check.
Discipline your children, we didn't say kill them!

GloriousGbola:


Please stop the bullshit.

I was in university in the 90s at the height of campus cultism. Today yahoo has taken over. What nonsense values led to the prevalence of violent crime and then financial crimes by our youth?

Why is it the well brought up Nigerians are being profiled and banned from Dubai and Seychelles and other countries? The other joker has already said everything in his response to me

being:
Great.. u saw cultists then.. Were up to half of the students cultists? Was it not just a small percentage terrorising the whole school?
U want to compare that to most teenagers belonging to gangs, druggies, uncouth, unruly, violent? Teenagers constituting nuisance in public places?

People as adults will still have to choose btw good and bad but at least such training as kids gives them the discipline to choose some good if they want.
Not people who were unchecked as kid druggies and gang members and grow up wishing they had a check.
Discipline your children, we didn't say kill them!

And you think all students in us are shooting up schools? Are you capable of critical thinking at all?

You have much worse problems than your misguided obsession with corporal punishment,unfortunately.

GloriousGbola:



You are a prime example of the complete absence of morals in Nigeria

Ritualists and killers are doing it for money

Good lord!



You have made your own argument

Am against all sorts of crimes, but my point is due to the lack of discipline in western countries, children are taking guns to shoot up their school, children fight and have shoot outs with parents etc, it's different from what obtains in Nigeria, the notice here is money.

Ilekokonit:


The kids in the UK KNOW that their parents, teachers, police and ALL adults are afraid of them and they capitalize on it. These kids animals are feral.

Secondary school girls dress and make up like porn stars and their teachers dare not correct them. The boys and a lot of the girls are in gangs and some of the boys are drug dealers possessing guns and knives to protect their drug dealing turfs.

Its a ticking time bomb waiting to explode and sooner or later they will be attacking adults in the streets. They've actually started doing that already.

I've already told my younger brother who has 3 boys to allow them complete University in Naija before venturing abroad if he doesn't want them to lose their culture but its up to him to listen.

A few weeks ago, I saw a 9 or 10 year old mixed race boy playing football outside my glass window and I came out and told him football is not allowed in the front garden of the flats. His Oyinbo Mum came out of nowhere and asked me what right I have to speak to her son like that and I told her there are council notices all around saying No ball games and she said I should let the council tell them that themselves. When I told her that I would call the police, she said I should let the police talk to them themselves. I just went back inside and made a mental note that sooner rather than later, I will leave this UK for the Mums and their unruly feral kids.

In the UK, children as young as 5 are being kicked out of school for watching porn at school and for 'sexual misconduct' ?

Between 2013 and 2017, just in England,700 children were expelled from school for sexual misconduct, abuse, assault and sharing indecent images.

Less than 3 weeks ago, a Maths teacher at a school in the UK was stabbed by a 15 year old pupil in the school corridor around 9am.

In 2014, a 61-year-old female teacher was stabbed to death while teaching a Spanish lesson at a school in the UK. The perpetrator, was a 15 year old pupil when he committed the murder and was sentenced to life imprisonment with a minimum of 20 years. The boys grouse was that he did not understand the subject and he boasted to his classmates beforehand that he was going to do something newsworthy later that day.

Some years ago, a headmaster was stabbed to death in London by a 15-year-old as he went to the rescue of a pupil being attacked.

Apparently its all over Western Europe as a Female teacher aged 54 in France was stabbed to death in front of a packed class by a 16-year-old pupil who claimed to be 'possessed by the devil'.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/education/education-news/children-as-young-five-being-excluded-for-sexual-misconduct-pornography-assault-a7883156.html

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2017/aug/09/english-schools-excluded-700-children-for-sexual-misconduct-in-past-four-years

https://metro.co.uk/2023/07/11/maths-teacher-stabbed-by-pupil-in-school-corridor-releases-statement-19110080/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Ann_Maguire

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwiIhNuHtrKAAxVSU0EAHcZBCecQFnoECBUQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.independent.co.uk%2Fvoices%2Fmy-gentle-headmaster-was-stabbed-to-death-for-protecting-a-pupil-20-years-on-we-ve-learned-so-very-little-a6765271.html&usg=AOvVaw0nNGpSk4408aa5Vpi8ASt5&opi=89978449

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11780009/Female-teacher-stabbed-death-student-class-France.html

Wow! It's actually worse than I thought!

Shooting in the usa is another problem beyond children indiscipline which involves allowing guns indiscriminately..
We are talking about children behaviour generally..
And I'm telling u what u know that the western children are far less well behaved on the avg than Nigerian children.
BTW u sound like d parent that will bring out a belt to deal with his teenager if his misbehaviour goes beyond his paygrade.

GloriousGbola:


And you think all students in us are shooting up schools? Are you capable of critical thinking at all?

You have much worse problems than your misguided obsession with corporal punishment,unfortunately.

TemplarLandry:

Omo

DodadaKoKigbe:


If this statement is true, then why do countries who don't inflict violence on their children in the name of discipline performing better than Nigeria? They perform so much better than some of you will do ANYTHING to migrate there.

Did you just call DISCIPLINING violence??

Ennybouy:



Did you just call DISCIPLINING violence??

If you use violence to 'discipline' your child, you're NOT disciplining, you're TRAUMATIZING.

airsaylongcome:


All he needed to do was reach out to the British High Commission by any means and your sister would have been in a lot of trouble

The sister would be in trouble only if the boy were to be a citizen of UK, right?

DodadaKoKigbe:


If you use violence to 'discipline' your child, you're NOT disciplining, you're TRAUMATIZING.

You are a joker!
Better to 'traumatize' d child than raise an indisciplined bunch like british children!
And what discipline gives to the child is self control... the child can deviate from a training later on if he thinks doesn't need it but he has the self control in that area.. So you can train a child to wake up to wash every morning and he is used to that growing up but then later feels prolonging his sleep is more beneficial to his life.
Or u can discipline him not to steal, grows up and he can do without stealing but gets into Nigerian govt and sees a vast opportunity to steal and sees no clear consequence of the stealing- he feels he will be better off stealing so he joins in it.
It is different from the british teenager who knows the clear consequence of stabbing someone else but just has to do it cos he lacks the discipline(self control)

being:
I am a joke. Teach me how to be a good parent.

Here is the first lesson: If you cannot discipline your child without inflicting violence on your child, then you have ZERO business having children.

ERCROSS:


The sister would be in trouble only if the boy were to be a citizen of UK, right?

Yes. I am assuming the boy is a UK citizen

After reading most of these comments, one would think oyibo do not beat and discipline their children.

The only time oyibo raise hell is when foreigners and Blacks discipline their children while they physically abuse theirs.

White women would not dare report their men for abuse because they know the consequences.

They do not call white men "kill and go" for nothing.

Anyone that think the serial killer, an architect, that was discovered recently was so smart to hide all his killing, is a fool. Those who know, know well before the latest killing.

Nazgul:
From what I've understood and witness about flogging, most parents flog their children out of frustration and not to discipline them.

Take a walk around remote neighborhoods and you'll see first hand wickedness. The way parents there flog their kids, you'll think we're still in the slave era.

You don't have to flog a human being in order to make him/her have a good character. Your life is already a mirror for them. If you train them well, they'll be good. If they see hypocrisy in you and your life doesn't reflect what you're telling them to do, they'll live their lives however they want and become wayward.

This is the 21st century flogging should be banned.

It's obvious you don't have a child yet. Children will naturally want to do the wrong things, you have to correct them sometimes in a subtle manner and other times in a hard way.

Jennyclay:
Send the naughty boy to Nigeria to come learn some respect and manners

That was how my elder sister’s child in this same UK was misbehaving. He mingles with bad gang and if my sister yells at him or try to spank him he won’t hesitate to call the cops on her.

She explained everything to us and My mother told my elder sister to bundle the boy to Nigeria, that she would reset his head.
When he came to Nigeria my mother sent him to Command secondary school Ipaja Lagos state.

Every time we visits him during visiting day, he would cry and beg saying Grand ma please I won’t be stubborn again, I wanna go join my fam in the UK.

He spent 2 years (J.S.S 2 - 3) in command secondary school before he went back to UK. Now he’s a well behaved boy.

brain resetting

greatestdestiny:


Hmm I swear down. Do you know what my 3.6 years old son does. As in it is funny and not funny. When I discipline him at home he tells me he is sorry. Hmmmm but na trick O. Once we get into were proper crowd dey, like malls, he gives me a dirty slap 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 and punch me in the chest.. if I pinch am, the guy go roll for floor scream his life out. I just weak! 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 And once he notices we're heading home, he will hold my hands and call me dad in a very sympathetic way... Hmmmmmmn not easy at all.

that your boy wise I swear.

felong:
Flogging a human being is wrong. What if the child dies.

Until ur born ur own.

Preach this one in ur house and let it remain there.